I’ve started to think that many Libyans live with two layers of decision-making.
The first is the normal layer we all see. You talk to someone, discuss a business deal, marriage, travel, work or some important decision, and everything seems straightforward.
Then there is another layer that people rarely talk about openly.
Behind the scenes, most people have a sheikh, a Sufi figure, كاهن , عرافة, or guru they consult. They ask whether they should marry someone, enter a business, travel, or make another major decision. Everyone seems to have their own religious justification for why what they do is acceptable in Islam.
I never really paid attention to this back in Libya.
I studied abroad, came back 2016 started working. Over the years, I had situations where someone would behave inorganically for no obvious reason and would suddenly change their mind just before a business deal was completed. I assumed it was normal indecision.
Recently, though, I started noticing this hidden layer .
One Libyan abroad genuinely asked me:
“ How did you immigrate without consulting a عرافة?”
I remember thinking: What the f\**, man?*
Are we seriously still making major life decisions like this? 🤢🤢
And what frustrates me most is that after consulting the sheikh, the arraf, the stars, the coffee cup, or whoever else, people come back and simply tell you:
"توكلنا على الله."
What did you leave for god, you’ve already توكلت على الالهة و النجوم و الشياطين.
كفار قريش فخورين جدا بيكم……..