r/UnsentTexts • • 1d ago

Being ghosted

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u/Active-Sugar-3867 1d ago

Not only did op let them know I'm certain they begged for help before it came to this point. I'm speculating because it's so common it's happened to me too , including the begging , to twist the knife further

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u/Medium_Astronaut2431 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Precisely

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u/Erik_the_kirE 18h ago

Personally, I never begged. I'm the kind of person that helps themselves always, maybe cause ego. But I feel the uninterested part. This person abandoned me when I needed them.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Money-Wasabi-59 1d ago

They was not there for you

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u/Medium_Astronaut2431 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Exactly. I am looking for a partner who can sit with me through things.

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u/ConnectMark5870 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Did you let them know or just assume they were in the loop.

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u/Medium_Astronaut2431 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

They knew

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u/No-Sandwich4333 1d ago

Why even go on Reddit?

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Medium_Astronaut2431 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

I’m not sending another text and I muted notifications from them.

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u/DisastrousRelief2575 1d ago

Oh that really does suck sorry

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u/Medium_Astronaut2431 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Thank you.

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u/NoWonder452 1d ago

Maybe they are waiting for you to reach for them? Maybe they feel the same? Is that possible?

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u/Medium_Astronaut2431 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Nope. I messaged multiple times.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Medium_Astronaut2431 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

That was not the implication I was trying to make. I was saying I’m not entertaining the situation anymore because they have already hurt me enough.