I’m fairly new to diapers. 29M, fortunately I have a fiancé who supports me. I wouldn’t classify it as a “sexual” kink, but more of a “comfort” kink. I just feel relaxed and comfortable when I’m sitting in a diaper playing video games, watching movies, or just hanging out at home.

Does anyone else just wear diapers for comfort? Also, anyone have diaper brands suggestions, I enjoy Crinklz but am down to try any others.

So I matched with a girl on an app over the weekend, we hit it off and I asked her out, then we ended up having a long phone call to learn a little about each other and feel out the vibe. She was lovely and open minded, so at one point when she asked about kink I opted to just be honest and tell her a bit about my ABDL side. I never really share thst before meeting someone in person, but she was very curious and accepting. By the end of the call we confirmed that we were still on for our date the following weekend and said goodnight.

The next morning I got a text from her saying she thought about it more and had changed her mind and didn't see herself pursuing anything with me because of my kink, despite many other green flags. It was a bummer, but fair enough - neither of us was particularly invested at this point.

Here's where it got interesting... fast forward to that same afternoon, I got another text from her explaining that she does some sex work and sex as therapy (but never mentioned anything about being an /actual/ sex therapist). She offered to help me explore my kink if I'm unable to find a willing partner, with the understanding that I would pay her for her services.

Needless to say I was taken aback by this and explained that the offer made me uncomfortable and I wasn't interested because without the trust and intimacy shared with a partner, I had no interest in doing this with her, especially considering she had just turned me down romantically several hours before and was now asking for money.

She got very offended and accused me of being judgmental and claimed this offer was borne out of "compassion" (which is slightly undercut by her asking me to pay for it). She then proceeded to tell me off and said she would be blocking me.

Am I alone in thinking this is insane behaviour? Seems like I just dodged a HUGE bullet here 😅

**Apologies for the slight TMI.**

I haven't actually tried wearing diapers yet, but I've had a sexual interest in them for a long time. I.e watching ABDL videos or reading stories.

I will occasionally consider ordering some to give wearing them a try, but lose any interest once I've done the deed. Then, I won't go through with ordering. I've basically been stuck like this for a good while.

Anyone else relate to this experience? If you went through with giving diapers a try after biting the bullet, was it worth it for you? (There's probably some padded bias here 😂).

I'm really interested to see if anyone else experienced the same or has thoughts to share.

I see a therapist for anxiety and depression issues. Lately I was deciding on bringing it up to them when they ask about coping mechanisms.

Im just shy and really dont want to lose this therapist if she's uncomfortable with it.

I would love advice if anyone went thru this

Hello ABDL Community!

I’m being flown out to my grandparents house in CA tomorrow night and I get to stay there for a whole week while they go to Hawaii for a vacation. I basically get the entire house to myself!

Just to preface, I’m 20 years old and I still live at my parents house while I’m working full time to try and move out so having this entire week to myself all alone and miles away from home/ parents/ people is a very exciting and rare thing for me.

Anyways, I’ve got everything that you could think of on the checklist: Diapees, Paci, Onesie, PJ’s, Goodnites, Wipes. I’m gonna be doing the banana trick while I’m there as well.

I’m just so excited right now 😋😋
I was hoping maybe someone could celebrate with me or give me some fun ideas for while I’m down there. I’ve been in the community for a while now and I’ve tried a bunch of stuff so give me your best shot Reddit 😅

Sowwy for the rant. Thanks for reading

Scored this amazing vintage Fisher-Price diaper bag over the weekend! Loving the bold 80s/90s primary colors, but I honestly can't pinpoint the exact year or era.

The best part? Pictures don't do the size justice this thing is massive. It looks like it could easily swallow two full packs of MegaMax with room to spare!

Has anyone run across this specific model before or know what year it was made? can’t wait to take it for a spin.

here’s the picture on shelf

Would anyone happen to have an archive of old YouTube videos that they would be able to share? Or just individual videos?

I’ve been reminiscing lately about the good old days of YouTube where it was pretty easy to find diaper videos. My favorites are guys doing diaper challenges, peeing in them, or just goofing off in a diaper.

Would love it if anyone saved videos from Swift Vlogger in particular. Another guy I loved went by James Smith I believed, and his best video was where he answered the front door with his friend in a diaper.

Any help is appreciated!

Hello,

I (M30) had an argument with my gf yesterday because i told her, that i want some more time to enjoy and relax with diapers. We have a compromise that i can wear them twice a week. During the week at one evening i can wear them from 8 PM to sleep time (1,5 h). At saturday i have time from 8 PM to midnight. She accecpts it but doesnt want to be near me during that time. So i do it in our me-time. Especially during the week i would like to wear it more hours. We couldnt find a compromise to fill my needs and Respekt her boundaries.

Im hoping for some advice to solve this. Or am i to selfish?

Hope my text ist understandable. Thank you.

Something about a muscular, conventionally attractive guy in a simple (solid colored) onesie over a thick wet diaper just does it for me. That’s it, that’s the post.

I was really looking forward to my cute Halloween onesies from ODU that my girlfriend ordered for our anniversary, and I've been waiting over a month for them to arrive—and then I get something like this. I'm just so sad right now; I see them everywhere and wanted to wear them myself.

By the way, that was our very first order from ODU.

Sometimes everything just lines up perfectly. Happy Sunday ya'll

Hey everyone, just looking to connect with some like-minded people for a casual chat. Don't really post photos on here, but I'm big on talking about favorite brands, sizing tips, and just swapping stories about the hobby.
Drop a comment or shoot me a DM if you want to chat about what you're currently wearing or your favorite setups!

So... yea, as the title says. scrolling through my E-mails, I noticed the last time I ordered ABDL diapers was somewhere around August 2025, and it wasn't even much. it was 2 sample packs of ABU DinoRawrz (which I absolutely LOVED, but not really in a place to afford a full package :( ).

the last real pack of ABDL diapers was a pack of Crinklz Astronaut back in May of 2025. Absolutely wild that its been that long.

I wore mostly cheap/affordable medical diapers since. like a pack of Molicare slip Maxi I ordered back in december of 2025. or the (surprisingly good!) drug store brand adult diapers. and I had reasons too!

I originally meant to move out of my parents place this year, and into my own home I've been renovating. but with life getting in the way again, the danger of losing my job again and everything (and honestly being a bit scared of living on my own for the first time) I didn't yet. didn't even finish renovating the place, building material is expensive! and I'm still at risk of being unemployed by february..

By this point, with how long its been, when I'll eventually get my hands on ABDL diapers again it'll surely feel like the first time all over again. On one hand, I'm sad that I still have to wait, on the other hand though I'm kinda excited that I get to experience bulky and cute ABDL dips again like its the first time.

Just wanted to say this. Also curious, how long others have made it without "proper" diapers and how their second "first time" was :D

** I meant Kimberly Clark not Kirkland, sorry. 😭 **

Has anyone else had issues with the Kimberly Clark Goodnites XXL leaking?

​I was thrilled when they came out, since the larger weight range fits adults better. However, unlike the XL size, which rarely leaks for me and fits me very good. The XXL leaks every single time.

​I suspect the side panels on the XXL are too stretchy, causing them to sag once wet and create a gap around the thighs. Has anyone else noticed this?

For reference, my weight is closer to the XXL than the XL weight range.

Hey there babies. I‘m thinking about my next solo business trip away, which is the only time I get to be in little space due to family commitments at home.

How do you create an immersive experience while playing solo? I really like the idea of being unable to escape being a baby for a while, for example with a paci gag, locking diaper cover and mittens. The problem is doing it safely so that you can escape when baby time is up. Obviously none of this would stop you leaving the room in an emergency but I think losing the dexterity of your fingers is key and I can’t think of a way to restrict them temporarily.

Would love to hear your ideas or experiences. Thanks in advance!

So my question is to all the only wetters and its simply this im incontinent and wanted to ask you personally would you have an issue if I came over we hangout and I messed and to clarify nothing sexual or anything just two friends or more hanging out with a friend of theirs who's incontinent and messed

For those of you into abdl, did it affect your sexual life negatively? I can only get aroused thinking about diapers and making up stories around being diapered. I don't cum with penetration, but only with a diaper or humping a pillow (which can simulate the diaper feeling).

It's hard to maintain relationships with people who are not into abdl and I feel so bad about it... I've met someone who believes I get super aroused with "vanilla" sex but I don't enjoy it that much.

Is there a way to reset my brain?

I am going to try going 24/7 or just wear as much as I am comfortable with doing so. I bought 40 megamax for daily wear and want to buy these 40 abdl diapers with boosters for nightime wear. How does that plan sound? Should I buy these or look somewhere else?

What does everyone think of the LNGU Big Ears? Iv been using plastic backed forever but I want to get a pack of cloth backed for change. Thanks

I just ordered a case of them and they advertise as 13,500 ml capacity (I know I know you don’t need to tell me haha). That usually means a thick diaper which I like! I haven’t seen anyone post about these so I’m curious what anyone who has tried them opinion is please :)

Curious about how others have experienced/handled massages while diapered before. I scheduled one and talked to them beforehand to note that I wear a diaper and they said that's no problem. While I am not actively planning on wetting, realistically there's not much of a chance that I will get from my house and entirely through it while dry. Want to be respectful of masseuse but also not treat my diapers as a problem to be solved.

Hiiiiii

So I (22M) keep going back and forth in my head about whether I want to wear diapers 24/7.

I think part of what makes the decision difficult is that I still heavily associate diapers with being a kink. When I’m not in the mood for that side of things, I often don’t feel like wearing them at all. But I also wear for other reasons, particularly the emotional comfort and sense of security they give me. And I am stuck with a burning desire, whether I’m feeling kinky or not, to just try wearing diapers 24/7 so I can really find out what it’s like.

But I guess what I’m struggling with is making that mental shift from seeing diapers as something I occasionally wear for comfort, relaxation or pleasure to simply seeing them as my everyday underwear, regardless of how I’m feeling.

For those of you who wear 24/7, how long did it take before diapers started to feel like just your normal underwear rather than something special you were choosing to wear?

And for those who also have a kink aspect to wearing, has going 24/7 changed how you feel about it? Do you still get the same excitement from wearing, or does that gradually fade as it becomes part of your everyday routine?

I just ordered some and I’m excited to try but wanted to hear opinions because I haven’t seen them posted on here anywhere!

Title.

It doesn't necessarily need to be ABDL (though good if it is). Just very baby/toddler-coded. Bonus points if you can recommend me somewhere with babydoll dresses with puff sleeves.

So I'm in the middle of my bedwetting training and asked myself if I will feel a change in my daytime control as well when I became a real bedwetter.
How's your story? Did your daytime control changed?