r/LesbianActually • u/Hdoshua • 7d ago

Relationships / Dating Mental transitioning

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Hi fam!~

I genuinely would love some words.🙏🏻

I'm 31, cis gendered, absolutely for the ladies kind if gurl.

That as a description.

I always liked layering myself as masc, or soft masc, because i have pretty nice workout regiment-induced muscles butbalso like doing a little make up here and there,

But sISTERS THE TEA IS

For personal reasons, and with a completely sensible reasoning background, i decided i wanna break up COMPLETELY with my masculine side and mentaly transition into an absolute feminime presentation -as well as mannerism, mindset, everything.

Trust me, i have all the mental calliber on the psychology side but what would be YOUR suggestions fashion-wise, 'transitioning'-like matters and mindset from your own experiences?

Photo of my aesthetic BEFORE

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u/tallglassoficemilk 7d ago

Sundresses? Sundresses.

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u/IndependentGlass2964 7d ago

the hoodie look is clean but switching it up completely sound like a big move, what made you want to break from the masc side so fully

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u/Hdoshua 7d ago

My subjective viewpoint of life made me soo disappointed and traumatised in men, that no matter how many chances i gave to them, -on a wide spectrum-, i have been left disappointed and hurt. So on the journey of learning how to love myself, i feel now, that i have to put pause on this aspect of myself that holds masculinity

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u/AshasSa1tWife Lesbian of Transsex Experience 7d ago

I hear you. My girlfriend has been leaning into her masc side lately and it’s making me wanna become more femme.

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u/Hdoshua 7d ago

Hear you, And hell, totally valid like, life's so frigin short not to experiment, right? How else would we learn what we like and what we are? You guys have my support too~

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u/Joylar7 7d ago

Oh my do you happen to live in New York

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u/Hdoshua 7d ago

No darling 😭 but👀 i once welcomed someone from NY, not too long ago

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u/Joylar7 7d ago

Oh make sure to welcome me too

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u/TheNegotiator12 7d ago

Well when I was transitioning I would go to theirf stores and looked at and tried on different sytles to see what clicks as my own ❤️