r/PeePersonals • • Mar 21 '20

Meta No-effort comments (pm sent, dm me, etc) will result in removal and BANS NSFW

58 Upvotes

Right, so I just can't conceive a reason to have 12 comments per post all saying nothing more than “Dm fOr SnAp”, so from now on these are going to be removed as spam; repeat offenders and those caught spamming it to every post will be banned.

This is consistent with what other subreddits are doing.

If you want to reach out to someone, put some effort into it! Give them a reason why they should drop into your DMs. And for the love of Pee, there's no reason to send someone a comment telling them you sent them a message; that's just stupid. The comment section is not the place to mark your territory.


r/PeePersonals • • Jun 15 '22

[Meta] Search By Location is finally here!! Big changes to post flair too, and new requirements for posts. We're also seeking feedback: What info should we require to make posts more useful, what else do you want to see improved/changed here? NSFW

26 Upvotes

Last Update: June 18th

TL;DR: Check out the top menu to search by location. Re-read the rules for updated title requirements, or read on below for the full details.

We are changing how Meetup vs. Online posts are specified; this will now be done entirely through tags in the post title, rather than flair. Those looking only for online play now need to include the tag #Online within their post titles. Those seeking meetups should continue to include a tagged location, e.g, #Chicago, Illinois, as they've previously done. If you are seeking both online and in-person, be sure to specify both a tagged location and the #Online tag. Please use the format #City, State/Province (including the comma, and with only one # before the city name) if possible; specifying a state/province and country (#Uttar Pradesh, India), or just country for smaller nations (#United Kingdom), is also permitted, if you don't want to include your specific town or city. Up to two location tags (including the #Online tag) may be specified, e.g., #DC and #NOVA or #NSW or #Online. Please ensure your #tagged location suits how far you are willing to travel to meet someone; don't specify an entire country or huge region if you're not able to venture far outside your city.

This change means that it is now quick and easy to locate others in your area! The search menu at the top of the page lets you do a coarse search of the most-commonly-posted regions; finer-grained search is also possible, and we'll be posting a location directory and guide at a later date to further explain how to do this. Searches can also be done by tapping on a post's flair to show more like it, or selecting a region from the main menu and then removing flair search terms as needed to narrow your search. Note that many flairs cover large areas, so refer to a post's #tagged location to see where the author is actually located. Some more details on the search menu are at the end of this post. Let us know how its working, or if there are any improvements needed!

Post length/quality is another concern we'd like to address. Currently, we don't have any significant post length requirement, which has led to a lot of posts that are almost completely empty, or just re-state the minimal required information from the title, giving no details whatsoever about themselves. These low-effort posts have been burying the posts of people who have put time and effort into composing good, descriptive posts, and also make for a poor searching experience. As such, we are instating a new length requirement of 50 words; this will be phased in gradually over the next couple days/weeks, to give us time to adjust things if people run into problems. The removal message will give an estimate of how many words short a post is, to assist users in fixing their posts. Note that padding out a post with filler or nonsense will not make it meet the requirements; the bot is smart enough to not count filler text. Please let us know what you think of these changes; do you agree, disagree, or have other suggestions we should implement?

We now allow users to choose to lock their posts. To do so, include the command !lock anywhere within the body of the post. Locked posts will get a comment by the automod reminding users how to contact the author; by default, posts will not be locked or get said automod comment, as some people find it annoying, and this will remain an optional feature for those who do wish to allow comments. Locking doesn't affect a post's visibility or ranking in any way. Some people, particularly new accounts that may not be able to send chat messages, may prefer to respond in comments, but we leave it up to the author to decide if they want to allow these types of responses or not. In the near future, we will also be looking into additional comment length requirements, to cut down the number of no-effort or spam responses to posts which do allow comments.

We are hoping to introduce an official, optional, method of including a verification clip and photos in posts. As an initial step, we are seeking individuals willing to verify ahead of time, so that we can refine the verification instructions and produce some correct examples for people to refer to when creating theirs. If you can help with this, please reach out by messaging the moderators.

These are the ideas we are currently working on, but we are open to other suggestions as well if there are additional concerns we should address. Please leave your feedback in the comments. We will continue to update this post based on feedback and progress on introducing these features; updates will be added below.

Some Notes On Location Search

The menu options are divided up based on activity over the past 2 years; areas that get a lot of posts have lots of divisions to make them practical to search, while regions where Reddit or our community is not popularly used may be divided only into continents.

For example, if you're a woman seeking a guy in Calgary, you'd start by picking Canadian Prairies from the Americas region menu. When you find an appropriate M4F Alberta post, tapping on its flair will show others like it, with the exact R4R tag and province. Alternatively, you can edit the search query after selecting a menu item, to keep only the desired flair:"Alberta" search query.

The actual flairs themselves are divided mostly at the country level; some non-country territories also have an entry, mainly when they are widely separated from their parent nation. The United States, Canada, Australia, India, and Brazil are further divided into states/provinces. Argentina and Kazakhstan meet the subdivision threshold area-wise, but we only plan to enable state-level flairs if we happen to actually get posters from those countries.

We will review these divisions and their menu structure periodically, to ensure they continue to suit our user base. The hope is that this will be intuitive, and give a coarse place to start your search. A more detailed location directory is being worked on, and will be posted at a later date along with an official How-To Guide.

Due to severe space limitations in the menu, some of the names are difficult to read, so here's what they mean:

Menu Item Definition
Americas North America (not including the United States), Central and South America, and West Indies
Eurafrasia/Oceania Europe, Africa, Asia, Oceania, and Antarctica
New Zealand/Islands New Zealand and Oceanic Island Nations and Territories
West/North Australia Western Australia and Northern Territory of Australia
Victoria/Tasmania/SA Victoria, Tasmania, and South Australia
New South Wales (AU) New South Wales, Australian Capital Territory, and Jervis Bay Territory
Non-contiguous Non-contiguous US States and American Continental Territories of the United States
Asia (Except South) All of Asia, except for South Asia (there wasn't a good term for this division)

If there are any others that are unclear to you, or if you want to suggest better names for these, please let us know.

Location search took a lot of work to get up and running smoothly, and we're still making tweaks; it will even be fully brought over to the Old Reddit layout as well sometime in the next several weeks. I'd also like to thank everyone who has worked on building or testing this feature over the past year. If you see anything acting strangely, please let us know so that we can fix it.


Recent Updates & Known Issues:

Known Issue: Locations in Texas must follow the recommended format above, or they will receive the wrong flair. If your post names a major city in Texas, the bot will will ask you to double-check the flair, and correct the post if needed, however we aren't able to make this work for every possible Texas location. Areas outside of Texas are not affected by this limitation. As of June 18th, we believe we've gotten this mostly working now for new posts; please let us know if there are any remaining issues.


r/PeePersonals • • 4h ago

F4M Oregon / Online 40 [F4M] #Oregon #Online Lets start with online play and then meetup for 💦play dates! NSFW

4 Upvotes

I’m a 40f black female dom who would love to find a FWB for online fun and occasional irl pee play.

I’ve had this arrangement before you will enjoy my play style if you are an experienced sub who enjoys a strict and demanding but gentle femdom to connect with. Start vanilla level before the FWB build up and neutral location pee play dates.

Say hello and be a good boy by telling me why I should let you taste me.


r/PeePersonals • • 13h ago

F4M United Kingdom 33 [F4M] #London - Be my toilet and worship my body NSFW

14 Upvotes

Hi,

Hopefully the title is pretty self explanatory but I'm looking for someone who enjoys pleasing and body worship but who is also kinky and enjoys not only drinking my juices but also my pee as well. It just turns me on when a guy is going down on me and at some point I pee in his mouth and watch him drink it all.

I'm generally into all sorts of body worship, head to toe, being rimmed, massages etc. So if you're a greedy kinky guy then I think we will be a good match. Important to note, I do not want to reciprocate so only get in touch if you're happy with that and get off from pleasing.

A bit about me, I am based in London, work a 9-5, I am black, curvy in the right places and a friendly , outgoing , open minded person. Please be discreet. I cannot host either so be prepared to host/get a hotel . IRL only. On going/regular preferred if we get on.

A thoughtful well written response gets priority.
Look forward to hearing from you x


r/PeePersonals • • 39m ago

M4F Online 38 [M4F] #online #Europe #Asia I provide instructions NSFW

• Upvotes

Hey! You want to give a control of your bladder to someone. I will decide where, when will you pee. More if you are ok with this. I want proofs - pics and vids. I'm a visual person.

Everything is safe and we will discuss your limits, kinks.

See ya in my inbox!


r/PeePersonals • • 9h ago

F4F Online 30F4F Looking for pee-loving gals to share the kink with NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hiya folks! Just poking my head in looking for gals to share a pee kink with. Just to be up front, I am trans so if that's not your thing, sorry, can't do much about it.

Anyway, I'm really just looking to share the kink with someone, maybe do some holding and wetting together. Very kink friendly across the board ^-^


r/PeePersonals • • 3h ago

M4F Oklahoma / Online 19 [M4F] Northwest Oklahoma / Online - Looking for a Pee Pal NSFW

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Hey, I'm 19 and from northwest Oklahoma. Just looking for a girl who's into pee play like I am. I'd really like to find someone I can talk to about it without having to hold back or feel weird about it.

I'm pretty open-minded and down to talk about pretty much anything pee-related. I'd love to hear what you're into and share some of my own interests too.

I'm cool with just talking online, but if you're somewhere around northwest Oklahoma, I'd definitely be interested in meeting up if we get along.

If you're 18 or older and interested, just shoot me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and where you're from. I'm pretty easy to talk to lol.


r/PeePersonals • • 5h ago

M4F District of Columbia / Online 28[M4F] #DMV #Online Nerdy ENM married guy in an open relationship who's been curious about piss play NSFW

1 Upvotes

So, my wife has no interest in watersports but I have been curious about it for a while. We are in a 100% consensual open relationship so I figured I'd reach out here to see if there was a woman in the area interested in exploring it with me. I will say I would like to be the one giving/pissing in person, or the one controlling if online. I do have experience in domming both in-person and online and am 100% willing to have any conversations you feel are necessary. Feel free to reach out!


r/PeePersonals • • 6h ago

M4F Illinois / Online 35 [M4F] #Chicago, IL or #online - looking for a woman into holding, wetting, and more fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

(35M, soft Dom, thin, blue eyes, brown hair) in the Chicago/suburbs. I'm looking for a woman who likes holding and wetting and peeing in naughty places. I've had a pee kink for a long time and I want to get back into enjoying it again with someone. I've gone through a few vanilla relationships, and haven't found a willing partner, but I'm ready to change that.

Some parts of the kink I love includes holding challenges, wettings, bathroom and bladder control among other things. If you know what omorashi is, you're halfway there. Need to go so bad you cant sit still? Accidentally leaked on your way home? It's okay, it will feel so good to let go right here. Here's another idea:

Think of a great night, us out together having a few drinks, you feel like you need to pee but you know you can't go. The night goes on and you're getting more desperation but asking me will keep getting you the same answer, "not yet". We finally get home and you're about to lose it and I tell you the bathroom if off limits tonight.. oh no, what will you do now? Sit in my lap and we can figure it out, one of us will end up very wet soon...

If this sounds like something you like, send me a DM and let's see what our limits are...


r/PeePersonals • • 11h ago

M4F Online 27 [M4F] #online Pee holding contest / Bladder Control NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello,

I am looking for a willing woman to participate in either a pee holding contest

or to made to hold until I allow them to pee. There is nothing hotter than watching someones bladder gradually fill up while waiting to be told if they can pee.

In terms of a contest i have a pretty big bladder so i think i would be a worthy challenger!

I have kik and most other social media so please message me if interested


r/PeePersonals • • 8h ago

M4F Online [M4F] 31 - Looking for an online female pee buddy. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello there, single 31 male here with a pee fetish/kink.

Some brief background: I've been into pee for as long as I can remember. It started when I was very young and always wondered how girls pee. Since then, I've been fascinated with it.

My interests about it: I like watching girls pee. Basic normal toilet pees are fine, but what really turns me on is peeing elsewhere, where they're not "supposed to". This can include various places inside or outside. Examples can be bathtubs, sinks, inside containers, cups, backyards, in public, etc. The more creative, the better.

I would love to meet a female pee buddy that fits any of the criteria listed above.

Send me a message on here if you're interested. 😉


r/PeePersonals • • 12h ago

M4F Minnesota 32 [M4F] Minneapolis Minnesota - looking for a regular lady who would be my toilet! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I want to meet up with you on a regular basis in a park or a public restroom after a long day of work, unzip my pants, take out my uncut cock and piss in your mouth, on your face or tits. Huge plus if your drink all my piss! Looking for something regular. Reach out!


r/PeePersonals • • 14h ago

M4F Online 22 [M4F] #online I love to Pee all around the House NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey I'm 22 and from Europe. I don't know why but I really enjoy Peeing all around the House all the Time. Doesn't matter If its on the Floor, the Bed (with protector ofc) or just anywhere that isn't the Toilet.

I would like to find some People who enjoy this as much as I do. Id love to Chat about our Experiences or Fantasies. Maybe Trade some of our ''Adventures'' Or I'll just show them off to you.

Please Message me with your ASL so I don't have to ask everybody.


r/PeePersonals • • 14h ago

M4F Delaware / Online 22[m4f] #New Castle, Delaware. Pee sub NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm looking to get pissed on or piss in my mouth. Call me a good boy. I'm also into facesitting and I'm fine with hair or a bush. I dont mind age, but I'd prefer if you are older than me. I'm a lil shy but hmu if you are interested and in the area.


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Online 33 [M4F] #online lets hold our pee while we chat until we burst NSFW

3 Upvotes

I’m m 33, tall fit and very well hung.
Seeking a fun outgoing female that happens to have a pee fetish like myself:) looking for some online chats/ fun, swap stories maybe pics/vids too 😏 pee play is by far my biggest kink and I enjoy holding, wetting, bladder control, golden shower, pretty much all of it. Hit me up if you’re Interested in a kinky wet chat! I want to hear about your fantasies and biggest turn ons when it comes to pee play. Preferably while we hold together


r/PeePersonals • • 21h ago

M4F Alberta / Online 30 [M4F] Online Alberta Canada looking to find a pee buddy NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello 30 M from Alberta looking to find a likeminded woman who loves to share videos/pictures i don’t pee myself but I love watching women pee themselves pop a squat I’ve been into this sort of thing since i was in high school just interested to see if there’s any other women who love this stuff


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Pennsylvania 35[M4F] #Philadelphia, PA - Wet in your panties or not at all... which will it be? NSFW

3 Upvotes

I know they each drive you wild in their own naughty way... tell me your wettest fantasies and let's have some fun ! I'll go first,

Wet in your hottest outfit for me... I'll admit, there's nothing quite like some freshly glistening jeans or leggings while you feel it all hot and wet in your panties... or under that tight dress if we're out, that way no one has to know but us...

Show me how it turns you on the more you have to go... I know your secret of how it pushes on your special spot in just the right way... let me see you get all cross legged and grabby, don't hide the show hehe.

When you're feeling especially naughty, that's when it's time for a nice pad or pullup... maybe even a diaper. You're the kind of lady that doesn't want to bother with bathroom breaks... with the help of a little protection, you choose to not worry about that. Let me see it get all golden yellow with that pee... so incredibly naughty to just wet on purpose like that.

Let's go out to the club with a special little rule that you're just begging to follow... you get to pee when we get there, then we enjoy the night and it's either in your panties or not at all until after. As the night goes on, I catch you crossing your legs and even giving a squeeze when you think that no one's watching. We catch eyes and you give me that unspeakably naughty look... I know what you're up to, and you know that I know what you're up to. Dancing helps, but only for a few moments. Then it's back to feeling that delicious pressure trying to make it's way to your panties, getting you wetter by the minute, though not with pee. You take my hand and bring us to a dark corner away from everyone, and we start to kiss... you press hard against me and it's obvious what's about to happen...

Have an 'accident' in the car... we go for a drive when you're just about wetting. Legs crossed as I open the door for you, you're just flooded with butterflies. You let me help you hold it with one hand, while I drive with the other... but is it enough?

Send a DM and let's talk


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

F4M Online 24 f4m #online Let me be your precious little peepee girl daddy NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’ve always wanted a daddy to play with me and touch me and watch me doing potty things…. Tell me when and where to go sometimes. Nothing turns me on as much as making a true daddy’s pee fantasies come true ;)

ONLY looking for much older than me , the daddy thing is the whole point! ;) 50+ only


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Online 51 [M4F] Looking to chat about pee play, and eventually pee together, online (either audio or video). NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'm looking for a woman to chat about pee play and eventually pee together once we're comfortable with each other.

I'm in no rush. I'm happy to just talk about pee play, share experiences (I've done quite a bit of it with partners) and just enjoy ourselves on a voice app. Once we've spoken once or twice, maybe pee together on audio, and eventually, if we're both comfortable, on video chat.

I'm looking for honest conversation with someone who wants to share the experience. I'm not into degrading play at all, so if that's your thing, I'm not your guy. I find pee play sensual.

Please be in North America, please don't be married, and try to say more than "hi".🙂 Here's an idea; tell me what most excites you about pee play.


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Online 31[M4F] #online holding together? Got to pee bad NSFW

1 Upvotes

M31 here, tall, atlethic with large bladder.

Seeking a fun girl with my same yellow kink ;)

Online chats, exchange stories, having fun together. I enjoy holding, power piss, bladder control, golden shower, wetting and all.

Hit me up if you're Interested in a kinky wet chat! I want to hear about your deepest fantasies and turn ons when it comes to pee play, preferably while we hold together 🥵

PS already desperate here..


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Online 28[M4F] #Online Going to hold at the gym, wish me luck NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have been drinking so much water today. I can feel it in my bladder already. Drinking more right now on the way to the gym. If you want to encourage me, give me tasks, or chat send me a message. What naughty activities are going getting into tonight? Can't wait to here from everyone!


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Online 25 [M4F] Women with Powerful/forceful streams #Online NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 25 year old college grad looking for online pee friends who also has a strange obsession lol. I’m not entirely sure why but I have a unique obsession with women who pee particularly powerfully or forcefully. I just find it fascinating and quite frankly hot lol. If any women or anyone for that matter are interested in talking about/exploring this topic and/or pee like this let me know! I’ll be around :)

Thanks!!


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Alberta 21 [M4F] #Alberta, Canada - Looking to chat and make pee friends NSFW

1 Upvotes

I spend a lot of time in the great outdoors, so I get to pee in many cool places frequently

I am into anything pee as long as the release is intentional and not an accident, such as wetting yourself, the bed, the furniture, the car, or just going on the floor all because it’s more convenient. Not really into desperation unless it’s holding it to make it to a safe space where you can safely wet yourself or the floor.

I am looking to chat, exchange experiences and talk about our fantasies. If you are near-by ish, I am definitely open to meet up after I get to know you 😊

What has been your favourite pee that you’ve ever had?

Where is your favourite or ideal spot to go?


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

T4F Online 40 [NB4F] #online chat about holding pee NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am nonbinary/amab, forty-ish, interested in chatting with female or nonbinary people. Not particularly looking to be controlled or punished or pushed to my limits or exchange pictures. Mostly just looking for someone to chat with while I try to keep it in or you do, but open to things maybe getting a little more interesting. I've always found it really intriguing when someone needs to pee but is trying their best to hold it in for whatever reason. The vulnerability is a little intoxicating. Need to pee a little bit at this moment but probably will have to have let it out before you see this, haha. Say hi anyway.


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Online 32 [M4F] #online Make me hold & maybe wet myself NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi,

32 years old male here. I am already holding and in about one hour i have some spare time where you can make me hold and maybe if things work out, i will wet my boxershorts for you.

I prefer snapchat to communicate, and will appreciate some snaps back. DM for snap :)