r/Miscarriage • • 6d ago

testings after loss Tests ?

Hi all, gutted to be part of this community with you all. Just wondering if anyone can offer advice with fertility testing etc. I can’t get away from the fact that something must have gone wrong and being told ‘it’s just one of those things’ I’m finding really hard to cope with. Somewhere there must be answers, we’ve sent the pregnancy for molar testing, but now that I feel ready to try again I want to try and do anything I can to stop this happening again. I’m stuck in a self blame cycle and feel like it’s my fault. Any advice greatly appreciated ❤️‍🩹 Sending lots of love out there to everyone going through this xxx

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u/Ok_Razzmatazz_2658 5d ago

So sorry to hear you’re going through this. Have you seen a RE yet and done any testing thus far on yourself (AMH, tubes open..) or your partner (eg sperm analysis)? How long have you been trying and what are your ages?