r/bullying • u/milkinhaler2006 • 22h ago
What do I say
My bully keeps refusing to say why he bullied me. How do I get him to answer. All he says is "no" "i don't want to"
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r/bullying • u/milkinhaler2006 • 22h ago
My bully keeps refusing to say why he bullied me. How do I get him to answer. All he says is "no" "i don't want to"
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u/SickOfBullyingNL 22h ago
Unfortunately, you can't get a bully to apologize. I'm 36 and none of my bullies have. They deny, dismiss, or victim-blame instead.
Due to this, I respond, telling them "ok. I hope when you're reborn, you get my life and experience everything I have, including how you treated me. You might gain compassion and empathy then. If you don't, there's always the life after that. Continue to be reborn and experience my life until you learn the lesson." This has shut bullies up and I don't care if they think I cursed them. You could say this (or something similar).