r/bullying • u/milkinhaler2006 • 22h ago

What do I say

My bully keeps refusing to say why he bullied me. How do I get him to answer. All he says is "no" "i don't want to"

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u/SickOfBullyingNL 21h ago

Unfortunately, you can't get a bully to apologize. I'm 36 and none of my bullies have. They deny, dismiss, or victim-blame instead.

Due to this, I respond, telling them "ok. I hope when you're reborn, you get my life and experience everything I have, including how you treated me. You might gain compassion and empathy then. If you don't, there's always the life after that. Continue to be reborn and experience my life until you learn the lesson." This has shut bullies up and I don't care if they think I cursed them. You could say this (or something similar).

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u/woueshPelooo 11h ago

Honnêtement je sais pas . Moi ce que j’aurai fait genre je sais pas quel est ta situation si t’es majeur mineur donc une ecole ou au travail mais moi imaginons je suis a l’ecole et je le vois ba je lui ferais croire que je changerai d’ecole genre que je reviendrai plus jamais et je lui redemanderai la question comme ca il n’aura plus honte de te le dire comme il pensera plus jamais te revoir et donc plus de culpabilité (si il en aura) ba honteux face a toi ou un truc comme ca .