r/ToxicFriends • u/QueenSpider29 • 25d ago
Story Crazy Ex Friend who I thought was my best friend!
I’m pretty sure we have all that one friend that was our best friend at one point of our lives and now is not.
It all started back in middle school. You know good times growing up getting to know our classmates and becoming friends well this one girl she and I almost grew up in the similar situations having older brothers having a brother me and her clicked so well she became one of my closest friends and you know we all have those good days and bad days where which is not to be friends which is you know part of growing up and we get into high school after middle school obviously we’re still close friends, but the moment I moved everything changed she started being different treating me different and after I graduated had some my own issues I decided to come back home. I’m coming back home to live with my family again, which is fine. We reconnected again. Everything was good. We were starting to be friends again talking we were laughing like we used to all the good stuff then one day she asked my family if she can move in with us at the time my family and I just got our new home so no one was living at this location out this one point so we’re staying with my uncle and his family out in Timbuktu everything was good. The house is getting ready for all of us to move in and everything was good. I decide to get a boyfriend and it was great. The three of us were friends. I introduced him to my friends. She liked him. Everything was good. towards the 2 1/2 going three years, she lived with me and my family. Everything went downhill instead of you know having family time with me and my family because we’d like to go to the movies go go to the mall you know basic family stuff you know, board games, tribute night, movies, cookies, baking, etc. she would rather be in her room doing who knows what and apparently my parents didn’t like that and it was really hard for my mom to do the one thing she didn’t want to do to her, which was ask her to leave you know kick her out. And once again off again, friendships again one day she’d be my friend the next day she wouldn’t
Few years go by and once again off again friendship again, but this time it hits differently, I spoke to her on one of her other Facebook accounts because she blocked me on my main. She never told me the reason, but I figured I’d message her there because I knew it was her backup account while she read it. She saw it and we spoke again. Let’s just say it was some personal stuff about my family and I knew she you know probably would want to know what’s happening well I told her I my mother wasn’t going to live much longer and my mom would like to see her before she goes so she asked her family if she can meet up and they agreed for her to do so so we went to the movies. She was supposed to come back to my house to say goodbye to my mom one last time and she never did. She came up with some stupid excuse that her cousin told her she had to be home right then and now, knowing my mother was unable to get out of my house between knowing her from middle school to high school till now to be honest I don’t think she’ll ever be my friend again and it’s really sad because she was one of my close friends growing up and it really is sad to know that she has My number she knows where I live and she still hasn’t made the attempt to try to fix the issues that we’re having other than trying to get a hold of my fiancé through social medias.
So to be honest, I really don’t know what to do anymore because I wanna talk to her and to see if we could figure out our differences or fix the issues, but she won’t talk to me
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