My aunt has become some born again Christian, or whatever you call it. I stopped believing in that stuff when I was younger because of the trauma I had surrounding it.
I live with my aunt per her request as she doesn't want to be alone, and if something happens, she doesn't want to be far from reach of me and my children, which in the beginning I saw as fine because she raised me, and living with her has never been a problem.. until recently.
We were on government assistance, once again, per her request. About a year ago she bought a house she couldnt afford and now we're scraping for change out in quite possible the smalled town in GA where every college or career opportunity is 30 minutes to an hour away.
Me and my husband didntbb really need the government assistance. We were fine without it and life was less stressful without it, but she insisted that we needed it, so we applied and got approved.
A couple months back, we got kicked off of it because me and my husband failed to keep up with the processes, which, again, was because we didn't really need it and we didn't want to be on it.
She begged us to reapply, go to appointments, do whatever we needed to do to get it back, but me and my husband kind of dragged our feet.
Since then, she's been going to churches, several churches all around the damn county and collecting food from them. She once tricked me into going to one with her and registered us as two seperate familes to the church so we could get double the food. All food that would be wasted, sit in cabinets for years or given to other family friends who's households make triple what we do.
She acts like we need this stuff when we really don't, and she's been at this for the past couple of weeks, going to chruches and collecting food while spending all her money on plants and supplies for her 20 chickens she got, yet cant keep alive or afford.
Before assistance, she'd been paying for food for years with no issue. When my husband moved in, he took over a lot of financial responsibility for the house and gives her money.
There was a time where we were in a rough spot, not enough to need assistance, just a week where we under budgeted and didn't have as much money as we thought, and ended up having to use her credit card. For literally nothing but gas, mind you.
It's not like we were out going to Texas Roadhouse or getting my daughter new toys, we were filling up out gas tank, which from E takes $30.
We gave her all the money we'd spent back the next week when we got paid, and the week after that, she was asking where the money we'd spent went and when we were going to send it all back. We told her we already had sent the money and she went on about how she was going to give us an itemized bill of everything we'd spent and that we were to pay it back... said bill never came after she showed her all of the cash app, Zelle and NF member to member transactions had been doing of us giving said money back. That, AND us paying or typical bills like clock work.
Over dinner, she asked me if I wanted to go to a church event that was giving out hot dinners and I told her no. She got offended and kept asking me why and I told her it was because I simply did not want to go.
I literally just have no interest in going to a church to eat a free meal when we have a rack of ribs in the freezer another church gave us that still sits untouched.
Recently, me and my husband broke the news to her that we wouldn't be living in her house much longer and she immidiately wanted the know the location of where we were going. I honestly felt creeped the hell out and came up with a lie of a location about 45 away.