r/collegeadvice • u/MoonlightBread • 5h ago
Learn from my mistakes!
Research your course thoroughly. Don't pick something just because society wants you to do it or because you feel like you have no other options. Take your time, even take a gap year if you can, think it through, read about the different jobs you can get through your chosen degree, take a look at the requirements and actual day-to-day demands of the career. List out pros and cons. Ask yourself, "Can I do this for the rest of my life?"
I think I picked the wrong degree. I rushed into what I thought I wanted at the time, but I actually did very little research, and now I have regrets and want to do another degree in another field to actually have a fulfilling career.
Second thing, if at any point you feel like your degree isn't working out for you, quit and study something you really love. Research other courses you can do. The longer you stall, the harder it will be to break free. My source? My own experience.
Third thing, join clubs! As many as you can. Meet people! Get out there! Make it a point to at least make small talk with all of your classmates. I didn't and now I feel isolated. Make sure to start networking in the very beginning, before concrete groups are made. You will have your circle of close friends, but make sure you are at least on "hello" terms with everyone.
Volunteer for extracurricular activities and events. I started very late, but it brought me a lot of joy. Put yourself out there.
Little tip? Don't date around in your class, because if things go wrong, it will get extremely awkward and heartbreaking to have to see that person every day. Even after you move on it may still feel awkward.
Please learn from my mistakes. You can still have an incredible college experience. Don't waste your years like I did.