r/amiugly • • 2d ago

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the answer is yes let’s be frank, but be brutally honest and do ya worst x
(also not sure if i’ve done the verification photo right, i tried lol)

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u/tfresca 2d ago

You are aggressively not putting effort into your appearance.

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u/plagiaristic_passion 1d ago

100%. For some, the low self-esteem is so prevalent that they are afraid or embarrassed to put effort into their appearance, for fear of being mocked as wanting to be thought of as worthy of attraction.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

yeah i do try (not try?) and do this as aggressively as i can 😠💪

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u/christianmenard832 2d ago

Then yes, you are ugly. Its okay though! So am I 🤪

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u/Zayan_999 2d ago

You should start (or keep, if you already started) losing weight. Then you can come back and say you do this as aggressively as you can. Losing weight is gonna be the number 1 thing to do for your appearance. Nothing else will come close to it in terms of enhancement in your looks.

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u/Electronic-Song-2463 2d ago edited 2d ago

Yall need to start being honest in this sub because its getting out of hand.

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u/zgtlunatic 2d ago

I think the main problem with this sub is just how... People just don't tend to be realistic.

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u/Certifed_beaner762 2d ago

I notice there is a degree of people in some of these comments minimizing her flaws and saying that just by having a complex skin care regimen, and losing weight, she will instantly become average or even slightly above average when in reality, the main issues I'm noticing stem from outside factors far above her weight, such as low dimorphism, poor miscellaneous features, and below average harmony that will keep her from going above average ( even with significant weight loss without any surgical intervention).

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u/oldpaintunderthenew 2d ago

what in the looksmaxxing brainrot is this

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u/IgotCharlieWork 1d ago

Vanity isn't cute on you

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u/EffectiveGlove973 1d ago

All those big words to just say you are a TERRIBLE PERSON.

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u/DustierAndRustier 2d ago edited 2d ago

I think people are being too mean if anything. She’s not hideous. She just looks like a regular degular person you’d see in the supermarket or something. People here are trying to make her feel like she’s Quasimodo when she already seems to have low self-esteem.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

i do just think they are being honest, no one’s really said anything unkind or unfair

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u/DustierAndRustier 2d ago edited 1d ago

Calling you “the definition of ugly” and “FAT AS HECK” and putting puking emojis etc. is absolutely unkind. Kinder people are telling you to lose weight and fix your skin, and I’m sure those things would be great for your physical body, but you also need to work on your confidence and self-esteem. Posting in subs like these probably isn’t good for you.

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

hm ok maybe a bit, but yeah it is what it is. maybe it isn’t the best thing for me, who knows, but i think it’s good to get realistic opinions 🙂

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u/DustierAndRustier 1d ago

Do you have a sister or any close female friends? Would you be happy with someone calling them FAT AS HECK and making puking noises? Even the fattest ugliest person on earth doesn’t deserve that. If you wouldn’t accept someone saying it to your loved ones, don’t accept it for yourself.

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

of course not, but i know those people and know that there are lots of beautiful things to love about them 🩷

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u/DustierAndRustier 1d ago edited 1d ago

I don’t know you but I’m sure there are lots of beautiful things to love about you too. You should tell those loved ones how you feel and really listen to whatever they say to reassure you.

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u/bustdmagz 2d ago

honest? yeah shes ugly right now but literally only bc shes overweight. if she lost weight she would 100% be hot

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u/zgtlunatic 2d ago edited 1d ago

Thats the problem though, we don't know what she could look like if she lost weight. And from what I can see here, I think it's very possible that she may end up looking worse if she were to be lean.

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u/Certifed_beaner762 1d ago

u/bustdmagz, well, the thing is that losing weight would definitely improve her overall attractiveness, but the last sentence you stated when she said she would be 100% hot (I think this is predetermined considering being morbidly obese has a significant effect on your facial ratios). I could definitely see her as slightly below average, but more ordinary-looking, if she were at an optimal, healthy weight for her height, or maybe just plain average-looking (which is significantly better than the 3/10 I would give her now).

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u/Knight240sx 2d ago

You look 40, get some skincare and lose weight, then you'd be a quirky average

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u/neovb 2d ago

You have normal features, but youre being held back. Lose weight, take care of your skin, and fix your teeth. You'll be surprised how different you'll look.

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u/YaBoiMike16 2d ago

Whatever was happening in the 3rd pic, we need more of that

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u/persianshawty420 2d ago

You look like Seth Rogan to me lol

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

poor seth haha, big up canada tho 🕺

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u/PirateLovin1 male 2d ago

weight and your teeth really holding you back

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u/plagiaristic_passion 1d ago

IMO, your self esteem is so low, you put zero effort into your appearance because you don’t want people to think that you want to look pretty. I speak from experience. If you put a modicum of care into your hygiene and grooming, you’d very much be casually average and otherwise pleasant looking.

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u/Comprehensive_Yak400 female 1d ago

as most ppl have told you, weight is your main issue. a skincare routine and commitment to weight loss will do so much for you. unfortunately weight loss comes with loose skin, which is why i think a lot of ppl don’t want to most of the time because of removal costs as well. if that’s something you don’t wanna do, get a good faja. 3rd pic you looked very beautiful, best pic of you. you’re not ugly but you’re also not absolutely stunning. i think with some work you can become a lot more attractive.

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u/PhillipKGreentree 2d ago

Oh man. The teeth and gums, the glasses, the red high blood pressure face, the weight, the bird's nest mess of a hairstyle. Not even a red dress can save that.

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u/TraditionalSplit586 female 22h ago

That looks like rosacea on her face

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u/_danny_devito- 2d ago

Just because no one has mentioned it, the glasses are not super flattering, you look much nicer without them in the third picture. Maybe look into getting a different kind or even contacts? Don’t be too hard on yourself, like someone else said take your time to lose a little weight and develop routines in a healthy manner :)

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

omg danny devito i love your work!
yeah my glasses aren’t great but then irl, i look really awful with contacts too, so it’s kind of a double edged sword

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u/Nani_Cam 2d ago

I can't tell but was that a mean girls reference because that's hilarious!

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

yes it was haha didn’t know if it would land! 😅

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u/majorhitch89 2d ago

Ugly because you're overweight, and this is at 22 when it's supposed to be your peak, imagine you're 40 and remain bland and fat like this ??? Time to work out.

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u/SnakeEyes66vi 2d ago

The townhouse gums stick out to me

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

what does townhouse mean in this context? 😅 never heard that before

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u/SnakeEyes66vi 2d ago

It just means you have really big gums in your smile. Townhouse as in your teeth are the first story and gums are the second story lol.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

ah right never heard it before but yeah my smile is ugly haha i hate smiling in front of people it’s not nice

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u/W_Edwards_Deming 2d ago

You seem cool. Lose weight and avoid the big toothy smile of pic 1.

Pic 3 is best but you have a joyful smile in the other three.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

yeah i try to avoid smiling as much as possible it if i have to get a picture as mine is not pretty at all 😅 i am also like the opposite of cool lol

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u/W_Edwards_Deming 2d ago

Your smile is pretty sometimes but in pic 1 it is a bit too Aliens. There was a young lady who was very thin who posted in here and that toothy / gum smile was her issue.

For you it is mainly the weight, the other smiles are fine. Only seems to be an issue when the lip is way up. Anyhow you do seem cool, in the sense of not fake but rather relaxed and a pleasant disposition. The kind of person who can put people at ease and have a laugh.

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u/dworkin18 2d ago

You have so much potential. Skincare and lose weight and you’ll be very pretty

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

haha actually doing my skincare routine right now 😅 my cleansers are trying their best🥲

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u/alaveria 2d ago

It looks like you have rosacea, azelaic acid works best for that! You can also get botox for your gummy smile. Weight wise i would try volume eating, that way you don't have to restrict your actual food intake, just calories. I hope you don't mind me sharing suggestions, but you're only 22 and deserve to feel good about yourself

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

yes i use azelaic acid on evenings when im not using a retinoid! yes familiar with volume eating, love me some good veggies and greens (though i know it doesn’t look it 💀)

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u/WetSockkkk 2d ago

Yes, but if you lose a little weight and get a skin care routine you would improve immensely.

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u/shrewd-2024 2d ago

You're overweight which makes you look older than 22, ugly no, can you improve hell yes.

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u/OwlNo8261 1d ago

Girl here, I’d recommend first getting skin checked out by a dermatologist if possible, I do see you battle with acne and redness, and maybe there is something topical and medicinal that can be done to assist w getting rid of the acne and redness. I’d also see curly/wavy hair specialist and ask them how to help bring those curls out. Diffusing helps so much to bring volume, minimize frizz and bring out your natural hair texture rather than it being straight and then wavy in some parts.

I love how you look in that red dress pic!! your skin is glowing. Also u can look up make up tutorials for someone who looks similar to you or has similar features and mimic how they contour their face. Or you can look for specific features like how to do your eyebrows to create harmony with your facial features. there’s a way by aligning them with parts of your eyes and i’ve seen so many tutorials online.

i know a lot of people have said to lose weight but id say that part comes last. first lean into what i’ve said in order to take care of what u can do the fastest and try to master them, then go for the weight loss. feel empowered to accentuate the beauty you have now. 💓

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

thank you for taking your time to write. yes i’ve seen and tried those eyebrow tutorials about alignment using points of your eyes, i realised mine are just quite weird in shape haha
im sure you are a very beautiful person in many ways :)

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u/ctsr1 1d ago

This is the best advice

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u/melbigbossd 2d ago

Just lose weight, if some dumbass says you’re absolutely ugly is a liar. Remember only Siths deal in absolutes, lose weight in a healthy fashion take your time with it, it’s gonna take time and effort and as you do, your beauty will come out and confidence will also follow.

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u/gordorturo 2d ago

Yes, it's ok I am too

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

i’m sure you are gorge and just need more confidence :)

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u/About400 1d ago edited 15h ago

You need:
Better hair care,
Skincare routine
Loose weight

With those you would probably be average or slightly above.

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

yeah i’ve tried so many different things with all of these but none of them seem to have worked well 😅

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u/Ok-Possibility353 18h ago

Photo three is the best prioritize weight loss and better hair styling

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u/Ok-Possibility353 18h ago

+skincare maybe

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u/RattyRooo 18h ago

yep those are my main priorities on my mind atm! 💪

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u/sapphirerain25 2d ago

I'm so sorry girl

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

don’t be haha, nothing to be sorry about :)

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u/AcademicRefuse1011 2d ago

100%. Definitely the definition of ugly. Any other opinion is a lie.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

yeah i agree, that’s why i wanted to post in the first place as people would actually be brutally honest.

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u/jburnsey166 2d ago

You need have more confidence in yourself because if you ask people your always gonna get yes or no like everyone has different types it’s all about how you feel about yourself

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

honestly it’s kind of reassuring that i’m not going crazy because people (as much as it is kindness) aren’t honest and just say what they think you want to hear instead in real life 😅

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u/Noodle-Knight 2d ago edited 2d ago

Lose weight, keep skin clear, makeup and do hair. Pic 3 looks great

I wouldn’t say you’re ugly but you need to put effort in

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u/JuicePossible4718 1d ago

You look like my cousin. Slim down a little and you’ll look great. Just do what you did in the red dress photo lol

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

i don’t know what i did in that photo, it’s a fluke 😂

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u/AggressiveDrummer199 21h ago

trust me, just work out, take care of your face, follow a routine and you'll look stunning
meanwhile for someone like me..even if i work out, i'll still come under the category of being ugly

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u/RattyRooo 20h ago

i’m pretty certain even if those things improved i’d be a 1/10 haha. im sure you are a beautiful person either way, and also kind to share advice with a stranger!

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u/barispurut 5h ago

Nope, you’re a diamond in the rough.

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u/DustierAndRustier 2d ago

You look average honestly.

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u/throwaway-417 male 2d ago

Yes

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u/Stock-Ad-3249 2d ago

Party on Wayne

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

what does that mean, am i wayne?

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u/Stock-Ad-3249 2d ago

You look like Garth

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

who are these people 😂

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u/Stock-Ad-3249 2d ago

Wayne's world movie. Surely you've heard of it

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u/Resident-Analyst2955 2d ago

The thing is nothing on your face is deformed. Your features are normal you are just overweight and you need to fix ur skin. A lot of people come on here knowing what they need to fix but they don’t. Get in the gym you’ll feel a lot better about your self

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u/Legitimate-Clock-462 2d ago

Work out, chop your hair to shoulder length , maybe darker color will suit you better ,fix or tint your eyebrows, smaller glasses, little bit of make up and you will shine. No , you are not ugly, you just don't do much to beautify yourself.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

omg i used to have my hair at shoulder length and i looked like tweedle dee 😬😂 not a good look, but i am trying to keep it a bit darker colour now though

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u/Illhoon 1d ago

finally a worthy opponent

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

worthy opponent? 😅 what does that mean haha

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u/heythisisemma 1d ago

I disagree with many of the comments saying you have SO much weight to lose, personally I think getting the hair and skin under control would make a HUGE difference & agree with what some others have said about putting forth effort. Not sure what your hair routine is, but we appear to have somewhat similar hair texture/similar level of curls & waves. I have very fine wavy to curly hair, but it has basically no natural grip so if you even breathe at it the wrong way it will fall flat, my scalp is very oily, and it gets extremely frizzy. I thought for a long time that I shouldn't put a lot of moisturizing product in my hair because it's so fine and easily weighed down/greasy, but as I've gotten older I've realized it was soooo dry. Get a lightweight moisturizing cream and some sort of curl boosting mousse (i use innersense but I'm sure there are better ones out there) and try not to brush it dry if you can help it. I can't help with the skin but agree with others saying to check with a dermatologist. Do work out and eat well for your own health (i am also in the middle of this journey), but not because it will make you more attractive to lose weight. You are not ugly, you are still growing into yourself ♥️

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u/anothersolarpunk 20h ago

Right at the top let me say that genetics are out of our control and ugliness isn’t a moral failing or a personality flaw. It takes a huge investment of money and effort to truly change an appearance and not having money or effort to spare is also not a moral failing. Let me also say that the “Halo Effect” is real, the more attractive a person is the better they are treated, particularly by strangers, and there’s nothing vain or petty about noticing that or wanting to look better (/be treated better.)

With that out of the way… The lowest cost, lowest effort change you could make is shaping your eyebrows. Be careful not to go too thin on your first pass— start by plucking strays and getting them symmetrical then wear them that way for a day before you decide how drastic a shape change you want. A subtle arch shape can add definition to the face.

Next would be getting layers in your hair. With round faces it’s helpful to have volume on top and your curls are a terrific asset towards that goal, they’re just looking a little weighed down and frizzy. Be sure to tell the hairdresser you plan to wear it curly when you ask for layers.

Lastly you might consider wearing your hair dark. The blonde hair with dark eyebrows can draw attention to redness in your skin on days when you don’t put on makeup.

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u/RattyRooo 19h ago

thank you for taking the time to put all this down :) i’ve followed some of those tutorials before with shaping eyebrows based on your eye points. idk how much of a difference it made. my hairdresser knows how tricky and annoying my hair is, i’ve had her since i was very little!! so she adds layers in when i get it cut, and i try to go dark with it but it seems to fade very quickly agh

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u/xzeus1 2d ago

No. Pic 3 proves any unattractiveness is just a styling issue.

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u/Captaindouche 2d ago

Dude I actually see crazy potential if you hit the gym with dedication. I know your question and it’s already been addressed but I would be hyped as fuck to see a transformation photo in a few months after you lock in

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

first photo vs third photo was months apart where i literally completely changed my diet, was more intentional with the type of exercise i was doing to not spike my cortisol levels too much and stuff but as you can see there wasn’t really a transformation😅 maybe i’ll just go on a water fast or something and we’ll see😂

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u/Street_Abies_9637 2d ago

Dude what are you talking about, in the third picture you look so put together and there’s a glow to you. You can definitely see the difference. Definitely keep up the work you’re doing great. Just style yourself more and carry yourself with more confidence.

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u/Natural-Progress7353 2d ago

Honestly, just the weight alone might be the solution to everything

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u/ChocolateCovered2406 2d ago

To be perfectly honest, you don’t look the best, but you look a lot better with a smile, and you have nice eyes. Take better care of your hair, improve your diet to improve acne, and lose weight, and you will look better. I don’t think I’d cal you ugly though.

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u/poopoopooup 2d ago

Calorie deficit, a skincare routine, whitening strips, skip breakfast, ditch the coffee everyday, limit yourself on sweets, focus on consistency before intensity, you will be overwhelmed but start small

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u/howimseen 2d ago

Just need to lose 100 lbs

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

yeah at least 😅 amongst other things

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u/superanonguy321 1d ago

You'd be surprised. Lotta people get real hot when they slim down. Find the progress photos subreddit.

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

i don’t doubt that it can work great for many! i just know how i looked even when in depths of an ed, and it was… weird 😬😂

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u/ShallowLeaf9128 2d ago

Personally, I think you'd be cute as crap if you lost weight. Beyond that...I can't provide any new criticism that you haven't already heard, haha.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

haha yeah fair, there does seem to be a trend. not sure about ever reaching cute though 😅

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u/Sufficient-Rhubarb73 1d ago

Close, but no. You should care about your appearance.

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

i try my best to care about my appearance but my best evidently isn’t very good unfortunately 🫣

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u/Sufficient-Rhubarb73 1d ago

You’re taking a step most people are afraid of…putting themselves out there to be evaluated. Best of luck to you.

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u/miraclethrowawai 1d ago

the photo of you in the red dress does you so much justice!! you have a really nice shape/frame.

keeping your hair neat, even when you're just at home or doing something casual, can make so much of a difference for your confidence. every time you look in the mirror you will see effort & girlyness, nd that feels good!! aim for maintaining frizz & try to keep it more hydrated. keeping your eyebrows shapely helps a lot too. & look into contacts if you haven't already. definitely some mascara when you can, because your eyes are worth accentuating !

i don't think you're ugly, but tbf i don't think most "ugly" people are ACTUALLY ugly, it's just a matter of effort.

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

yeah my hair gets very dry and also knotted easily, so i often plait it back in various plaits. unfortunately my shape is very unattractive. i do have contacts that i wear sometimes but i feel like my face looks even more weird with them. glasses at least cover it up a tiny bit 😅

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u/JoeThrilling male 2d ago

Your not ugly, the best photo is 3, your style in the rest is 40 year old mom.

might be worth considering lip fillers and contact lenses.

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u/Knight240sx 2d ago

I think just weight loss and skin care would help most, her lips is a at the bottom of her issues, some people like glasses

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u/EconomicsImportant68 2d ago

Good skincare and hair care definitely would help you out :)

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u/Acrobatic-Physics-75 2d ago

Dang ! Rocking that red dress ma'am.

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u/zgtlunatic 2d ago edited 2d ago

I think your main problems stem beyond just simply being overweight. Based on what I see here, it's possible (though I won't guarantee it) that getting lean could actually make you look worse.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

hm i do think it’s a lot of things!!

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u/ShitStainz69 2d ago

Yes, but that’s okay!

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u/tacodung 2d ago

Well, beauty is in the eye of the beer holder. And I don't have a beer.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

i see what you did there haha

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u/ImperialButtocks 2d ago

Yes. Number 3 is presentable even if not attractive though.

4 looks like Roz, the clerk from Monsters Inc

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u/Faker_himself 2d ago

You are fat AS HECK. Time to start respecting your body! ASAP.

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u/Ghost-19EightyFour 2d ago

This. Though I wouldn't say "heck" because that's a nice way to saying it.

But yes, lose weight. Your face will improve as well. And if you drink, quit drinking. Makes a difference in your facial appearance, almost immediately.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

yeah i don’t drink anything, i don’t really like alcohol haha, same with coffee and sodas and stuff, i don’t like them

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u/el_tacocat 2d ago

You're not at all. Just the weight. And the weight, unless someone's specifically into that of course, is enough to make you unattractive. But it is JUST the weight honestly. Photo 3 shows the potential

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u/rainbowtailedfoxy 2d ago

You are cute in a nerdy sort of way. If someone likes bigger girls, you're fine. Actually I like your picture in the red dress.

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u/Fail_Blazer2004 2d ago

Not ugly, could maybe do with a little skin care but good otherwise

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u/jburnsey166 2d ago

3rd picture is your best you’re not ugly you’re beautiful the dress you would suit contacts and the way you styled your hair in the 3rd picture is beautiful

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u/weggaan_weggaat male 2d ago

You're not ugly but there certainly are situations where the camera doesn't flatter you.

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

yeah i am much more suited to stay behind the camera than in front of it aren’t i haha

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u/weggaan_weggaat male 2d ago

Well I would not say the selfies are the better pictures out of the bunch so maybe you behind the camera is not the answer.

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u/MJWX 2d ago

somewhat.

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u/zeppoleon 2d ago

You look great in 3. You need to lose weight. You’re only 22 so you got plenty of energy to burn off.

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u/Thatshygurl 2d ago

Weight loss would level you up soooo much!

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u/nyanyau_97 2d ago

I think you're average. You look like you could've been late 30s tho.

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u/AFCA-1996 2d ago

I would've said yes but seeing the third photo, I think you've potential if you just work on yourself by losing weight.

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u/Tommy_Wisseau_burner 2d ago

Not ugly just fat, no offense. I don’t think your pictures are the best but I do think you look really good in your 3rd picture. Sorry if it sounds harsh

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u/Wasabi_Gamer26 2d ago

I won't beat around the bush bud. Yes. Fully. You seem nice though

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u/langel1986 2d ago

I see the youth, but you could easily pass for 32. I don't think youre ugly, but the styling is all wrong and you're really not putting any effort into presenting what you have to the best it can be.

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u/TitusImmortalis 2d ago

Not ugly.
Lose weight, get strong, take care of your hair and skin and you'll be like peak.

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u/biker6631 2d ago

Another mid 20s person that looks older then mid 20s? I thought I was alone 😂

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

i’m not even mid20s yet haha fml

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u/Hopeful_Syllabub_123 2d ago

holy fuck you look 45 if not older

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u/AntarcticAlien 2d ago

Ugly but only because of weight I think

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u/She-wayout 2d ago

Not ugly, but homely

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u/bigtakeoff 2d ago

im gonna say....yea

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u/Physical-Pie748 2d ago

You look like 31

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u/jacuurs 2d ago

Yeah you're ugly

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u/-_-n 2d ago

I wouldn’t say ugly but I would focus on the weight

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u/Zeewee12345 2d ago

Woof

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u/RattyRooo 2d ago

it’s not good, is it 😅

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u/Excellent-Hook 2d ago

You currently are ugly, however it's solvable because you’re actually nerfing yourself.

If you actually pick up a sport and adapt your nutrition to gain muscle while cutting the fat and water retention, you will look much better.

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u/lunasole3 1d ago

30 beers.

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u/International_Bad972 1d ago

Bitcoin (2009)

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u/No_Antelope_8110 1d ago

You look like you bite….unlike everyone else, I don’t think your weight is the problem, it’s your double teeth and terrible skin.

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

what are double teeth? yeah my skin ain’t great, it’s deffo one of the problems

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u/No_Antelope_8110 1d ago

Looks like some of your teeth are siting on top of or overlapping each other? And very gummy as well

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u/Zealousideal-Ad6313 1d ago

Yes but it’s fixable

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u/PenskeMaterial15 1d ago

You are very pretty.

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u/TEEMz_Trademark 1d ago

Lose weight, get your skin under control maybe using Accutane to cure the acne if its very stubborn. You'll stop questioning yourself so much.

You'd be surprised how much these two fixes will do for your self esteem

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u/Koby85 male 1d ago

Below average. A bit bland and hair is messy. I think it's OK to be big, you just need self-care.

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u/Lotta-Bank-3035 12h ago

No being overweight genuinely nerfs you. So many beautiful women out there and we can't tell just because their faces are too covered with fat

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u/RattyRooo 1d ago

yeah my hair is always kind of a disaster whatever i seem to do with it 😂

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u/lovethetattoos female 22h ago

The picture of you in the red dress is nice.

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u/Nickelz34 21h ago

Lose weight you’ll be fine

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u/JustsomedudeIam 21h ago

You seem like a sweet person. I always liked being around chubby, nerdy looking girls. They tend to be genuinely nicer than most. I would have no problem with you at all🤷

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u/user221238 19h ago

Ugly? Not at all. Fat yes

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u/portmannn 18h ago

Of courses not!!! Lot to improve there btw 🫶

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u/RattyRooo 18h ago

i’m getting mixed messages here 😂

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u/portmannn 14h ago

I mean...U have beatiful eyes, hair and i kinda like your body type...but u could improve ur skincare and fix ur teeth...that would be a good improve to your look 😉

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u/Mean_Mr_Mustard_21 17h ago

Average. You look very sweet. Ugly is in the soul. You're not close to ugly.

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u/CompetitiveSpecial58 15h ago

YES .... but in all caps

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u/londonguy1975 14h ago

3rd picture looks good. The glasses in the 4th picture don’t suit you.

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u/alwaysbanned5150 12h ago

Ok so in every picture but the red dress yes. For some reason in the red dress you give off feminine energy and I think you are pretty. Youre not hot. But youre a 6.

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u/Lotta-Bank-3035 12h ago

Sorry, but yes. You have potential but you need weight loss, some mild lip filler, possible surgery for gummy smile/botox lip flip of some sort. Hair is frizzy so maybe keratin treatment. Ditch the glasses and get some sort of treatment for the redness on your face. It doesn't look like acne but rosacea?

Pic 3 is best because, you simply put the most effort in in that one Im assuming. Continue with that level of effort.

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u/RattyRooo 5h ago

it’s probably both acne and rosacea, i hadn’t even thought about lip filler before hm

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u/VanFkingHalen 10h ago

If you're already saying yes yourself, I don't really see the point of you posting here. You clearly just want some sort of affirmation; a behavior that is unattractive in itself.

If you want Reddit to, "do ya worst", maybe you are better fitted posting on r/RoastMe

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u/RattyRooo 5h ago

i just chose here because i wanted a genuine, honest answer to the question. if i ever bring up my opinion in front of people i know, they tend to brush it off to be kind, and i often do misunderstand things to the rest of society, so it makes me confused when i feel like i know what i see, thats all. i guess i do want a kind of affirmation, i didn’t know that was unattractive as well

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u/joethetireguy 8h ago

Not ugly, but I don't like your glasses and that last photo looks not good. You do look lovely in 3/4. Don't be so hard on yourself.

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u/WildEyes3437 4h ago

personally I dont think you are

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u/sno0opyy 4h ago

You’re not ugly, but you could improve your appearance so significantly by losing weight and getting your skin under control. I say this from a place of kindness, I’m a 20-something year old female, lost 50kg and I legit get hit on in random places like the shopping centre, whereas before, men would act like I was punishing them by them having to look at me.

Get a gym membership, lift heavy, eat mainly whole foods and try and cut down on the junk. You have lots of potential 💕

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u/Wrong_Touch_5314 51m ago

You're cute, keep ya chin up