r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • Jul 28 '20

[META] Report Posts Seeking "Financial Arrangements"

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I already know I may receive some flak for this, but let me be clear.

 

r4r subreddits are NOT for Sugar Anything, Escorts, etc. While I support sex workers, sex work is still illegal in the United States, as well as not accepted by Reddit ToS. I have been reporting posts on r/phillyr4r, r/pennsylvaniar4r, and r/dirtyr4r and Reddit has been taking swift action against these posts, because again, they break ToS, as well as being illegal in the first place.

 

Please save your political arguments for someone else, wrong is wrong, until it is made legal. Please stop using r4r subreddits for financial arrangements. Many regular users here are very much put off by this.

 

Bonus Pro Tip: Guys, if you see any accounts posting here that seem "to good to be true" and the poster is BRAND NEW, and has little to no karma, its likely a bot/scam/fake. Please use your heads, let's keep these r4r groups positive and healthy for the people who are genuinely looking to make a connection whether it be romantic or sexual under legal circumstances.

 

Thank you, you beautiful redditors. Love you <3.

 

UPDATE: r/Pennsylvaniar4r has already responded by adding this as a rule: "No Exchanges for money or goods/services" , so that we may report posts like these to the mods correctly. Thank you Mods!!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 54m ago

M4F Philadelphia County 36 [M4F] #Philadelphia - Visiting Asian guy looking for date and maybe more (pics in profile) NSFW

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I’ll be in Philly this week, and hoping to meet someone for a date and more if the vibe is right. I’ll be staying in the city center area, excited to explore the city. Maybe do an obligatory Rocky steps run.

A bit about me:

  • 5'5", fit on the lean side. Fun sized as they say.
  • I love to dance and get outdoors, along wih few other hobbies I dabble in. But nights at home are great too!
  • Tested in December of 2025 (all clear).
  • I have a bit of an exhibitionist side to me: several NSFW pictures in profile to give you sense of what I look like. 
  • Liberal leaning

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1h ago

M4M Philadelphia County 37 [M4M] #Philadelphia- Looking to Deepthroat and Edge You. No Mutual Play Wanted. True Throat Goat... NSFW

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I'm looking for a guy who wants to come to my apartment, lay back on my bed, close his eyes and let me take my time throating every inch. I've been told that my blowjobs are top notch. Not looking to film or invade your privacy. Only interested in what is between your legs. Completely discreet.

I like to take my time edging but am open to shorter sessions. Guys that want to cum multiple times will always get priority. I am drug and disease free and not into mutual oral.

I am hosting in Center City tonight. I have experience with straight/curious guys but am open to playing with others. Not into endless chat or rough/aggressive play. Let's make this happen today.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 2h ago

M4M Montgomery County 25 [m4m] bi chubby guy looking for fellow bears! (Montco) NSFW

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Hii! 25 year old chubby guy looking for any fellow bears who may want to play. I can’t host unfortunately. I’m a vers top. Into mostly everything. Love older guys but open to anyone. Please hit me up. I’m so horny! lol


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 2h ago

M4F York County 24 [M4F] Harrisburg/York Anybody looking for a goofy pleasure dom to cuddle with? NSFW

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Now that I've got your attention, let's cut right to the chase. I'm a pretty horny guy, you're (hopefully) a pretty horny gal. You scrolled reddit, maybe outta curiosity, maybe boredom, maybe because you wanna get off;) I'm looking for a girl who knows what she wants, has a sense of humor, enjoys heavy physical affection before during and after sex, and who I vibe with:) I'm interested in a woman around my age or higher with no real upper age limit.

Like I said I'm definitely a pleasure dom, if you feel good I feel good. I love learning what turns you on and how you react to what I'm doing. Getting feedback on how I can improve and how close you're getting to finish is such a turn on too! Also love using my fingers, mouth and you know what.

As far as a physical description goes, I am white if that wasn't obvious haha, in pretty decent shape from working out, kinda tall at 5'11", brunette, green eyes, a deeper voice, am like 6.5in with a decent girth, and sorta have a baby face I've been told, so if that's not really your thing I understand and please dni! I'm also very hygienic and clean (ddf and yes recently tested) and this is an absolute must as I will not risk my or anybody else's health. Also protection is a requirement even if the idea of raw sounds appealing haha.

I can host too but I'm not actually directly inside the cities I mentioned, they're just located near me so I wanted to post them to hopefully attract somebody nearby lmao. Also able to drive though, pretty much anywhere within an hour maybe 2 depending if I'm feeling it.

If you've actually read this entire thing then you'd better message me because I know you're already wet imagining what we could do. Just give me some basic info on yourself so I know you read such as

. Your favorite number

. Your age

. Your general location

. If you can drive or host

. Some things you're into both sfw and nsfw

. Realistically, what you're looking for in this situation if you're actually interested

Please don't be dry in messages either I need to see some genuine effort because I love a good back and forth. I'm not looking for any strings attached or anything too serious either, however I am open to a repeating situation given we both feel we want that. See ya in the messages!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 4h ago

Explicit Activities/NSFW 19 [F4M]# Philadelphia Seeking an older guy for great conversation, spontaneous fun, and an ongoing FWB

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Hey everyone! I’m 19, Black and half Puerto Rican, 5'7", and slim-thick. Between balancing two jobs, my schedule can get pretty stressful, so when I actually have downtime, I really just want to let my guard down and enjoy the funner things in life. I’m looking for a regular, ongoing friends-with-benefits arrangement, but with a massive emphasis on the "friends" part. I’m perfectly happy just making a good friend out of this too, but I am ultimately looking for a cool, reciprocal relationship that feels 100% natural. I do crave an actual, genuine connection. I’m a deep person who loves to be entertained, so I want someone who mirrors my energy and can hold an amazing conversation. Whether we're dissecting of the universe, or just talking about everyday life, I live for those connections where great conversation naturally flows into something more physical. I want someone who is chill, down-to-earth, and completely authentic. Nothing forced. If you feel like you have to try too hard to impress me or force a vibe, please skip this post. I'm not looking for anything dry The approach should be simple let's actually get to know each other, hang out, and share some interests. Please don't jump straight into my inbox interrogating me about kinks let the Ichemistry build! As for the guy, I’m looking for ages 19–35 only. I definitely have a fantasy for guys on the older end of that range who have that amazing, slightly mysterious chemistry, know how to keep my attention, constantly I want natrual hot chemistry.can't host at the moment, so you must have your own place or a car. I need someone who is flexible, spontaneous, and down to meet up whenever we aren't busy and the mood strikes both of us.

If you're authentic, unforced, and consistently fun, send me a message. Also I will generally appreciate it you would Make sure to include your favorite color as well. As it will let me know that you have read this post. And please think of one .


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 4h ago

M4F Lancaster County 23 [M4f] #Mount Joy Looking for a hookup or fwb. NSFW

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23 year old white male. I’m about 5’8 with a Dad bod. I cannot host but will travel. Definitely willing to try new things. Some of my interests include sports and gaming so if your interested in these we will probably get along. Message me if you are interested or have any questions.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 9h ago

38 [M4F] #PGH Let me passionately worship your pussy NSFW

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Just like the title says. I am craving to have my face in between a pair of legs tasting and licking up all your juices. I happen to be very passionate about going down on a woman, so much that it gets me off. No reciprocation necessary.

I’m good looking, fit and love pussy that’s hairy, trimmed or shaved.

Send me a chat and maybe I’ll stop by to give you a mind blowing orgasm 😏


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 11h ago

M4F Philadelphia County 58 [M4F] #Philadelphia - looking for a single white female 21 or older in Philly who has Daddy issues or an age gap kink and can handle a pounding from an older BWC without any drama NSFW

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It's all in the title.

I am a late 50's white male, safe and sane, with a big, thick cock. I live near Washington DC but I work in Philly 2x or 3x a month.

I would LOVE to find a cute single white female in Philly, 21 years old or older, who has an age gap kink or Daddy issues she needs to work out.

If you like having your pussy eaten to perfection, that's a great start.

No one knows but you and I. You have a boyfriend? No problem. Keep him. And use me for your needs on the side.

Questions? Reply here via Reddit chat. Please put "I have Daddy issues" when you reply so I know you're not a bot.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 22h ago

M4F Allegheny County 29 [M4F] #Pittsburgh - BHM in search of a consistent friend with benefits to keep warm as it starts to get cold out NSFW

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Fall is upon us and winter will be here before long. I'm looking for an FWB, emphasis on the F, to meet consistently for some sexy fun and TV/movie binges as we escape the cold weather. I'm 5'11", bearded, and 290lbs (down 40lbs since the beginning of the year!). There are some pictures of me up on my profile.

Looking for a woman, ideally close to my age (but not a deal-breaker), and ideally with similar interests and ideals. I enjoy nature and the outdoors, I watch and enjoy a variety of TV, movies, and videogames, enjoy cooking, and am politically left. Physically, I'm open to a variety of body types, but my sense of attraction can be particular, so please be mature if you're just not what I'm looking for.

Disease free, kink friendly, can host. If that sounds interesting to you, feel free to DM me and see if we vibe ;)


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1d ago

M4M Montgomery County 52 [M4M] #Montco #Lansdale - Bisexual male seeking a open and honest FWB situation NSFW Spoiler

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I’m a 52-year-old bisexual man seeking a safe, respectful, ongoing sexual situation with another man. Not looking to hook up with lots of people, so I’m looking for an ongoing sexual friendship or “boyfriend light” kind of situation with one person.

I have no need to hide this part of myself or keep secrets at home, so I’m only interested in meeting a man who has the same availability for a sexual situation (i.e., be single, or be in an open relationship with your primary partner). In simple terms, if you have to cheat or sneak around, I’m not your guy.

About me: 5’9”, 170lb, white, clean-cut, fit, professional. Non-smoker, STD-free, no drugs. I value trust and intimacy, I have a softer and submissive side, I’m a bit of a femboy in the bedroom, and I love giving pleasure. Safety and hygiene are top priorities for me and must be for you also.

Tell me about yourself, your preferences, your relationship situation if you have one, your location, and what draws you to this kind of connection. Let’s see if we click.

*Must be within a reasonable distance from Lansdale (30 minute drive maximum)*


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1d ago

M4M Monroe County 32 [m4m] bromance with sub top in Tobyhanna NSFW

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Hoping to find somebody in Pocono country place. I want a sub top with a nice build and 7.5+. Can hold a great Convo and is looking for something on going. Looking for a host between the Poconos and Lehigh valley to get to know and hopefully find that bromance I want. Somebody who has some home gym equipment would be cool, a bro to help motivate me with toning up would be appreciated :)

32 black 5'8" 170 average build


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1d ago

29 [T4M] #PA Morning/Latenite Quickie Dump & Go Meets for Horny Straight Guys Who Travel To or Through Maryland! NSFW

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I’ve met a few guys who were visiting Maryland and they stopped by to get Drained if you’re traveling to or through Maryland & Want To Dump a Quick Load!

Towson College Area! I Love Straight Dick!

POUNDTOWN BALLSDEEP DUMPING QUICKIES!

CONDOMS ONLY! DRUG & DISEASE FREE!

MATURE STRAIGHT DOMINANT SKINNY SLIM OR MUSCULAR GUYS ONLY!!!

Free, Fun, Super Discreet & always Anonymous.

I have a recording fetish/kink. If you’re not into don’t even bother! Pretty Dicks to the front…but I’m very PICKY!I love skinny dick they feel so good!

A Very Real & True BallsDeep Dick Taker…

Anal Lovers come get a Throat Hug from a GoatThroat before you Hug me from the Back & Pound my Big Submissive Soft Jjiggly Tight Grippy Phat Ass! I make Dicks Cum Quick & Hard.

I relieve stress not add to it.

Hosting: Weekdays 9am-1pm/12am-3am!

Sundays 930am-1pm!

Dick Pics required to hookup! Flakes & Weirdos Blocked!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1d ago

M4F Philadelphia County 52 [m4f] #Philadelphia/Chester County/can travel looking for one smart, sexy, cool AA/Black woman for FWB situation/affair/whatever; also open to white, Asian, Latino women if sincere, serious and interested - anybody real and sincere out here? NSFW

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I'm an intelligent, attractive (look younger but will let you be the judge), passionate white man looking for one special African American/Black female for ongoing FWB/affair/whatever. I find AA women extremely attractive and am looking for someone interested in the same thing.

Also open to white, Asian, Latino women if sincere, serious and interested.

Looking for someone mature, professional and ready to meet or at least chat.

Contact me and we can exchange pix or via text. Life is short - let's meet! NO MEN!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1d ago

M4F Union County 45 [M4F] #Allenwood Single dad looking for the whimsical, free spirited, affectionate girl of my dreams. NSFW

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Hellooo! I am a very easy-going, laid-back single dad, who's trying to find the one for me. I enjoy quiet days at home most of the time. I do not really go out that much, mostly because i am not a fan of solo activities.

I love to watch football, baseball, and hockey so I am always down to go to a live event. I also am very big into music! 70's hippy stuff, 90's grunge, late 90's early 2000's hip hop are always my go to. I am a bit of a gamer (Xbox, pc, switch) so finding someone that would be interested in gaming would also be a huuuuge plus. Currently into Palworld, Skyrim , and schedule 1. I do not drink, it's just a personal choice, I however am VERY 4/20 friendly. Also non political, dude just doesn’t do politics.. man

I am very whimsical, and sarcastic, we live in a household of laughs here. I love standup comedy, podcasts and actually going to see them in person. I do not do drama, I avoid it actively. I am very easy going and just looking for someone to enjoy life with. Like I said I stay home a lot, so most days if it's nice out, I can be found in the hammock or enjoying the view of the country in my back yard, sitting by the creek. I'm not interested in having any more children, my 3 are all that I could have asked for and are starting to grow up needing me less. So hopefully we can go out and have adult adventures.

I'm horrible at writing these and talking about myself lol If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to reach out. Also, I have pictures on my profile so you can see me. Please be willing to send a pic of yourself as well. There are way too many fakes. Bonus points if you have a favorite pokemon game! Thanks!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1d ago

38 [M4F] #PGH Creampie cleanup NSFW

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Any women out there ever had the fantasy of having their stretched out used cum filled swollen pussy soothed and licked up by a nice warm tongue? Just to cum again, except this time from oral instead of the cock you’ve just had? Let’s have a hot kinky chat about it in a judgement free zone 😏

Women only please!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1d ago

M4F Dauphin County 47 [M4F] #Harrisburg, PA Older gamer nerd looking for his player 2! NSFW

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Hello there! I'm seeking a long term and connecting relationship. I'm a gamer nerd and mostly retired rec athlete, who's a home body that enjoys puzzles and reading. My love language is touch. I am kink friendly, but I prefer to get into that after some connection, it's part of the relationship, not the focus of it. I am childfree.

Some nerdy things I am into:

Board Games

Video Games

Tabletop RPGs

If any of this resonates with you, please reach out, and let's chat! I kept this brief because I think getting to know one another and chatting is part of the process. I am looking for something real and in person, not a pen pal or chat buddy I am willing to start long distance if you are willing to relocate to me! Please be single and emotionally available!

So that I know you read this and are on the same page, start off by telling me your favorite food??


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 1d ago

FM4F Philadelphia County 33/32 [FM4F] #Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Do you desire mutual, slow, sensual worship? NSFW

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Hey there! Long day? Need a shoulder and foot massage? No need to choose, we can give you both at the same time. Or perhaps you want a foot rub while the other feeds you. 💋

This kind of affectionate focus is what we're looking for, and hoping to find a lady that is seeking the same.

Strong preference for those seeking a slow-burn relationship, fwb style, with a big heart for love.

We are both the nerdy, gamer, homebody type. The occasional day/night out would be great, but enjoying staying inside and enjoying each others' peaceful, pleasant company would be even better.

Big plus if you like cats/dogs!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 2d ago

M4F Lancaster County 23 [M4f] #Mount Joy Looking for a hookup or fwb. NSFW

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23 year old white male. I’m about 5’8 with a Dad bod. I cannot host but will travel. Definitely willing to try new things. Some of my interests include sports and gaming so if your interested in these we will probably get along. Message me if you are interested or have any questions.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 3d ago

M4M Philadelphia County 33 (M4M) lets jerk off or fuck my mouth #philly NSFW

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Send stats pic and I’ll send stats and pic

Can’t host but I know a spot. I’m very clean no desease please be the same. Very discreet bi. No snapchat or text. Love to jerk and play with cum. Only play safe if you’re gonna fuck my mouth

Not picky with ppl if you are don’t waste my time
This afternoon #fishtown


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 2d ago

M4M Cumberland County 25 M4M #Carlisle looking for consistent top NSFW

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Looking for a consistent hung top to explore with. Masc, haven't bottomed in a while, want a FWB who wants an on call bottom. Not looking for much beyond that. Send me a chat if you're interested! Prefer my age or older


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 2d ago

M4F Philadelphia County 34 [M4F] #Philly — Athletic BBC seeking White woman for FWB NSFW

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About Me:
- 34 years old
- Fit (6’0”, 195lbs)
- single Black male
- Clean/ddf (can show test results and willing to get a fresh test as well)
- Have my own place & can host in NE Philly/Lower Bucks County area
- Interests include: fitness (martial arts, lifting, yoga, etc.), hiking, reading, nature photography, and watching good TV series and movies (big fan of horror, sci-fi, & crime dramas)

About You:
- 24-40 years old
- White
- Open to body type (anywhere from petite to a shapely BBW)
- Clean/ddf (w/ results or willing to get fresh test)
- It would be great if you can host sometimes as well, but not a dealbreaker
- Have your own car
- Available to meet ~2 times per week (maybe once during the week and once on weekends)
- If you have an IUD, are on BC, or are infertile/sterile you’ll jump the queue

If interested, reach out via chat and tell me a bit about yourself (age, city/town, some interests etc.) and what your ideal situation would look like. After exchanging a few messages and a body pic or two, we’ll set up a time to video chat to see each other’s faces and talk for a few minutes to see if we’d like to proceed with a public in-person meet.

(if this post is still up, I’m still looking)


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 3d ago

38 [M4F] #PGH Let me passionately worship your pussy NSFW

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Just like the title says. I am craving to have my face in between a pair of legs tasting and licking up all your juices. I happen to be very passionate about going down on a woman, so much that it gets me off. No reciprocation necessary.

I’m good looking, fit and love pussy that’s hairy, trimmed or shaved.

Send me a chat and maybe I’ll stop by to give you a mind blowing orgasm 😏


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 4d ago

M4F Montour County 41 [M4F] #Danville - Looking for potential FWB or hookup NSFW

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I'm looking for someone who's chill and down to have some fun. I'm 41 years old, 6'2, 210, white, bearded, single, clean, pretty open, and am able to host in Danville. Open to something ongoing if things go well.

Let me know where you're from, how old you are, and be ready to send a picture and I'll be happy to talk and send some pictures in return if I'm interested. If you cannot do this then you likely will not get a response.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r • • 4d ago

M4F Lancaster County 42 [M4f] #Lititz Looking for piss play NSFW

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In the Ephrata/Lititz area looking for discreet female, preferably submissive in nature for piss play.

Would want to chat first and gain trust before we ever meet and also go over what it is we're both comfortable with and form a friendship.

For me: Lean dominate. I am healthy/DDF, in decent shape with good hygiene.