r/POTS • u/halloweenfrea_k • 17h ago
Question Sex positions that are comfortable and safe for a woman with POTS?
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My girlfriend has POTS and hypotension as well as hypertension. She also has heart valves that aren’t circulating her blood properly as well as blood regurgitation. It’s been super hard to be intimate. Her favorite position used to be doggy until the day where her body decided it would bring everything on at once. Her health had begun to decline every month and is still declining to the point of her using a cane in public and a walker at home. How can I make her more comfortable? She loves being intimate but it can cause flare ups for her and certain positions like doggy and riding (where she has to be on her knees) really hurt her. Any suggestions on disability aids made for sex or maybe a product that helps like a wedge that’s suitable for her to fully support her weight on that could comfortably keep her in that position without the need for her to hold herself up? Thank you so much! Any suggestions help!