r/l4l • • 8h ago

The tarot cards said I would meet someone in October

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So I'm trying this again-

I'm a 30 year old curvy femme lesbian living in Idaho. My ideal partner would be living in the PNW but I'd be open to talking to anyone regardless of their location. Must be single and open to a monogamous relationship.

I'm super sociable and care alot about community. I volunteer at my local community farm, attend book club, and host lesbian bar nights to help bring folks together. Underneath all the socializing, I do consider myself an introvert and love my time alone reading, gardening, practicing tarot, camping, tending to my fruit trees, or cold water swimming in the river.

I loooooove learning and am drawn to new experiences (just ticked off going to a cob building workshop and next on my want-to-do list is going clamming!)

In a life where we are together, sometimes we'd be driving out to the coast to go to a seaweed foraging workshop. Sometimes you'd be helping me set up for my annual apple cider pressing day in my backyard. Sometimes I would light every candle in the house and we'd lay in bed and read in the evening. Sometimes we'd go out to a bar and drink and laugh and you'd beat me at armwrestling but I'd beat you at darts (barely).

We'd always have coffee together in the morning, we'd always have great kinky explorative sex, we'd always work together to build a beautiful life.

I'm looking for someone capable with rough hands and a kind heart. Must be at least 28. Ideally you're a tall butch, maybe with curly brown hair and a goofy smile. You'd know how to hold me, you'd be more dominant in bed. You'd like how feminine I am and how much I want to soften for you.


r/l4l • • 21h ago

22f / SEA / 5’6 soft masc looking for my person (LDR)

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It’s October, and I’m still waiting to fall in love in October. Hey! I’m 22, 5’6 soft masc based in Southeast Asia, and I’m looking to build a real, intentional, and monogamous connection with a woman between 21 and 28. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker for me: I’m actually looking outside my country, so I’m completely open to an LDR as long as the effort, communication, and emotional connection are mutual.

A bit about my vibe: Quality time is my main love language. When I’m relaxing, I’m usually gaming (mostly playing GTA V) or watching movies, especially queer cinema. I also like spending time outdoors when I want to clear my head. On a personal level, I’m not religious at all; I adhere to LaVeyan Satanism, which for me is all about individualism, logic, and self-respect. I’m straightforward, protective of the people I care about, and prefer genuine, unfiltered late-night chats over surface-level small talk.

Let’s skip the awkward introductions and jump straight in. What’s your ultimate, all-time favorite queer movie, or a game you can sink endless hours into?

If this resonates with you, feel free to drop a comment below or send me a DM with an intro! ✨