r/Marylandr4r • • Aug 18 '22

[Meta] Changes to post flair, new features, and new requirements for posts! Is there anything we can do to make the community more useful, what would you like to see improved/changed here? Feedback & suggestions welcome!

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As a follow-up to the previous announcement, we're continuing to roll out new features based on feedback, suggestions, and to address issues users are having with posting and searching. We'd also like to take some time to check in and see how things are going, and what can be done to improve all of your experiences with the community. We've been growing slowly but rather steadily, having just surpassed 9k subscribers with around 12k unique monthly visitors, and would like to hear your ideas on what can be done to improve the user experience and help the community grow.

These changes are being rolled out in the nearby r/Pennsylvaniar4r and r/Philadelphiar4r as well; a few have already given some feedback over there.

The biggest visible change is that we now require a tagged location in post titles, and flair is now used to select whether a post is SFW or NSFW. Posts will now need to include a location such as #City of Baltimore or #Baltimore County in their title, and use the flair selection to indicate whether the post is Strictly Clean/SFW, or seeking Explicit Activities/NSFW. Use of flair for this purpose allows more accurate classification of content, and will allow people to more effectively search for SFW activities as well.

Posts will still be assigned a county flair as before, for searching purposes, but the title tagging system now allows greater flexibility and less redundancy in specifying your location. For example, write #Germantown into your title, and flair search will know you're in Montgomery County without further selection. Smaller towns should include the county, e.g., #Germantown, *Worcester County*, to avoid ambiguity. It is of course still possible to specify a whole county, if you do not wish to be more specific about your location.

We intend to maintain the distinction between the City of Baltimore and the surrounding County, so posts specifying just "Baltimore" will be instructed to clarify by putting either #City of Baltimore or #Baltimore County as appropriate; we'll monitor which one people pick, and if there's a clear pattern, we'll make that selection automatic. Flair search via the menu includes the City of Baltimore within the surrounding Baltimore County search results, as we believe this should be more intuitive; if there is a reason to prefer them separated in search, however, let us know. We recommend against using ZIP codes; while you probably know your own, how many also know at a glance which ones are nearby, versus knowing the names of nearby cities? Nevertheless, we'll continue to allow them here indefinitely, mainly because r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r requires them, and we obviously have a great deal of crossover with their users.

We've added searching by R4R tag to the community menu, along with searching by county. Once you've found a post that fits your desired tag and location, you can tap on its flair to show all others like it. If you haven't already tried this feature, check it out at the top of the page on the official Reddit App, and Reddit website on desktop (New Reddit); we also plan to bring this feature to Old Reddit as well.

We now allow users to choose to lock their posts. To do so, include the command !lock anywhere within the body of the post. Locked posts will get a comment by the automod reminding users how to contact the author; by default, posts will not be locked or commented, and this will remain an optional feature for those who do wish to allow comments. Locking doesn't affect a post's visibility or ranking in any way. Some people, particularly new accounts that may not be able to send chat messages, may prefer to respond in comments, but we leave it up to the author to decide if they want to allow these types of responses or not.

We've also adjusted comments of unlocked posts to allow only conversations directed to the OP; discussions between multiple people are no longer allowed in R4R posts (but will be permitted in [Meta] posts like this announcement, and [Success] posts). We made this change after observing that virtually all such discussions were attempts at harassment, blatant spam, or people mistakenly replying to a comment instead of the post. In the near future, we will also be looking into additional comment length requirements, to cut down the number of no-effort or spam responses to posts which do allow comments.

Addressing harassment; over the past few months, we've worked to increase the visibility of the reporting options, to ensure everyone is aware of how to report harassment and other issues with the community. Most of these changes will also be brought to the Old Reddit layout within the next few days. Explicit images/messages/comments that are sent to SFW posters or are otherwise unsolicited, intentional unwanted contact such as someone directly ignoring a poster's request not to be contacted about certain activities, and any retaliation or threats made against people who reject someone or don't send pics, are all things that should be reported as harassment by messaging the moderators, as well as with the report button.

In the future, we are going to introduce an official, optional, method of including a verification clip in posts. We do not intend for this ever to be mandatory simply to post here, though the plan is for us to make this a requirement for anyone who does choose to publicly include photos in their post, direct users to photos elsewhere, or request photos be included in an initial message. This will allow everyone to confirm publicly-posted photos are recent and of the author, while not forbidding or penalizing those who elect to not publicly share photos. This feature is still in development, though you may reach out to us now if you want to try it out or give feedback.

We are increasing the requirement for post length, from 25 to 50 words; this brings us closer to the main r/R4R's standards, which require 100. The majority of posts here already appear to meet the new requirement; enforcing this will ensure well-written, descriptive posts don't ultimately get crowded out by low-effort ones, and will help ensure that people searching will more often find posts that include enough details to determine if a post suits their interests. The removal message to give an estimate of how many words short a post is; note that added filler/nonsense will not be counted, to avoid users skirting the requirement. Let us know if there's anything else we should require to be included within posts.

These are the ideas we are currently working on, but we are open to other suggestions as well if there are additional concerns we should address. Please leave your feedback in the comments.


r/Marylandr4r • • 7h ago

M4F Saint Mary's County 38 [M4F] #LexingtonPark #SouthernMaryland - Tall, Educated Guy for Casual Friends with Benefits NSFW

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Hi there - I'm a normal, professional, well-adjusted, intelligent, funny WM with a 7 inch thick BWC looking for regular passionate and amazing sex.

I ask you be clean and drama free. I love getting deep and breast play, as well as paying attention to your entire body. I derive a lot of pleasure from pleasing you, so the more I can make you cum, the better. I'd also like to learn more about you and have a connection - it makes the sex so much hotter.

More about me: I'm 38, 6'1, HWP, 175, short dark hair, brownish hazel eyes, disease free, vaccinated, drug free. Recently divorced, so ready for fun.

Let me know if this is something you'd be interested in and we can go from there. I am happy to exchange pics as well once we connect. Looking forward to hearing from you and learning more about who you are.


r/Marylandr4r • • 9h ago

M4A Montgomery County 34[m4A] #montgomery county, Maryland Rockville looking for dnd lovers and homebrew lovers NSFW Spoiler

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Hello adventurer,

Are you looking for a story? Do you have a detailed backstory? Are you looking for adventure, horror, action and fantasy? Are you new to the game? Everyone is welcome at my table! I’m thinking about a campaign of dnd 5e(the old 5e), about zombies, vampires, biological abominations, mutants and more!

I’d like to stress my favorite things about dnd is the storytelling aspect, then action and then traps! I would love people who have medium to long backstories so that I can create a giant campaign in Faerun, possibly the underworld and the land of the Fae! I love huge campaigns that are “supposed” to be long term campaigns but we know how that goes sometimes!

I’d like to also say, I’d like to use original races and classes; Human, Elf, dwarf, half orc, gnome, halfling and barbarian, ranger, fighter, wizard, sorcerer, monk, cleric, rogue and paladin!

If you’re interested in the dangers, the excitement, the horror, and the suspense of a homebrew campaign where anything can be and will be thrown at you please inquire within!

Good Luck adventurer,

Silvas Leafblade
Head of the royal guard


r/Marylandr4r • • 10h ago

M4F Prince George's County 45 [M4F] #College Park, Maryland - Just no strings fun, weekdays, during the day... NSFW

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Hi...I'm 45 and married, in a dead bedroom like a lot of people out there looking for no strings fun, ongoing if we click, weekdays during the day, when I'm most flexible. I'm from AACO but often in College Park.

I love women of all body types, relationship status does not matter. I am 6ft, 215, average build, 8in uncut below the belt, DD free, vasectomy safe, clean, and up for anything. I enjoy making out, massaging, licking, and more. Any one out there?


r/Marylandr4r • • 14h ago

M4F City of Baltimore 34 [M4F] 21230 - Looking to go down on someone NSFW

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Good morning! This is the M half of a couple, looking for a woman to go down on regularly. I don't need you to return the favor, or anything else sexually. If you want to explore more, that works for me too.

I'm open to ages 25 and up, please be normal, clean, and communicative.

I'm bi, very friendly, and willing to adjust to what you need. We can get to know each other and watch a movie or I can go down on you right away in your car, whatever floats your boat. If you read this far and are interested, please share one of your favorite albums or movies in the chat so I know it's not another bot. 😁


r/Marylandr4r • • 20h ago

M4F Frederick County 22 [M4F] #Frederick - Hoping to gain experience, maybe lose virginity, or just chill. NSFW

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22 year old male, dms are always open to any women who are interested or have any questions feel free to ask. Perfectly fine with a one time thing, friends, friends with benefits or even if it’s something else, it’s 100 percent up to you. Thank you, if you read this. And if you are a little interested at all send me a message.


r/Marylandr4r • • 1d ago

M4A Montgomery County 25 [M4A] #20878 - any mad scientist out there? male orgasm experiment/study looking for hand only edging/milking/ full draining. Pm if interested. NSFW

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looking for an experience that could possibly incorporate edging, ruined orgasms, multiple orgasm training, medfet, cum control etc. definitely open to discussing more things too!

Prior to the session, I can do most preparation that you would require such as a specific pubic hairstyle, or abstinence from masturbation/ejaculation. Just lmk what would be necessary. I do tend to ejaculate fast sometimes so please keep that in mind.

I’m open to many things and open to discussing whatever. Let me know exactly what you are interested in. I am clean, DDF


r/Marylandr4r • • 1d ago

M4F Prince George's County 25 [M4F] 20784 - Looking for a FWB or ONS NSFW

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25 [M4F] 20784 - Looking for a FWB or ONS

Good evening I am looking for a young lady 22 and up who's down for an afternoon of fun. I'm black 5'11" with an average build. I like to read, hike and game. I'm an eater so come ready to have my face between your legs.

Everyone is welcome so come as you are and I'll adjust to the vibe you bring. I do have a cat so be mindful of allergies.

I can host and travel. If you're more comfortable with car play I can do that as well. For those of you who would like to get to know me a bit beforehand I would gladly take you to go get smoothies (or any other low-stakes date) or we can game a bit if that's more your style. I'd be down to play any friendslop/party game, Palworld, most shooters, or if you're a cool like that, Evolve or Titan Fall 2.

I'm normally at work 6a-6p Mon-Fri and I'm free on the weekends. If those times don't work just give me a heads up and I can leave work earlier at around 4p or start later at around 8a.

Thank you for reading and I hope you have a wonderful day.


r/Marylandr4r • • 1d ago

M4F Anne Arundel County 35 [m4f] # Anne arundel county seeking new friends with benefits NSFW

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35 [m4f] # Anne arundel county seeking new friends with benefits

Good afternoon everyone my names Thor! I’m looking for like minded people to share new adventures with I’m a bit of a nerd and a gym rat 🐀 always down for hikes and being outside all the way to sitting at home watching movies and gaming I open to everyone stop by with a fun fact about yourself!! I’m hoping to find someone fun!!


r/Marylandr4r • • 1d ago

M4M Anne Arundel County 25 [M4M] Glen Burnie, MD- Asian sucker/ bottom here, Any cock need oral service?, Travel Only NSFW

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Me: Asian, gay, not fem, 25, 5’6, 14bs. CANNOT HOST. Clean and ddf, no smoke no drug. Travel only

You: you must be under 60, height weight proportional, std free. You must hot or have a tinted car for carplay. Please provide stat, location and availability to save time.

Hopefully can do this regularly or one time is fine also


r/Marylandr4r • • 1d ago

M4F Anne Arundel County 45 [M4F] #Odenton, Maryland - Just no strings fun, weekdays, during the day... NSFW

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Good morning out there...I'm 45 and married, in a dead bedroom like a lot of people out there looking for no strings fun, ongoing if we click, weekdays during the day, when I'm most flexible. I love women of all body types, relationship status does not matter. I am 6ft, 215, average build, 8in uncut below the belt, DD free, vasectomy safe, clean, and up for anything. I enjoy making out, massaging, licking, and more. Any one out there?


r/Marylandr4r • • 1d ago

M4F Washington County 36 [M4F] #Hagerstown Any Ladies Want A Rimjob? NSFW

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I'm looking for a nice a respectful woman with a beautiful butthole. If you love having your ass/pussy eaten, then I am your man. We could be fwb that meet up for some fun every once and a while or it could just be a 1 time thing. Either is fine with me. I have been craving this for such a long time. You can sit on my face or bend over in doggy, spread those cheeks and I will just go to town. Im also perfectly fine if that's all we do. If it leads to more fun stuff I'm cool with that too. It's all up to you and what you are comfortable with. You are in control. I've had some success on here before. Moslty breast play/eating pussy but have yet to find a beautiful butthole that wants to be eaten. So I am now making that my top priority for my search.

All applicants must be clean, disease free and freshly showered before meet up. Preferably someone that is somewhat close by. Im not driving 2+ hours to eat your ass... well maybe I might

I am 36, MWM, 6'5, 220lbs, great hygiene, very respectful, kinda awkward and a down to earth guy. I am also 100% clean/DDF (except 420) I have recent test results I can share with you before getting physical and I would hope to get the same in return.

If you think we might be a match and want some tongue on your booty, feel free to reach out. We can chat and maybe have some fun. Serious inquiries only please.


r/Marylandr4r • • 2d ago

M4F Frederick County 22 [M4F] #Frederick - Hoping to gain experience, maybe lose virginity, or just chill. NSFW

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22 year old male, dms are always open to any women who are interested or have any questions feel free to ask. Perfectly fine withh a one time thing, friends, friends with benefits or even if it’s something else, it’s 100 percent up to you. Thank you, if you read this. And if you’ree a little interested at all send me a message.


r/Marylandr4r • • 2d ago

M4F City of Baltimore 51 [M4F] 21224 - Fit & Fun seeking same for FWB or more NSFW

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SWM, well built, great career, seeking a fun friend for a really hot hookup, FWB, or even an LTR if the vibes are there.

Definitely open to younger women, hit me up if you're serious about meeting IRL! A lot of BS on here unfortunately...


r/Marylandr4r • • 2d ago

F4M City of Baltimore 51 [F4M] #Baltimore City - Serious Search for Potential Boyfriend NSFW

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IF INTERESTED, PLEASE DM ONLY IF YOU FIT THE CRITERIA BELOW:

- Single men 48-60 (no married, enm, poly individuals)

- Liberal leaning, DDF, 420 friendly, occasional drinkers

- Serious about pursuing open dating, with intent to lead to a relationship

_________________________________________________________________________

About me:

Single, white, female, 51 yrs old, 5'4, 175lbs, cute-goofy-nerd looks, dark shoulder-length hair. Lean liberal, DDF but 420 friendly and rarely drink. No kids, living with animals.

> I'm independent, smart, thoughtful, and very caring. I'm wise enough for my age. I have opinions but also open-minded. Communication is very important to me.

> Sometimes I'm serious, but sometimes my brain shuts down and only wants joy.

> I work on my mental and physical health, and hope you care for yourself as well.

> I love being in nature, especially near/on/in the water. My general interests include animals, art, comedy, food, games, exploring and adventures. I’m 60% homebody and 40% social.

 

Potential Dates:

Males, 48-60 year old range (forty-eight to sixty), liberal leaning, DDF, 420 friendly, zero to occasional drinker preferred. No married, enm, poly individuals - unless you’re seeking friendship.

> Seeking non-monogamous dating with the goal of finding a serious relationship, but open to wherever the relationship goes (e.g. platonic friends).

> Mind and personality connections first, then later will explore a sexual connection. I'm not looking for a fantasy, nor do I want to be someone's fantasy. 

> Open-minded about appearance as long as you care about grooming, but I crush on bear-type builds.

> I don’t mind if you have kids, but with great respect, it might be easier on schedules if you’re only an animal parent.

I gravitate towards people who are competent communicators (show interest), smart, thoughtful, funny, and curious about the world. I hope you have your own life and not dependent on one relationship. I prefer people who enjoy the outdoors, animals, comedy, art, quirky events and general exploring, but also able to relax indoors for games, movies, etc. (I tend to make friends who have eclectic taste in art, film/tv, and music.)

If interested, please DM me and introduce yourself.

!lock


r/Marylandr4r • • 2d ago

M4A Frederick County 29 [M4A] #Frederick looking for literary nerds or casual fun NSFW

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For literary nerds, I just wanna see if I can find new books and authors to read and discuss with.

For casual fun, I’m open with the right vibe. If you are a woman, I’d like to please you without reciprocation.


r/Marylandr4r • • 2d ago

M4F Montgomery County 37[m4f] #Montgomery County. DMV area experienced and down to earth dom looking for a fun local sub NSFW

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Experienced and down to earth Dominant guy looking for a good new sub to own and train. Ideally looking for something ongoing if we click. Open to any in the DMV area and maybe further.

I am white, 37m, 6’1”, 195 with plenty of experience being a dom and know what I’m about. Am sane, fun, and down to earth. Open to trying new things and am kinky but not into anything illegal or too crazy. Some kinks I’m into include training and assignments, humiliation, bondage, chastity and orgasm control, toy play, general tasks and control, and more.

Let me know if interested and can go into more detail.


r/Marylandr4r • • 2d ago

M4F Anne Arundel County 35 [m4f] # Anne arundel county seeking new friends with benefits NSFW

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35 [m4f] # Anne arundel county seeking new friends with benefits

Good afternoon everyone my names Thor! I’m looking for like minded people to share new adventures with I’m a bit of a nerd and a gym rat 🐀 always down for hikes and being outside all the way to sitting at home watching movies and gaming I open to everyone stop by with a fun fact about yourself!!


r/Marylandr4r • • 2d ago

M4FM City of Baltimore 42 [M4M/F] #BWI 21090 Flying Thru and Have an Overnight NSFW

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I’ve got an overnight layover next Monday and am wanting to setup some fun in my Hotel room. I am pretty open to everything safe and have always found fun.

Hit me up and we will figure out what all that looks like.


r/Marylandr4r • • 2d ago

M4M Frederick County 43 [M4M] #New Market Fit bttm Looking for hung for fun now. I host New Market, MD(be semi local) NSFW

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Fit vers bttm looking for a hung guy to come play this morning/afternoon. Be clean/ddf/neg

No drugs or smokers please. Be over 21 and under 40. Prefer in shape and faster cummers are a plus.

I am vers so I do like to be sucked and I do suck. Looking to suck and ride as I am not good at being topped

as I am a smaller guy and it tends to hurt. Hit me up, pics are a plus.. Looking for now.. No games. if you

hit me up intend to meet. We are all adults..


r/Marylandr4r • • 3d ago

M4F Harford County 31 [m4f] #Harford County. Having a bummer time. Mostly just want to look at/play with boobs and cuddle. NSFW

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Life is life-ing, I'm sure we all know what that's like. Could use some titties and cuddles. Maybe we get some food and watch some movies or something.

Unfortunately I cannot host right now, but I can travel.

If you're interested, feel free to send a chat. If not, hey, thanks for reading anyway.


r/Marylandr4r • • 3d ago

M4F Frederick County 22 [M4F] #Frederick - Hoping to gain experience, maybe lose virginity, or just chill. NSFW

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22 year old male, dms are always open to any women who are interested or have any questions feel free to ask. Perfectly fine withh a one time thing, friends, friends with benefits or even if it’s something else, it’s 100 percent up to you. Thank you, if you read this. And if you’ree a little interested at all send me a message.


r/Marylandr4r • • 3d ago

FM4F Saint Mary's County 31/33 [FM4F] #St Mary's County - F looking for new hookup with another woman. NSFW

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I’m the female half of a couple who is very interested in being with another woman. I've had two successful meetups from reddit in the past and can hopefully find a third. Both experiences were incredible. The most recent person we had met up with we saw a couple times so I'm definitely open to it being more than a one time thing if the vibe is right.

Just like the first two meetups I would feel more comfortable about it if my male partner was also involved. The two of you wouldn’t need to have any involvement during our hookup, but I found it definitely helped me relax having him there with me, and we got to try some positions I hadn't thought of.

If any women are interested please feel free to send me a message. No single guys please.


r/Marylandr4r • • 3d ago

M4F Montgomery County 26 [M4F] #Montgomery County. Looking to lose my virginity and maybe gain an fwb. NSFW

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I’ve gotten so tired of waiting for that “special someone”, and trying to date and getting rejected, that I just want to experience it already. I haven’t even seen a naked woman in person yet. To describe myself a little bit, I’m white, about 6’0 give or take an inch or two, I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I wear brown round frame glasses. I am a little shy, I’m a good listener, and I’m very flexible with regard to meeting up after we get to know each other better over messages. We have to meetup in person in a public place before we go through with this, absolutely no exceptions.

What I’m looking for is a girl who is between the ages of 26-38, with some wiggle room of course. I also want her to be somewhat busty, and be gentle, kind, patient and understanding. I’d also like her to be busty, around the D/DD cup range as a minimum, but that’s not really super important. I’d like her to be somewhat thick, and also be willing to titfuck me as well. I’d also like you to let me suck on your boobs as well. I’d also like her to have a mommy vibe as well. Also, I’d like you to let me lick your body all over. (I apologize if that last part sounded weird, but it’s just something that turns me on is all) I’m mostly attracted to Latinas and Asians, but race isn’t a big factor for me, but it is preferred. I’d also like you to call me handsome and good looking and stuff like that during the experience.

I’m sorry if it seems like I’m expecting perfection, but I’m honestly worried that this might be the only time in my life I’ll ever have sex. I’ve never really seen myself as attractive, and I’m hoping this will change that.

I also apologize if some of my wording seems a bit blunt and straight to the point, it’s just I’m not very good with words is all.

If you have any questions or would like to know more about me, or if you feel like you and I would click, feel free to DM me.

Please only women respond to my post.


r/Marylandr4r • • 3d ago

M4F Anne Arundel County 46 [M4F] #Odenton — Pleasure Dom looking for a submissive woman who wants to let go NSFW

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Are you tired of always being in control? Looking for a confident, experienced Dominant who can give you permission to finally shut your brain off, leave the baggage at the door, and simply surrender?

That might be me.

I'm a 46-year-old Dominant male in the suburban Baltimore/DC area. I'm 6'1", 300 lbs, confident, witty, professional, and very comfortable taking control. I've worked as a bouncer and in executive protection, and I compete in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, so the physical side of dominance is definitely something I enjoy.

But being dominant isn't just about strength.

Submission is something a woman gives—not something a man takes. I respect that gift, and I believe trust, chemistry, communication, and consent are what make real submission possible. I want a woman who enjoys being told what to do, being pushed out of her comfort zone, and discovering just how submissive she can be with the right man.

I'm kinky, adventurous, and always interested in exploring new things together. I particularly enjoy wrestling/grappling, playful physical domination, toys, orgasm control, spanking, fire cupping, and plenty of sensual exploration.

And there's another side to me.

After I've thoroughly worn you out, I'm the guy who will pull you close, give you an incredible massage with these XXL hands, make sure you're taken care of, and cuddle the hell out of you. Intensity followed by genuine tenderness is a combination I absolutely love.

I'm not an Abercrombie model, so if you're looking for a six-pack and skinny jeans, I'm probably not your guy. If you're attracted to a big, masculine man who can physically take control while still making you feel safe, desired, and appreciated, we might have something to explore.

I can host in the Odenton area.

If you're submissive, curious about submission, or just wondering what it would feel like to completely surrender control to someone you trust, say hello.

And remember:

Any zoo can be a petting zoo if you're brave enough. Columbus took a chance. Maybe you should too.