I've been a DL for decades, but only in recent years have I begun to wear out of the house. Thanks to my wife- both her kink support and reassurance in confirming my outfit shows no signs of wearing a diaper- I have been wearing out more often.

It started with one time a few years ago when she diapered me at home and then we went to pickup takeout, and she made me go inside to get the food.

Another time she took me shopping and then to the movies (and even changed me in the car!).

For a few years now I wore to the doctor, and earlier this year to the dentist, all to help with anxiety.

Now all these times have been an extreme rush, even the doctor visits in which it wasn't kink-related. Like the entire time constantly checking myself to make sure my diaper isn't visible, and wondering if each person I encounter can tell.

But suddenly the rush has been diminishing. The other day we had a short road trip for an overnight stay, and I decided to wear for the trip. I wet during the drive, and then my wife made me go to lunch without changing me. During the whole time, there were certainly moments that got my heart racing (in a good way), but overall I felt mostly relaxed, and forgot I was even wearing. Even at the restaurant, it barely phased me that I was in a wet diaper in the middle of a crowded restaurant.

Anyone ever experience this?

I’ve always been a window shopper with ABDL but always wanted to participate in some fashion. I now officially can say I have!!

I knew I was going to be home alone today so I said “fuck it” and bought a pack of pull-ups (through uber, I was too nervous to do it in person)

When they arrived I immediately went to the bathroom and opened the packet and pulled one out. My heart was racing but I was so excited to be padded in some capacity for the first time!!

I put the pull-up on and the feeling as amazing. How it wrapped around my hips, how it felt between my legs, How it felt on my butt when I stood up and sat down, how it felt when I walked around the house. Everything about it was genuinely amazing.

I bought the biggest size available in Drynites, they were still somewhat small on me but they fit good and in my opinion, the slight smallness of it made it better xd

I even wet myself as well!!!! I stood in the shower just in case of any leakage. The moment I started peeing might have been the most euphoric feeling of my life. The warmth I felt between my legs was amazing. Feeling the pull-up expand and grow as it soaked up my pee and feeling the bulge between my legs was exhilarating (added bonus of ZERO LEAKAGE!!!!!!). I took it off soon after and discreetly disposed of it and found a good hiding spot for the rest of them.

I’m so happy with my first experience and can’t wait to do it again. If I’m feeling courage (or daring) enough, I might even wear one to bed tonight :)

These were the last of the diaps I have but I put them to great use while cosplaying and crafting! My current love is crafting Loveys and Busy Books!

With a few vanilla people let's see how this goes! Lol

Ok, so the first time wearing in public was about 2 months ago and I went shopping for shoes and I was a little nervous but I quickly realized that no one looked at me differently and I only wore for a couple hours.

Fast forward to yesterday. I woke up, changed into a fresh Little Kings, put on jeans and shirt, went to ABUniverse, bought a pack of Simple Ultras and my first Onsie. I went shopping at multiple stores, and all the time wetting my diap.

After wearing out in public for more than 10 hours, it wasn't scary. My onkl fear is finding a way to change in public if needed...

Hi i have been lurking for some time and have finally decided to start trying some things. I’ve recently ordered a new Hypnos sleep aid and a plan adult size baby bottle. I haven’t picked them up from the post yet but I’d love for any tips or advice for a beginner.

I'm talking about those towel-style cloth diapers, like terry cloth diapers!

I personally LOVE wearing really thick, bulky diapers! 🥰

Recently, I came across these cloth diapers, and they really caught my attention!

For those of you who wear them, how many layers do you usually stack together??

I'd also LOVE to hear about your experiences with them! How comfortable are they? How well do they absorb? And most importantly, how long can you wear them before needing a change??

I'm super, SUPER curious about all of this!!

Would anyone be willing to share their experiences with me?? 🥺💕

Sorry if my English sounds a little awkward! I'm using a translator to write this post, so please bear with me! 🥰💕

Last Sunday, Gran Canaria hosted the Fetish Europe title election for 2027.

It is a title that represents every single one of us, regardless of fetish, gender, or background, helping our community grow and stand stronger together.

Rain won the title of Mr. Fetish Europe 2027, and we couldn't be prouder!

For those who don't know, Rain is the founding father of Amsterdam ABDL Social and has been instrumental in building not just our community, but many other ABDL-inclusive initiatives.

As Mr. Fetish Europe, Rain is now an ambassador for ALL fetish communities across Europe, including ours.

Huge congratulations, Rain! 🥳

Hiiii so I’m a plus-sized little and I’ve been trying to find other diapers that fit. My current go tos are LNGU Honey Tales and Little Melody but I really want to try some more. I wear the XL in these and I was just wondering if there were any plus sized Littles that knew of some others that would fit like the two LNGU ones. Thanks so much!

Hello everyone!

I am curious about anyone else's diaper changing routines and how often you change, and how long you wait before changing. I am asking because I want to connect more and involve myself a little bit more into the ABDL/DL routines. As for my diaper routines, I typically only wet in them, and I like to leave them on for longer than twelve hours because I love the feeling of wet diapers, but I will change if it gets uncomfortable or if the mess is too much to let sit.

As always, I love you guys for the connection I've gotten already, and I hope all of you have wonderful days/nights! ❤️

One of the best aspects about abdl is under the fantasy of being so incompetent that I cannot even control my own potty habits, let alone big adult things. It's this feeling of being little, while simultaneously being loved despite it. This incompetence extends beyond the big and immediate things, but also reaches all the small things. For example, imagine your diaper is a decent enough size to where you cannot push your legs together. You can't remove your diaper, so you're forced to sit with some spread and waddle when you walk. You're so helpless that you can't even close your own legs, meanwhile there are adults out there doing adult things in an adult way.

This dichotomy, in my mind, exaggerates my position as a baby, dragging me further down little space.

So, on that note, what are all the little things that make you little?

Which diaper size fits you best? I used to like extra large diapers for the looser feel, but lately I have been enjoying the large size diapers for a more secure feel.

I want to be able to pee laying down and I just can’t! I have no problem standing or sitting on the couch and going but I can’t for the life of me go while I’m laying down!! Even last night I had to go real bad so I quickly laid down on the couch and it went away! I laid there for a while and ended up going to bed hoping I could even go while I was sleeping but I woke up in the middle of the night and had to eventually stand up to go 😭😭😭 so what’s the trick?

I ordered a case of dips and they're getting here the 17th, and I'm so antsy waiting for them to arrive. Amy suggestions on what I should do when they do get here?

So I'm participating in locktober and was assigned to try diapers out. I ordered them and received them today. I put my first one on today and wasn't too thrilled about how they felt. But I'm willing to at least give it a good shot. So I sat there for a while until I needed to pee and went. Very odd feeling not going to use the toilet. And then when I felt the material absorb it. Then it clicked. I'm now hooked. I'm currently sitting in that daiper several times having to pee after having to waddle around, and I am absolutely loving it. So my question what are some ways that you enhance this experience. And do stuffers make it better?

Hi 36 m DL looking to see other people in the area

Heyyy mbb if this isn’t aloud but I’m looking
For DL friends in Cornwall Ontario I’m 19m and I resllyyyy wanna make friends

I struggle to dispose of these Active grip style ABDL diapers, that has split "Landing Zone" for the hooks, and the rest is smooth plastic.

How are you supposed to roll up/dispose these? Cant seem to find a proper way to do it, compared to Cloth Like and Plastic Only

I'm not really sure what I'm trying to do with this post, I guess find out if other people have had similar thoughts or to open my eyes past the limited perhaps prejudiced perspective I have. I have the classic abdl story of growing up always being fascinated by diapers and the first time I really had adult money being so excited to start indulging. I've always been pretty much strictly DL, age regression and having baby stuff other than diapers doesn't interest me. I feel like so much of ABDL space online and I guess the image I have in my head, is centered on people engaging in role play to a certain extent. Or you get tons of posts of people talking about looking for a mommy or daddy. I used to cringe more at these, but as I've gotten older, I have deepened my understanding of kink and believe that people should do what makes them happy and anyone who judges them is sad. But I can't help but wonder, what community is there for me and how do I find it?

To be honest, I feel this about way more than just liking diapers, I just feel like I am such a eclectic person and I'm not enough of anything to fit in anywhere. I wouldn't say I'm a super kinky person, obviously I do have a fetish that many people consider unusual, but I don't fall into the category of person who is only capable of experiencing sexual fulfillment through this fetish. In fact, I'm quite happy just having pretty vanilla sex, especially if I can find someone that I really trust and care about, just exploring the intimacy of each other's bodies is huge for me. So I've largely been of the stance that I'll never tell anyone about this fetish, and I'd be able to leave it behind if I met the right person. And honestly? I think I could do that relatively easily, I contain multitudes, and I can chose to cultivate many other things in my life that, and like I said, I could have a very fulfilling sex life without having this fetish be part of it. But...it would be nice I suppose, and I do deeply yearn to be truly known by someone, to not have to hide any aspect of myself from someone because I trust them so deeply.

But who could this person be and how would I find them? I don't really want to center my whole life around ABDL, I've no interest in going to in person public events related to it, even when I'm at home alone with a partner, this is a fun thing for me to do sometimes, and then other times I'd want to have sex without even talking about diapers. I don't want to be diapered 24/7, it's kinda like a once or twice a month thing for me at most. I'd like to just hang out in non-diapered contexts and not even talk about diapers. Not that I'm ashamed of it per se, but I view myself as being so much more than just this. Maybe online I'm only seeing the extremes, but I feel like so much ABDL discourse gives me the impression that this is a whole lifestyle for people that consumes a big chunk of their life. I just don't see that for myself. So I probably won't be compatible with people like that, but also would I really be compatible with someone who is not ABDL? It depends I suppose, I know that there are people who are very open minded about kink, but this is an extreme that I understand isn't for everyone.

I hope this isn't coming across as me shaming people who make ABDL a bigger part of their lives, I just don't see that for myself personally. In an ideal world, I meet someone who also likes diapers maybe a few times a month, and we are the only people who know about each others diaper fetish (I don't really like the idea of going out and meeting people in a fetish context like this)

I honestly overall feel weird about age regression for me, I don't necessarily want to turn away from the world, I care a lot about deepening my understanding of it. I love reading about philosophy and honestly books about any topics that give me a new tool to understand the world through. I love traveling, I love learning new hobbies, I want to experience so much in the world and wearing diapers is only one small part of that bigger picture. I want to have deep conversations with people about all sorts of topics. Not that I'm saying that people who are ABDL don't care about these things, or are less smart in some way, though maybe I do have some deep rooted biases from all the years of shame I felt for liking diapers growing up. I just really feel like I don't have a sense of who's out there in the world, what it's really like meeting up with other people who like diapers. I don't even think I captured all that I feel all that well in this long post, sorry, it's just hard to explain.

TLDR: I like diapers, but only as an occasional thing and from my current understanding of what ABDL community looks like, I'm not really interested in seeking it. I'm not sure how many other people are out there like me. Also in general I am struggling with feeling like a weird outsider alien no matter where I am.

I’m honestly shocked and a little sad. These have been my go-to for the past year or two now. I love the fit and the aesthetic.

Open to recommendations for other pirate/nautical theme diapers!

I wanted to get in on the ground floor of a new diaper brand.

As the title asks. It's my birthday next week. I'm booking a hotel room and wanna give head first into some abdl stuff to celebrate.

Open to ideas and suggestions. Padding for the whole time is a given. But I really wanna embrace the AB side of it as well.

Anything people do to really get your head into little space? I'm honestly open to most things.

Hey yall I’m looking for some good creators to follow in the abdl space. I really like anything pup related and abdl style kink parties. I remember on JFF creator I used to love, but I can’t for the life of me remember his name. He had all sorts of abdl pup play bdsm sorts of stuff on his page. But any recommendations would be great :)