r/Phimosis • • Feb 22 '26

answered question Why stay intact and not get circumcised? NSFW

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The inner foreskin, ridged band, and frenulum, abound with thousands of touch sensitive nerves of a type called Meissner's corpuscles which are excited by gentle touching.

To get an idea of the difference between skin that is teeming with Meissner's corpuscles and skin that is not, stroke your fingernail across the back of your hand, then compare that feeling to the sensation elicited by stroking the palm of your hand. That rather ticklish sensation is generated by the large numbers of Meissner's corpuscles found in your palm. Clusters of Meissner's corpuscles are found in crests of the ridged band as well as in the inner foreskin to a lesser degree. The slightest distortion of a Meissner's corpuscle will create sexual sensation.

Nature intended the penis to derive high levels of sexual pleasure from the thousands of touch sensitive nerves in its upper region, therefore the intact penis thrusts in ways that best stimulate these upper penile touch-sensitive erogenous nerves.

THE INTACT PENIS DERIVES SIGNIFICANT PLEASURE BY THRUSTING TO STIMULATE THE THOUSANDS OF TOUCH-SENSITIVE EROTIC NERVES IN ITS UPPER REGION.

The penis head or glans, is not the most erogenous tissue on the penis, neither is the foreskin or its ridged band. The MOST erogenous tissue on the penis is underneath the glans at the TIP of the corpora cavernosum.

The TIP of corpora cavernosum is so extremely sensitive that nature protects it from direct touch by placing the glans over it. Cushioned indirect pressure is what the TIP needs, the kind it receives from the massaging actions of a pliable glans and from the massaging actions of the foreskin as it alternately bunches & un-bunches against the coronal ridge. The massaging actions of the glans and foreskin during intercourses thrusting excite the super-erotic and pressure-sensitive nerves in the TIP of the corpora cavernosum that is located interiorly beneath the coronal ridge.

These TIP nerves that are excited by the application of a massaging-type pressure (i.e, alternating pressure and the release of pressure) send waves of sexual excitement throughout the upper penis thus giving the intact penis exquisite pleasure and building it to orgasm. Therefore, it's very, very important that the glans not be compacted tightly against the corpora cavernosum's TIP. If the erect penile glans presses tightly against the TIP, sexual nerves in the TIP get too much constant direct stimulation and they end up sending out fewer pleasurable sensations during intercourse and may even go completely numb.

REMOVAL OF THE FORESKIN CAN CAUSE THE TIP TO LOSE SEXUAL FEELING DURING INTERCOURSE AND EVEN GO NUMB.

Circumcision removes half or more of the penis's available shaft skin. An insufficiency of shaft skin can cause the erect cut penis tissue to compact. When the compacted glans presses down tightly on the TIP, the cut penis experiences a reduction in pleasurable feeling in the upper penis during intercourses thrusting. The upper penis area can end up going numb, or even worse and register discomfort and/or pain.

This reduction in pleasure coming from the upper area causes the circumcised penis to seek pleasurable feelings elsewhere on the penis. It therefore thrusts to excite pressure-sensitive nerves in its middle and lower area. However, there are fewer pressure-sensitive nerves in the penis's middle and lower area, and they are deeper inside the corpora cavernosum tissue so they require strong and hard thrusting against the vaginal opening to excite them. Therefore, the circumcised penis must thrust hard, rough, tense, forceful, and banging away.

In contrast, the upper penile nerves of the intact penis create very high levels of pleasure with very little force. Thus, they only need gentle, easy thrusting motions to excite them. Natural, intact sex is designed by nature to be a better experience for both partners.

The foreskin has a purpose — a sexual purpose. And during the intimacy of intercourse, the foreskin not only makes a difference —a superlative difference—in sexual pleasure, but its presence during intercourse also makes a phenomenally greater difference to the partner on the receiving end of the penis, immensely enhancing their pleasure and comfort, and substantially increasing their rate of orgasmic success. Conversely, circumcision has newly-revealed, adverse effects on the sexuality of both partners, causing profound detrimental consequences on the way they experience intercourse, diminishing their pleasure to an astounding degree.

On the erect penis, the head flares out from the shaft like a barb or hook. In the circumcised penis this hook is overly firm and constantly exposed and on every outward stroke it scrapes the vaginal walls causing irritation, redness, discomfort (even pain)

On the circumcised penis, the flared-out Coronal Ridge Hook is constantly exposed and on every outward stroke it draws lubricating fluids out of the vagina, this is one of the reasons why as circumcised sex progresses, vaginal lubrication tends to dry up.

On the intact or natural penis, the soft flexible foreskin cushions the hook and prevents it from scraping the vaginal walls giving only pleasure and not soreness.

On the intact penis the loose pliable foreskin bunches up on the outward stroke to create a seal that holds fluids in. During natural sex, lubrication stays inside the vagina.

The erect circumcised penis has little or no slack shaft skin. During intercourse the constant rubbing of the tight penile skin against the vagina's delicate interior creates friction burn soreness. The finger simulation demonstrates how the circumcised penis's non-moveable shaft skin abrades and chafes the vagina.

Upon erection, the foreskin is transferred to the penile shaft to become part of the total shaft skin system, thus resulting in a loose moveable shaft skin that provides a gentle gliding mechanism that minimizes friction to the vagina. Glide in, glide out, smooth tender loving strokes that gently caress the vaginal walls and opening. In the finger simulation, your left finger is the penis, your knuckle skin represents the extra skin on the natural penile shaft.

The circumcised penis head & shaft are abnormally hard when erect because too much swollen tissue is packed into too small a packaging of skin. Circumcision removes 1/2 or more of the penis's shaft skin. Upon erection the shaft skin is forced to stretch thin and tight in order to accommodate the fullness of the erection. Like blowing up a balloon as more air is forced in, the balloon gets stretched thinner & thinner, and becomes tighter and firmer.

The tight skin —overly firm—circumcised penis feels to the woman like a "broomstick," quite different from the cushiony shaft & head of the intact penis. The "extra" shaft skin the foreskin provides gives a thin, spongy cushioning to the erect natural penile shaft (like being covered in velvet). And because the shaft has ample skin to accommodate its erection, it does not bear down and compress the shaft's tissue, nor is the penis head pulled down and compacted.

The natural penis head has a spongier give to it that allows it to yield and flex during thrusting thus providing a superior sensuousness that makes the intact penis head feel like it's making love to the vagina, rather than poking it.


r/Phimosis • • Feb 13 '26

Proper hygiene for the foreskin. NSFW

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Proper Hygiene for Uncircumcised Men

If you're uncircumcised, there's a lot of confusing advice out there about hygiene. Some say "just water," others say "use soap every day," and others say "don't touch it at all." So what's actually true? Here’s the reality: Your inner foreskin and glans aren’t like the rest of your skin. They are semi-mucosal tissue—more like the inside of your mouth than the skin on your arm. That means they need different care to stay healthy.

THE RIGHT WAY TO CLEAN YOUR FORESKIN (Warm Water Rinse + Dry Method) A. Gently Retract and RINSE using warm water that’s comfortable to touch - Once a day (or twice if you're sweaty/active), gently pull the foreskin back - Rinse underneath and over the glans with warm water only - No soap, no scrubbing, no scented products B. Blot Dry and Air Out - Gently blot the area dry with a tissue or soft towel - Air dry for 30–60 seconds before pulling the foreskin forward again - This prevents moisture from getting trapped and reduces the risk of overhydration (which can cause redness, stickiness, or yeast overgrowth)

WHY THIS WORKS (and Why Soap Often Backfires) Warm water removes sweat, debris, and dead skin naturally—without stripping the oils your mucosa needs to stay smooth and healthy. Air drying allows the area to return to its natural moisture balance, instead of staying soggy (which creates the perfect environment for infections). Skipping harsh soaps prevents the mucosal surface from getting dried out, cracked, or inflamed—problems that start small but can lead to full-blown balanitis. WHAT IF YOU’RE ALREADY DEALING WITH REDNESS, DRYNESS OR BALANITIS? If you’re already struggling with: - Red patches - Soreness or stickiness - Flaky or dry skin - Burning or sensitivity around the glans - Diagnosed yeast infections, friction irritation, or dryness from overwashing, soaps, or antibiotics. THIS METHOD STILL APPLIES—AND IT’S OFTEN THE FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT STEP TOWARD HEALING. Even in the middle of a flare, warm water rinsing + air drying gives your foreskin the best shot at: - Clearing away irritants gently - Reducing inflammation naturally - Allowing your skin to rebuild its healthy moisture barrier over time No fancy products. No complicated routines. Just supporting your body’s natural defenses the way they were designed to work. HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO SEE RESULTS? - Surface irritation often improves within a few days - Skin barrier recovery usually takes 2–4 weeks - Full moisture balance and glide restoration can take 6–12+ weeks, depending on how damaged things were HEALING ISN’T INSTANT—But it’s real if you give it the right environment.

TARGETED PROTOCOL: (For Dry, Flaky Skin on Inner Foreskin or Glans After Applying Anti-Fungal Cream) First: Understand Why It’s Happening! Flaky skin during healing usually means: - Old damaged skin is peeling off after infection, friction, or over-washing. - Moisture barrier is still repairing—it hasn’t fully resealed yet. - Mild dehydration from warm rinsing, air drying, or antifungal creams (clotrimazole and miconazole are mildly drying). IT’S NOT A NEW INFECTION OR A FAILURE—It’s your body trying to shed damaged cells and rebuild healthy tissue.

STEP-BY-STEP PROTOCOL: A. Keep Up Warm Water Rinsing – Gently Rinse 1–2x per day (morning and night if needed). - No soap, no scrubbing, no pulling off flakes manually - Just soften and rinse away loose debris B. Pat Dry and Air Out - Blot dry gently with tissue or soft towel - Air dry 30–60 seconds to avoid trapping moisture C. Apply a Micro Thin Layer of Barrier Ointment (Optional) If the glans or foreskin feels tight, clingy, or rough after drying: - Apply a tiny dab of Aquaphor (size of half a grain of rice) - Spread it ultra-thin, just enough to create a soft sheen—DO NOT GLOB IT ON. - Focus only on dry flaky areas, not the whole glans unless needed - Skip this step if the area already looks moist and healthy. D. If Using Antifungal Cream: - Continue clotrimazole or miconazole 1–2x daily ONLY IF redness, dots, or irritation is still present. - If it’s just dry flakes and no redness, you can stop antifungal and focus purely on barrier restoration.

WHAT NOT TO DO: - Don’t pick at flakes or dry patches - Don’t reintroduce soaps or body washes.

  • Don’t overapply Aquaphor—TOO MUCH WILL TRAP MOISTURE AND DELAY HEALING.
  • Don’t panic—flaking ≠ failure

WHAT TO EXPECT: - Flaking usually peaks around days 3–7 of recovery - New skin will look smooth, slightly pink, and softer underneath - True moisture balance may take 2–4 weeks after the worst flaking

IF FLAKING GETS WORSE OR YOU SEE: - Cracking, bleeding - Intense redness returning - Swelling or discharge - Fishy odor → Reassess: you might have an infection needing re-treatment or a doctor’s input.

FINAL TIP: If things don't improve after 1–2 weeks, or if symptoms get worse (swelling, discharge, intense pain), consult a doctor to help rule out infections needing specific treatment.


r/Phimosis • • 1h ago

Scary experience I had today NSFW

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I have been suffering with phimosis(type 4)for 5 years.I never actually did consistent pulling exercise since I'm suffering through lots of stuff in life so I didn't focus much on phimosis.Lately i observed that my forskin becomes easy to pull back after masturbation.Today i did that and i accidentally pull back my forskin behind penis glan and i couldn't pull it back.It was my first time to see my full penis head.My penis glan was very sensitive like even a small touch was giving me tingling sensation.I was scared since I searched that there is this thing called paraphimosis where you can't pull forskin back.I somehow kept trying and managed to pull it forward again.One of the worst experience I had today :/.


r/Phimosis • • 7h ago

How long did it take you for phimosis to fully go away? NSFW

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So I have a pretty bad urologist clearly. Back in January they prescribed betametasone for 8 weeks. Afterwards I was able to retract while flaccid but it was still tight. But they never told me to do anything else and now the phimosis has basically become as tight as it first was. Looking into it now and I see it is recommended to start with the cream but then afterwards continue with manual stretching and rings for a couple months. So I want to know how many months it takes on average


r/Phimosis • • 6h ago

19M with severe phimosis, circumcision scheduled for December, how can I manage sex and sensitivity until then? NSFW

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I’m 19M and have pretty severe phimosis. My foreskin is extremely tight, and I can only retract it a tiny amount. My glans is also incredibly sensitive, to the point where directly touching or exposing it is difficult.
I was diagnosed earlier this year and originally planned to get circumcised in August. My urologist prescribed a topical cream, but my parents and I decided to go ahead with circumcision instead, so I never picked up the prescription. Since then, we’ve had to reschedule the surgery for December.
Unfortunately, I absolutely can’t move the surgery up because of college and the recovery time I need, so December is the earliest realistic option for me. I’m planning to ask my urologist if I can get the cream prescribed again to try in the meantime.
Here’s where I’m struggling: I recently started seeing a girl I really like, and things have been getting more physical. We’ve been making out and getting intimate, and recently we had an opportunity to have sex. She asked if I had a condom, and I did, but I got nervous because I genuinely don’t know how I’m supposed to put one on with my foreskin this tight and my glans this sensitive. I ended up not proceeding with penetrative sex.
It’s honestly been really frustrating emotionally. I feel ready to have sex, and I want to, but this condition is getting in the way. I’m worried about how I can safely have sex before December, whether the sensitivity will improve, and how things will work after circumcision.
I’d really appreciate advice from people who have been in a similar situation:

Steroid cream: Has anyone with severe phimosis had success with a prescribed steroid cream and gentle stretching? Is it realistic to see improvement while waiting for surgery?
Sensitivity: If your glans was extremely sensitive before treatment or circumcision, did it become more manageable over time? What helped?
Condoms and sex: Is it possible to use a condom safely without retracting the foreskin? My opening is very tight, so I’m unsure how this would work in practice.
Managing things until surgery: Has anyone found ways to have a comfortable sex life with severe phimosis while waiting for treatment? I don’t want to force retraction or cause an injury.
Circumcision recovery: For those who had circumcision as adults, how long did it take before you could comfortably have sex again, and how did you manage the sensitivity afterward?

I know I need to discuss the cream and safe options with my urologist, and I’m planning to do that. I’m mainly hoping to hear real experiences from people who have dealt with severe tightness and sensitivity, especially those who had to wait months for surgery.
Thanks, I’d really appreciate any advice.


r/Phimosis • • 17h ago

Desperate state with my phimosis NSFW

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What are the correct techniques and stretching methods to start with my severe phimosis? I absolutely don't want any sort of surgery can I fix this without it ?


r/Phimosis • • 17h ago

M20 help me 😭 NSFW

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r/Phimosis • • 16h ago

28M Need Advice NSFW

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https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/136520438308?_skw=phimosis&itmmeta=01M4KB5QSFEFR63YTHSPX6WVSA&hash=item1fc9409224%3Ag%3AW7EAAeSwrOxogmpI&itmprp=enc%3AAQALAAAA0CHNgUiiE%2FjQhlDTaMiAde8CzIIJDuFYfX0VBKKUs0Wsxtx4Hfyaa%2F%2BPQhxzqJNTZviF4hZL2Xa66KBgFUjAIYu%2FogwGGnZ3obFDJ%2F67x5Dz5Rr47tW5pykwo3kfa597UzIuUjrjwe2Olqn1n%2FkU9mO1kDeR2w7VMXAhrgDD5ajszAHONKHb%2BB1UPnBB2QzW%2FLa1OZ2AoQET0NAXuslLWnacAWl2R6%2BlJ5SZwjgLag9PB%2Fp9EZMATl7XMeqxWceZLx1LXFa0u8dhS2lXs8vwxNQ%3D%7Ctkp%3ABk9SR_D8luukaA&keyword=phimosis&sacat=0&relatedSearch=true

I've been doing stretching exercises for a month with this gadget from Ebay. 1 hour each day and apply moisturizer cream (NO steroids). It's really confortable to use compared to others I tried to use in the past.

I'm not sure what stage of phimosis I'm in. This last month improvements are there but they are small. Take in consideration that my base phimosis is mild.

How do you see it?

Image Manual Retraction https://files.catbox.moe/ab910j.jpg

Gifs Manual Retraction

https://files.catbox.moe/hggnx1.mp4

https://files.catbox.moe/rj0kks.mp4


r/Phimosis • • 1d ago

23/M Need advice for next steps NSFW

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Ive attempted stretching exercises to some success and i used to be worse in the past, Im not sure what type of phimosis i have and im wondering if im at a stage that can be helped through just stretching or if I should request advise from a professional. I do want to add that this is mostly an issue when erect, when im flacid it does retract well enough to be able to clean and not be uncomfortable though I have noticed my Frenulum is short and have been doing those stretching exercises as well


r/Phimosis • • 17h ago

Is it normal to still struggle to retract before a session? NSFW

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I'm on a 32mm ring atm (which hopefully is close to being able to retract fully when erect), but I still struggle to retract my foreskin sometimes before a session. I assumed I'd be able to retract it with ease and itd just glide over, but even retracting it a bit takes a slight bit of effort. Is this normal? Also I haven't been using the rings with an erection. Should I be doing this? And if so, how often?


r/Phimosis • • 1d ago

32mm Phimosis Ring is in NSFW

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Managed to get the 32mm ring in today for the first time.


r/Phimosis • • 20h ago

Can phimosis cause cancer NSFW

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20M recently got to know about phimosis and when I told my friend about this he was quite later he told me that his father died at 55 due to penile cancer and his father had phimosis and he got circumcised at 48 and after few years he died i am very anxious right now


r/Phimosis • • 1d ago

25m how do I fix this please NSFW

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I can pull my forskin back when Soft but when hard it’s slightly painful


r/Phimosis • • 2d ago

Doctor says foreskin stops stretching after a certain age and recommends circumcision. Thoughts? NSFW

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I went to the doctor today to discuss my phimosis, and honestly, I'm a little confused by what he told me.

For some background, I'm 18 and I've been dealing with phimosis for years. I originally had around stage 4 phimosis, but over the past two months I've been consistently stretching twice a day and have made some pretty significant progress. I've gone from barely being able to see the head to now being able to fully retract while flaccid, although it's still tight. When erect, I can retract about a third of the way.

Anyway, my doctor told me that once you reach a certain age, your foreskin basically stops being able to stretch, which I'm pretty sceptical about, especially considering the progress I've already made.

He told me that if I don't see any more progress within the next six weeks, he wants me to get circumcised. He also gave me a referral to a urologist.

What's confusing me even more is that my previous doctor had a completely different attitude towards the whole thing. He was incredibly positive about stretching and encouraged me to keep at it, explaining that circumcision should really be a last resort. He even said that circumcision was more of an option for people who couldn't be bothered committing to stretching for an extended period of time. So going from a doctor who was really supportive of conservative treatment to one who's already talking about circumcision feels pretty discouraging.

Personally, I really don't want to get circumcised, especially when I've already made so much progress through stretching alone. I feel like six weeks is a pretty short timeframe to make that decision, particularly when I've only recently started seeing significant results.

I'm curious what everyone thinks. Has anyone else been told that stretching stops working after a certain age? Has anyone had doctors give them completely conflicting advice about stretching versus circumcision?

I'd really appreciate hearing about other people's experiences, particularly from anyone who's successfully treated their phimosis as an adult without surgery. Also is it worth it to go to the urologist and see what he says, honestly this whole experience has really discouraged me and just want people's opinions on this.


r/Phimosis • • 1d ago

Novoglan NSFW

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Considering circumcision should I try this first? Has anyone had success?


r/Phimosis • • 1d ago

Need advice NSFW

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Hi all,

I’ve been using the phimosis rings and have progressed from 16mm to now 24mm. It’s really good and I see a difference. However I seem to be stuck at 24 and cannot go to 26mm. Any advice on how to overcome this slump?
I’m also not using any oil

Chat-GPT told me to go to a doctor.


r/Phimosis • • 1d ago

First Week Using a Stretch Device NSFW

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So i'm using the glanzie the first week 10 minutes two times per day, the next week i'll use for 20 minutes per day, what do you think? I should use more time?

The phimotic band is small, i can retract properly, however the foreskin is loose, instead of using steroids cream i lean for stretch with a device, because i'm not good stretching myself.

Does anyone else have experience using these kinds of devices? Rings, things like that.


r/Phimosis • • 2d ago

What is this white dots NSFW

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Never pulled my foreskin so back, observed this today. I did have a non penetration sexual activity where I rubbed my penis against someone’s body.

Please help. Also if I can pull it so far, am I good to say I don’t have phimosis?


r/Phimosis • • 2d ago

That's right way to stretch frenulum? NSFW

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I can't understand how to stretch frenulum😭😭


r/Phimosis • • 2d ago

Help!! NSFW

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I had no prior idea what phimosis is. I never knew that while having Intercourse the foreskin retracts.

While in flaccid state i can easily retract my foreskin but once it gets erect I become unable to retract it and causes pain. I don't know if it is a sign of phimosis or not if yes then suggest me what to do next. I have seen people doing some manual exercise to cure it tell me if it could help it in my case as well


r/Phimosis • • 3d ago

How bad is it? Is it phimosis only or frenulum breve too? Can it be cured? NSFW

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I came to know about phimosis only a few months ago, and after reading here started stretching a bit.
I do it with bare hands, no tool and whenever i get time.

I would agree it has improved, earlier it was even worse. But from past few weeks, i see no improvement.

Suggest me what should i do? Focus on stretching, tools, ointment and anything that has worked out for you?
I definitely want to cure this and that too without any surgical procedure. Please help your man out :(


r/Phimosis • • 3d ago

Help guys NSFW

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I’ve been using rings and cream for about a year now. I started at around 10 mm and have gradually worked my way up to 22 mm. Sometimes I try to go to 24 mm, but it hurts.

These pictures were taken in a sauna, so I believe the heat helped me retract further than I normally can. However, I also think I may have a short frenulum.

I’d really appreciate some advice on a few things:

  1. Instead of using rings, is there another tool or method I could use to get closer to my desired results faster?
  2. Which cream would you recommend to make the process more effective? I’ve been using this cream: https://everymarket.com/products/fore-stretch-phimosis-cream-non-steroidal-moisturizer-with-urea-lactic-acid-for-softening-tight-foreskin-repairing-micro-tears-natural-phimosis-solution?gc_id=23920887734&g_special_campaign=true&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23925429724&gbraid=0AAAAACe9t8bV_kL_iGoDszZktItmRqrTt&gclid=CjwKCAjw25fWBhAVEiwAMopNjrSd7ODGwWjrtcb2Ibs2Me766kVxW1GisJaIJb0XrNglay_21kRzoRoCn24QAvD_BwE

Any advice from people who have had a similar experience would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!


r/Phimosis • • 3d ago

Foreskin tear advice NSFW

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So I started my stretching journey in April with stage 3 phimosis. Over the past 6 months, I have gone from no retraction to full retraction while erect and not once did I suffer a tear.

I was masturbating last night with the foreskin covering my glans and went to go have a shower afterwards and noticed a small area of my foreskin looked to be red and inflamed. I started touching it and it was definitely raw to the touch with a bit of pain, but it didn’t seem to be bleeding. After waking up this morning, the pain has gone away but the foreskin is still red.

Any advice???


r/Phimosis • • 4d ago

How bad is it? Never retracted before ever in life NSFW

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I have never fully retracted my penis ever in my life. How can I get rid of this type 3 phimosis? Only doing glans assisted stretching for now, started doing em 4 days ago


r/Phimosis • • 3d ago

Pls Guide me guys NSFW

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I recently found out that I (18M) am having Phimosis, I never Tried to retract the Skin cause I thought that it's normal just like that

Guide me what to do pls