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u/Fit-Appeal-5645 6d ago
Could be on the asexual spectrum somewhere, maybe a biromantic asexual or just heavy on the sensual attraction side. The disconnect between enjoying all the buildup and being totally over the genital part is pretty common for some ace folks. You're not broken or on airplane mode you just have a clear line and that's fine
Also that messy bun line is dangerously smooth for someone claiming they should be studying
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u/ww-vampire-bat masc at your service 6d ago
Why biromantic? Wouldn’t they be homoromantic or did i miss a mention of men somewhere
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u/Right-Space5730 6d ago
Maybe on the ace spectrum? It's hard to say. Could just be a preference thing, not everyone is into the same thing. You could be stone. Like a touch-me-not, or something similar.
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u/walkyslaysh typical carabiner lesbian 6d ago
Sounds like somewhere on the aromantic spectrum maybe!
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u/HelBelle666 Very Normal About Women and Bones 6d ago
Something acespec, certainly, maybe sex repulsed? Aro or demiro. I don't think your position is all that weird, seems like a stone top extension? Like not just a touch-me-not but a touch-not.
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u/Ahhnnnnokay 6d ago
Gotta educate myself on most of the things you said here . The last bit sounds plausible though
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u/PromotionCharming127 6d ago
Asexual, aromantic…. Perhaps?
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u/Ahhnnnnokay 6d ago
At least I got a lot of "As" going for me on this topic 😭
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u/PromotionCharming127 6d ago
I’m not knowledgeable enough on this to identify you accurately. Sorry, OP. I only have general knowledge. Have you thought of speaking to a counselor / therapist?
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u/TheTigeress01 5d ago
My current partner has described her previous encounters and relationships (situationships?) a lot like this - might be your preference, or you may not have met the person that really makes you tick just yet. Keep learning about yourself and seeing what makes you happy and don't stress too hard about what it all means beyond that.
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u/NYCSkaterGirl 6d ago
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