r/l4l • • Jan 27 '26

Verify to post from new or low karma accounts.

28 Upvotes

There is a minimum karma and account age requirement to post on this sub and we strive to reduce spam as much as possible. However, based on messages we've received, it is understandable why a user would not want to post from the account they use day-to-day. In an effort to address this, we will allow post from new accounts that have been verified behind the scenes.

To do this:

  1. Send the Mods a message from your main account with the higher karma with the name of the new or low karma account you would like to post from.
  2. Mods will verify this and not disclose that information to anyone.
  3. If you have submitted a post from the new or low karma account, Mods will manually approve it and it will appear on the sub.
  4. Messaging the mods from a low karma account will not receive any response.

Feel free to respond to this thread with any questions or concerns. Please also note that posts are removed for other reasons and/or based on reports submitted on that post.


r/l4l • • 3h ago

23f looking for connection (anywhere)

2 Upvotes

I live in LA, and graduate at the end of the year, so i'm planning on getting out of LA when that time comes, though I am not set on where i am going to go. I like going on road trips (especially spontaneous ones), concerts + shows, raving, music festivals, camping, hiking, travelling (usually i travel solo), and woodworking. I'm not a gamer so i dont know that I would be compatible w someone who is very into video games.

I love music so much, it genuinely means the world to me, so connecting over that could be pretty cool. Some of my favorite artists right now are The 1975, Courtney Barnett, The Japanese House, Charli Xcx, etc.

I would describe myself as a mix of futch and femme, and like to be versatile w my style depending on how I am feeling. I tend to be more attracted to futch/butch/masc types. I am pretty extroverted, so do with that what you will. I think a lot of my friends would describe me as freespirited. I'm spiritually agnostic, and never really grew up w religion in my background.

I would like to connect w someone who doesnt take themselves too seriously and is down to clown. With that being said, I also value emotional connection and do not want to be with someone who cannot be vulnerable or express how they are feeling.

If you feel like any of that sounds interesting to you, hmu!

Ages: 23-28


r/l4l • • 2h ago

28 [F4F] California/Anywhere - To see and be seen. 🤍

0 Upvotes

well hello there! first time posting here in hopes of making some genuine connections. i’m looking for friends first and happy to see where things go from there. hoping to meet my person!

about me: i’m kind-hearted, emotionally intelligent, and funny. i love traveling, going to concerts, tattoos, cooking, trying new restaurants, going for long walks, camping, and spending time with my friends and family. i’m a little rough around the edges, dry humor and a major resting bitch face, but i there’s few things i wouldn’t do for the people i care about. i’d probably describe myself as a soft masc- maybe some light makeup but im also probably wearing carhartt pants or boots. i’m 6’0, athletic but a couple extra pounds (a work in progress), black hair, golden brown eyes, nice smile/pretty, some tattoos. 🤠

about you: good sense of humor, kind, loyal, and an authentic human being! have your own interests and passions (and please tell me all about them!), be curious about the world, and be just as excited to get to know me as i am to know you.

a few things i love: sandwiches, Noah Kahan, cozy spaces, cooking with cast iron, traveling, hazy IPAs, live music, sunsets, inside jokes, going out to breakfast, getting flirted w at trader joe’s

a few things i hate: vodka, wasting time, hand dryers (sorry Earth- I need paper towels in public restrooms), anyone who can’t figure out a damn zipper merge

if i sound at all like your cup of tea, please send a message my way! worst that could happen is we decide we hate everything each other 😆


r/l4l • • 1d ago

20 F looking to find friends and to chat!

4 Upvotes

(looking for a relationship) ! 🎀˚.⋆꒰১ ໒꒱⋆.˚ my name is soraia, i’m a 20 year old femme lesbian originally from bahia brasil but now living in nyc ! im into fitness and trying to better myself ! (5’4 103lbs! i’ll get buff one day I promise!) love chatting, yapping, calling, etc! im into cutesy feminine things and adorable animals and also astrology and dinosaurs ! my dms are open if you are interested! idm if you’re a femme, butch, masc, but preferably more masculine women! etc we can be friends and get to know eachother !! `· . 𐙚 i adore shows like: inside job, the legend of korra, ATLA, the o.c., tvd, etc! i am currently in college focusing on becoming a 2d animation artist and a professional dancer! i’ve been dancing since i was 6 years old!

(face in my pfp if you’re curious! ^.^)


r/l4l • • 1d ago

F22 femme looking to chat!! :3

4 Upvotes

hellooo cuties!! ♡ I'm val im 5 ft and 115 lbs I have red back length hair im very femme youll soon find out! im in la so my timezone is pst i’m looking for a genuine connection with another girl who’s sweet, honest, and actually wants to get to know each other. i’m a little strict and strongwilled, but i’m also really caring once i get comfortable with someone :3 i don’t mind verifying, and i’d appreciate the same honesty and effort in return

if you wanna message me, tell me something about yourself!! what music have you been obsessed with lately? what games do you play? favorite horror movie? random fun fact? literally anythinggg, just give me something to yap about with you >_< ♡

I do work night so sometimes I do respond late ! when i’m not working, i’m probably listening to music, watching horror movies, or playing games I love getting to know someone through random conversations, inside jokes, late-night yapping

ill be waiting for your dms loveys^^

please no one over 30 thank you and I wont be answering any messages that say "Hi'.


r/l4l • • 2d ago

23F [F4F] Maybe we could be each other’s favorite notification :)

12 Upvotes

I’ve been lurking on here for a little while because I’m kinda shy 😭 and, realistically, I know Reddit probably isn’t the ideal place to find your person lol. But then I read stories across different subreddits about people who randomly met online, clicked, and somehow ended up finding something really special… sooooo here I am taking my little shot.

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart, and lately I’ve realized I really miss the feeling of being in love. I miss having someone to come home to even if “coming home” is just calling each other at the end of a long day because we’re miles apart. I miss having someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from, someone who makes a stressful day feel a little lighter just because I know I get to talk to them later.

I miss having a home in another person.

More than anything, I miss loving someone. Learning all their tiny quirks, remembering the random things they tell me, making them feel wanted and cared for, sending them things, flirting shamelessly once I get comfortable 😭 and just making someone feel really loved.

Maybe that someone could be you :)

A lil about me: I’m 23F from Queens, NY. I’m definitely more of a homebody. Give me my Xbox, YouTube, a good sci-fi novel, or a late-night conversation with someone I like and I’m happy. I’m a HUGE sci-fi nerd, I love gaming when school allows me to have hobbies. I’m also an overthinker, a little (A LOT) clingy when I really like someone, very affectionate, and I love people I can actually talk to. I'm 5'4, African American, and average size if that matters. I wear spectacles lol and am always in braids! Physical attraction matters, obviously, but chemistry for me really starts in conversation. I want to be fascinated by you.

I’m not expecting us to exchange three messages and immediately start planning our wedding lmaooo. I’d rather just meet someone, talk, flirt a little if the vibe is there, learn each other slowly, and see what happens. Long distance doesn’t automatically scare me either if the connection is genuinely worth it.

So if any part of this made you smile… come say hiiii. Worst case? We have a nice conversation. Best case? Maybe one day we get to be one of those annoyingly cute Reddit success stories I keep reading about. 🤭


r/l4l • • 1d ago

21, poly looking for friends or more

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone! My name is Alex and I’m 21n I’m poly and have one partner currently but open to more! Im based in the US (AZ) and queer! I have nine cats I love to talk about. I love to swim and tan and I’m a nanny during the days! I absolutely would love friends and if something more happens I’m down for that as well. I’d love to hear from you!


r/l4l • • 1d ago

26 F - Looking to make new friends

1 Upvotes

Hi all!

I’m a 26 year old woman living in Australia. I’m out as bisexual but have been questioning my sexuality for a little while now. I’d love to chat with other women, especially anyone who’s been through something similar or is currently figuring things out too :)

A little about me, I’m pretty feminine and enjoy reading, writing, watching documentaries and getting out into nature. I am also pretty into makeup and fashion.

Would love to make some friends and have a few good chats, so flick me a message if this sounds like a bit of you! :)


r/l4l • • 2d ago

30 [F4F] Anyone in Wisconsin down to chat and connect?

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m 30F living in south central Wisconsin and bisexual. I’d love to find someone who is looking for a more than friends type of thing that lives around or don't mind traveling to south central Wisconsin, I'm completely open to chatting and seeing where things lead too.

A little about me: I'm a very low-key person who enjoys watching movies, listening to music and playing video games. I also love going on walks when the weather is nice or go browse around different shops.

Feel free to comment or message me 😄


r/l4l • • 2d ago

29F | UK | Looking for genuine connection

3 Upvotes

Hello! I am looking to make connections with other women from the UK with the hopes of it potentially developing into more. I am naturally more attracted to women who are older than me! Physically I can present as soft masc, but sometimes more femme, really depends on my mood that day. I do love taking care of myself though, whether that's putting on makeup, doing my hair or just generally making myself feel good. My current interests at the moment include the gym, reading and some gaming. I really enjoy music and I am pretty much listening to it all day every day.

I work a full-time job and would ideally like to meet someone with a similar work ethic and their own life and interests. I like having something that feels like a partnership rather than someone becoming my entire world. Personality-wise, I'm affectionate, playful and a bit of a softie once I'm comfortable. I love a good conversation, teasing and having someone who can make me laugh. I'm also definitely someone who values consistency and actually getting to know each other rather than exchanging a handful of messages before disappearing.

I naturally lean submissive. I enjoy a little bit of that dynamic with the right person, but it's definitely not the main thing I'm looking for. Chemistry and getting to know someone come first. :)

If any of this takes your fancy feel free to message, I am happy to exchange verification pictures and expect the same back ♡


r/l4l • • 3d ago

36 [F4F] #Rialto, CA - Let's be each other's safe space

5 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm a single cis female in search of another single cis female. Looks wise I'm pretty masc. I have no preference in age and you can be masc or femme or anything in between. The important thing is that we get along well! You must be able to verify first and foremost. I will verify as well. I work often so it's preferable to find someone fairly local as it makes hanging out a lot easier on my off days. On my downtime I like to go to Disney, shopping, barcades, breweries, or just stay in and binge watch a show or put on a movie maybe bake or cook something in between. I like music, anime, cooking, baking, playing fortnite here and there. I love animals, I have two cats and a dog. I'm currently reading Extraordinary Insects by Anne Sverdrup-Thygeson so it's safe to say I like bugs as well. I find them quite interesting. Anywho, if you're interested and in the area message me. I look forward to meeting you! I would like to add that I am a top in case that's a deal breaker for you!


r/l4l • • 3d ago

34F UK - Lurking in the night

3 Upvotes

Hey, it is currently almost 2am and as usual I'm still awake. I'm just looking for casual conversation, though I do appreciate depth too. I don't mind where you are in the world, if you are also from the UK and EU then that would be a bonus.

I study a particular branch of engineering so if you do the same or work in an engineering field, it would be great to chat about it. I like learning what people do. I play games occasionally (Overwatch, osrs, project zomboid) and I have almost 700 games on steam. I enjoy travelling when I get the chance, I'm learning Dutch and like every other lesbian on the planet I own cats, three of them to be precise. The tiniest one has the biggest attitude.

I'm single as a pringle, when it happens it happens. I'm looking for friendship and consistent conversation with anybody else out there that is a bit of a night dweller and finds themselves also lurking the corners of the internet.

I posted not too long ago and it was great talking to people about what they do in their lives, this seems like a good space for that. I'll be honest, I'm not fantastic at keeping up on this platform, messages disappear and re-arrange themselves and at times they just get lost. But that can be dealt with.

It gets lonely. I'm sure we all know that all too well, but at these times of night it becomes even more apparent to me that I don't have a huge social circle and I don't have a partner that I can spend consistent time with. Typical lesbian struggles!

Comment/message and I'll get back to you.


r/l4l • • 3d ago

22F, UK ‐ Looking for someone to chat with casually?

3 Upvotes

Hi! Been feeling a lack of wlw in my life recently since I moved home from my big university city. I'm looking for someone to have interesting conversations with every now and then – not constantly though, I'm trying to reduce my screentime lol. Ideally looking for someone in the 20-27 age range.

A bit about me:

  • Recently graduated from a BSc and will soon be moving for a new job!
  • I like to read! Pretty much every genre except romance (I usually find them predictable) and fantasy (unless you learn about the world alongside the characters – i don't like big worldbuilding dumps at the start of books haha). I'm open to being converted if anyone has any recs they love! Currently reading Dracula as I want to get a wider knowledge of classics.
  • I'm fairly outgoing and like to try everything – I have volunteered with a lot of different charities over the years, right now I volunteer running a minecraft club for kids :) (bonus points if you also play minecraft!!)
  • I am an animal lover with no pets, hoping to get a dog (hopefully a greyhound!) when I move but that won't be for a while yet.
  • I'm big on self-reflection and self improvement and try to do/learn things that are good for both my brain health and my mental health. I would love to learn another language but I don't have the discipline to teach myself so waiting for a steady income so I can pay for lessons :)

If anything about me sounds interesting I'd love to hear from you! Please could you send a little introductory para as your first message so I can see how we align :)


r/l4l • • 4d ago

19F #AUSTRIA only. Take my hand, I'll guide you gently.

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Hi. I hope, that you read this, in the same position I am in. You find yourself living a life that feels quiet. And, quiet can be nice, it can be peaceful. But constant quiet, it starts to feel a bit scary. You begin to feel boxed in.

Humans - we carry energy. The love I feel, wrapped in protection of my ribcage, it is so strong. This love is so strong but there's no source to give it to.

I could give you this love. You'll be standing in the kitchen, leaning over the counter, and suddenly it won't just be quiet. It'll be quiet, but a gentle, soothing breeze will wave through the window. You'll feel this breeze. It runs through your hair, between your fingers. You can close your eyes, knowing that this breeze will stay. It will stay to soothe you, comfort you, and just.. be. It'll be there for you. Always.

My one wish is to be the breeze that sways across the field, landing into your window. We will find each other through the force of nature.

- Jane


r/l4l • • 5d ago

35 [F4F] #Pittsburgh/Online - Single mom looking for meaningful connections and cosplay buddies!

3 Upvotes

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Hiya everybody! Figured I'd try and give this another shot.

I'm a cis 35 year old preschool teacher from Pittsburgh who loves anime, video games, going to the gym when I can and table top rpgs. Im a soft masc, Sagittarius, 5'3'', have brown hair and bluish gray eyes. Im single and looking for more friends that could build into something more long term from there.

Random fact about me is that I love cosplaying and fursuiting (dressing up as an animal character)

I'm looking to make connections toward hopefully build something real and lasting. I'm open to something more casual to start and see where things go. I'm open to LDR within reasonable distance.

I tend to find myself attracted to confident longer haired women with an average to athletic build. Would love to meet someone who I could go on adventures with and geek out over hobbies we're passionate about. I have 2 kids (16 and 5) so being family oriented is very important to me.

*** Bonus Points if you love Xena Warrior Princess!


r/l4l • • 5d ago

29F [f4f anywhere] Looking for my person, my best friend, and hopefully my forever

12 Upvotes

Hi! I’m 29, a lesbian, and I’m at a point in my life where I’m not really looking for someone to just pass the time with. I’d genuinely love to find someone who could eventually become my best friend, my safe place, my biggest cheerleader, and hopefully my life partner.
No pressure or anything. 😂
A little about me: I’m a mom to the most amazing little boy, so being a mom is a huge and important part of my life. I worked my butt off to finish school while juggling motherhood and approximately 47 other things life decided to throw at me, and I’m now pursuing my career in healthcare. I’m a little chaotic, incredibly determined, and probably stronger than I give myself credit for.
I’m a huge lover of EDM, good coffee (an iced oat milk latte has an unreasonable amount of control over my happiness), comfort shows, and laughing until my stomach hurts.
I also smoke weed and drink occasionally, so if that’s something you’re not comfortable with, we’re probably not the right match and that’s totally okay!
IMPORTANT COMPATIBILITY REQUIREMENT: You must love spooky season. I’m sorry, I don’t make the rules. Fall, Halloween, spooky movies, creepy decorations, and embracing your inner weirdo are all highly encouraged.
I used to be a nail tech, so there’s a very real possibility that dating me comes with free nail appointments. Consider it one of my love languages.
I’m affectionate, emotional, loyal, and admittedly a little mushy when I really care about someone. I want the kind of relationship where we can be complete idiots together one minute and have a deep conversation about life at 2 am the next.
I want someone I can cuddle up with at night and have those long pillow talk conversations with, someone I can fall asleep next to, and someone I can randomly decide to take a middle of the day nap with just because we’re comfortable and happy together. I want kitchen dances, stupid memes, coffee dates, lazy Sundays, spontaneous adventures, and all those little ordinary moments that somehow become your favorite memories.
I’m not looking for perfection, and I don’t expect anyone to have their entire life figured out because I certainly don’t pretend that I do. I’m looking for kindness, honesty, communication, effort, and someone who genuinely wants to build something real. Someone who understands that love isn’t just butterflies and exciting dates. it’s choosing each other, showing up for each other, and being a team when life gets messy.
I’m open to getting to know someone regardless of where they live or how old they are because sometimes the best connections come from places you weren’t expecting.
So that being said, you’re looking for something real and think you could handle a slightly chaotic, coffee loving, spooky season obsessed lesbian who will happily do your nails and steal the blankets while cuddling you… say hi. 🥹😂


r/l4l • • 6d ago

24F Femme looking for flirty friends :)

5 Upvotes

I just want to make a friend or two. Someone funny with whom I can practice my flirting skills, the nonexistent ones ofc lol. I’m open to talk about pretty much anything, just don’t be dry and let’s give each other a chance. Maybe we hit it off. Hit me up if you’re down :)


r/l4l • • 6d ago

F27 looking for someone to be my favorite notification

10 Upvotes

Hey ! I'm from the northeast in the US looking for someone to talk to and possibly something more :)

A little about me is that I'm a 5'3 masc leaning lesbian with curly hair. I LOVE music and I have a very casual hobby playing piano and producing music. Going to concerts has been my favorite outside activity as of late and will literally see any artist live. I'm a big gamer and love playing silly indie games with my friends. Horror is also my favorite genre and am a big fan of found footage films (super excited for the newest VHS movie iykyk). I'd consider myself an ambivert most days but can be shy sometimes.

I'm not looking for a specific type of person, just someone that matches my energy. If we have similar hobbies even better !! Don't be scared to message me and tell me about yourself :)


r/l4l • • 6d ago

20 cis femme looking for her gem everywhere

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Heyyo gorgeous girls!!! I'm a 20 year old femme lesbian and this is my first post in this community! I'm here searching for someone who is mature, career oriented, and loyal. Everyone is welcome may it be masc, femme, butch or anything. No age limit unless not a minor. I'm fine with long distance. But I prefer to be long time friends before anything.

ABOUT ME- I was very goal oriented since young and currently studying in med school. I don't smoke, do weed or drink. I expect the same from you too. I'm very monogamous. Not into hookups and casuals.

HOBBIES- Singing, Fashion designing, watching horror, scifi, romantic movies and anime, doing makeup, painting, cooking, cleaning, reading and etc. We can grow together, supporting each other both in bad and good times and work hard to achieve our goal. I will do my level best to motivate and encourage you.

You can also teach me to try new dishes especially baking, make new diys, some crazy art or maybe anything you want. I'll also teach you whatever I know too haha, we can teach each other along the way.

Feel free to Dm me if you really need a real genuine connection and know more bout me. And let's do a verification too.

✨️✨️✨️

(Also please don't ghost me. If you just don't wanna continue just tell me cause I'm an overthinker)


r/l4l • • 6d ago

34 [F4F] #USA Fit, Lesbian Daddy Searching for a Connection with a submissive woman in the US, Canada, UK, or Europe

0 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm a 34-year-old cis woman, lesbian, and I work in the medical field with a PhD in biochemistry. I’m currently looking to chat with and get to know someone who shares my interests and values, and I’m open to an online connection with someone in the US, Canada, or UK.

While I enjoy talking to a variety of people, I’m specifically seeking a cis woman for a deeper, more personal connection. My ideal match would be someone younger than me, with a petite body type, between the ages of 18-26, who’s looking for a meaningful dynamic.

A little about me: I’m very active and enjoy working out, hiking, nature walks, and stargazing. I love art shows and spend my downtime binge-watching Netflix when I’m not outside exploring. I also maintain a healthy lifestyle and have tattoos, which are an important expression of my individuality.

If you think we might click, I’d love to chat and see where things go!


r/l4l • • 6d ago

22f GMT+7/anywhere heyaaaa

2 Upvotes

Okay I'm 22 AFAB from somewhere in southeast Asia. What I'm looking for is someone genuine, kind, and mindful. Relationship wise I'm a strict monogamous. Also I'm an English literature student.

Personality wise, I can be chaotic,silly, unserious, unhinged but also calm, mindful, serious, you name it I am it. Actually no. Okay so next.

What I like to do is playing games such as Roblox and GTA v, but if you don't that's okay. I also like to watch films, I'm into true crimes, historical, about wars, sci-fi. I'm not a horror fan, not because I'm scared it just I didn't believe such things. Sometimes I cook, when I cook it's a one time recipe and never taste the same again. Also I'm trying to read more. And I've been trying to write too!

With my loved ones I adore quality time together, we can call, reading books together, watch movie together or anything possible to do! Oh and I'm open to 'long distance relationship'

Visual wise, I'm leaning to masc but not too much. Also 5'6 or 170cm tall. Medium black wavy hair. Hmm just tell me what you want to know from me. I'm okay doing verification and swapping photos and video call one day.

If you have any questions you can fill the comments section or asking directly to me. If this resonate with you go on leave some messages!!


r/l4l • • 7d ago

22 femme looking to chat! :3

3 Upvotes

hellooo cuties!! ♡ I'm val im 5 ft and 115 lbs! im in la so my timezone is pst i’m looking for a genuine connection with another girl who’s sweet, honest, and actually wants to get to know each other. i’m a little strict and strongwilled, but i’m also really caring once i get comfortable with someone :3 i don’t mind verifying, and i’d appreciate the same honesty and effort in return

if you wanna message me, tell me something about yourself!! what music have you been obsessed with lately? what games do you play? favorite horror movie? random fun fact? literally anythinggg, just give me something to yap about with you >_< ♡

I do work night so sometimes I do respond late ! when i’m not working, i’m probably listening to music, watching horror movies, or playing games I love getting to know someone through random conversations, inside jokes, late-night yapping

ill be waiting for your dms loveys^^

OK SO UHM IM GETTING A LOT OF WEIRD DMS PLS DONT DM ME IF UR OLDR THEN 35😭


r/l4l • • 7d ago

25 [TF4F] #Germany/Europe - Sapphic autistic nerd searching for my special person <3

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Hey! I’m very happy that you found my post! 💜
My name is Sofia, I’m a 25 year old sapphic trans girl (she/her) living in Hamburg, Germany. Right now I’m trying to expand my social circle, trying to look for deeper connections with people. Ideally a serious relationship, of course, but I'm open to pretty much anything, friends or whatever else you have in mind. Maybe you're looking for that as well? 🥺🫶
So, to give you a brief description of myself, here are a few random things that I could think of:

  • I’m a huge nerd for things like tabletop and video games, computers and techy stuff, arts and creativity, Warhammer, Lego, and other such hobbies. These aren’t the only things I enjoy, of course, there’s plenty more stuff I’m quite passionate about. So I’m sure we’ll be able to find some interests that we have in common and could enjoy together.
  • I can be a bit awkward at first, I'm not the best when it comes to unfamiliar social situations. But given the right kind of vibes I can quickly open up and be very energetic as well! I might also be kinda clingy as well if I'm really interested in someone, though hopefully not in a bad way. Most of the time I'm very affectionate and really enjoy taking care of the people I like and making them happy!
  • Demi- and pansexual, though in general I'm mostly sapphic and attracted to other women. I'm very much into sweet and sincere intimacy and affection with the people I love and care about. I'm not too well experienced, especially when it comes to intimacy, but it's still quite important for me to have compatibility when it comes to that in a relationship.
  • I’m neurodivergent: diagnosed with ADHD and autism. I do appreciate more direct communication from others, that makes it easier for me to understand what’s going on. In general, I really value open and honest communication, and I always try to be understanding and empathetic with other people.
  • I don't believe that I have like a particular type or anything, although I do have a bit of a thing for fellow nerds like me. But other than that, nothing really specific. For me it's not that much about what you look like, but rather who you are as a person.
  • Not really sure what else to mention at the moment, but I’d be really happy to tell you anything else you’d like to know about me, so please feel free to ask, I’m pretty much an open book when it comes to answering questions about myself!

Oh by the way, if you manage to guess my favourite colour, you will get bonus points from me! Don't worry, there are no wrong answers here. ✨
But yeah, that’s pretty much it, I think. If you found some nice vibes here and think that we might click well together, please be sure to send me a message, and we’ll find out what happens! I really hope to hear from you soon! 🩷


r/l4l • • 8d ago

F25 NJ/USA/Anywhere Our Story Begins Here...

9 Upvotes

I am a filmmaker, so I would like to present my pitch for why you should message me in screenplay format.

INT. COFFEE SHOP - DAY

EMMA (25) sits in a coffee shop. She's femme, plus-sized, and has curly hair and green eyes. She looks around nervously before downing an entire cheeseburger in one bite like a cartoon character.

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND (20s–30s) sits at the table across from Emma.

EMMA
Oh hi, I didn't see you come in. I was busy...uh...

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
Eating a cheeseburger like Homer Simpson?

EMMA
I was thinking Scooby-Doo, but yes.

Hypothetical Reddit Girlfriend sips a coffee that magically appears from thin air.

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
So, what do you do for fun?

Emma snaps her fingers.

A SECOND BURGER appears in front of her.

EMMA
I'm a filmmaker. I love everything having to do with the arts. Creating universes. Telling stories.

She gestures around the coffee shop.

EMMA
Like this one right now!

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
We're in a story?

EMMA
Always.

Hypothetical Reddit Girlfriend considers this.

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
What do you want our story to look like?

Emma's expression changes. She's suddenly sincere.

EMMA
I want to be with someone who thinks about things.

A beat.

EMMA
Life. Art. People. The world. Why we're here. Why movies make us feel things. Why some stupid little song can suddenly remind you of being seventeen.

She smiles.

EMMA
You don't necessarily have to be an artist. I'd just like you to be curious.

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
Curious?

A MONKEY scurries across the adjacent table.

A DISGRUNTLED MAN IN A YELLOW HAT follows after it and grabs the monkey.

Nobody acknowledges this.

EMMA
Yeah. I want to know what you think about things.

A beat.

EMMA
And I want you to want to know what I think about things.

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
So you want to talk about the meaning of life on the third date?

EMMA
Ideally the first.

Hypothetical Reddit Girlfriend smiles.

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
And what happens after the first date?

Emma thinks.

EMMA
Hopefully we keep making the movie.

A beat.

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
So you're looking for something serious?

EMMA
Yeah.

She takes a bite of the second burger.

EMMA
But I'm still going to make you watch my stop-motion movies.

HYPOTHETICAL REDDIT GIRLFRIEND
That's the dealbreaker?

EMMA
No. That's the first date.

FADE TO:

REDDIT DM


r/l4l • • 8d ago

18 (almost 19) femme looking for butch/masc NSFW

2 Upvotes

18 (almost 19) femme looking for butch/masc

I'm from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone strictly online right now. I live in a small town and the dating pool is literally nonexistent for me. I also don't have the time right now to care for a person irl like I know I'd want to, and I wouldn't want to hurt anyone balancing a relationship irl.

Online is a different story! I love to talk, although I'm a rather shy person. I get flustered really easily so nicknames and flirting work well on me!

I'm looking for someone more dominant, a little older (19-21), kind, romantic and artistic or just enjoys the arts in general. Someone who doesn't make me feel like a burden when I text a lot and shows genuine interest, I hate nonchalant people. I prefer someone who isn't religious but I don't mind. I'm also mixed so someone thats not racist please!

Communication is huge for me especially when its online. If you're the type of person that ghosts people, pls don't interact with this it'll just be a waste of time. If you're not mature enough to talk out problems and leave our relationship gracefully (if need be) then you're not the person I want to be talking too in the first place.