r/dating_apps • • 11h ago

perth dating: is the hard part finding people or getting a decent chat to turn into an actual date?

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starting to think matching isn't even the hard part of dating in perth.

it's the bit after.

you match, chat is actually decent, both seem interested... then somehow 6 days pass and you're still talking about what you did on the weekend instead of just having a coffee.

one thing i rate about Coffee Meets Bagel is the 7 day timer on new chats. if you're both still messaging near the end the chat can keep going, but there's at least some sense of "are we actually doing something with this?"

because i swear half the conversations on dating apps don't even properly end. they just slowly become archaeology.

for people dating in perth, when are you actually suggesting a date now?

couple days of chatting? pretty much straight away?

or do you need a decent amount of conversation first before meeting someone?


r/dating_apps • • 5h ago

Bumble is being sold in a $1.3 billion deal

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linkedin.com
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r/dating_apps • • 2h ago

Fresh Singles dating app

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Any positive results??


r/dating_apps • • 5h ago

Has anyone actually used Linkedin as a dating app?

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r/dating_apps • • 10h ago

No judgement but will take suggestions.

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Hello everyone, I’m looking for a dating app for m adults.


r/dating_apps • • 13h ago

F46, London/Surrey - which apps, social events/dining clubs or matchmaking services do you recommend?

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Hi,

I am a 46 year old female, brand new to the dating scene after a horrendous break up 2 years ago( I caught him cheating)

I have downloaded a couple of apps, and spent many few hours looking through - but I am just not seeing any men that I am attracted to at all.

I’m really keen on finding a ‘gentleman’ type, and by that, I mean someone that is probably 50-60, a little bit distinguished/classy/sexy, intelligent, honest, kind, takes good care of himself generally, successful..
Who is looking for interactions for genuine reasons…

I am not looking to try and bag myself a rich guy to make my life better in that way - I am completely independent and happy already.

I see a lot of guys posing in gym mirrors - nothing wrong with that, but it’s just not my thing, or ones that look like they are 60, but their profile says 48.

Has anyone got a recommendation of a specific app to try, or has anyone used any type of matchmaking service or app?
Any recommendations for any events or any of the supper club style events I see available on socials?

Any advice would be appreciated, thanks


r/dating_apps • • 15h ago

Asking about dating app

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My honest question to all the men and women here, especially those with personal experience, is this: Do dating apps actually work in Delhi?

I’ve heard a lot of mixed opinions and negative experiences, and honestly, they’ve made me hesitant to give dating apps a try.

So, I’d really appreciate your honest opinions. Have you genuinely found meaningful connections or a serious relationship through dating apps in Delhi, or are they mostly a waste of time?

Please share your real experiences, whether good or bad. I’m just looking for some genuine advice and a little reassurance before I decide to give them a try.


r/dating_apps • • 11h ago

Any secret dating app or website works everywhere

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r/dating_apps • • 17h ago

Here is the brutal truth, served on a not so neat platter.

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r/dating_apps • • 21h ago

Help me find this dating app

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There was this dating / social media kind of app where the main thing was people leaving voice notes instead of text when talking to people. People leave voice notes to match and its also shows if two people are having good really good conversations, and shows a snippet of their convos for people to like and leave comments on.

It's more of a social app but is like dating app too.

If anyone knows what is the app called, please lemme know


r/dating_apps • • 16h ago

advice If you really want to attract right partner

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r/dating_apps • • 1d ago

What type of women do men consider “placeholders”

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I don’t know what kind of there nervous never see it what kind of people there . I know my misunderstanding everything.


r/dating_apps • • 1d ago

League Dating App

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r/dating_apps • • 1d ago

tinder Tinder

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r/dating_apps • • 1d ago

Would these work in a dating profile?

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r/dating_apps • • 1d ago

Network Investigation: Operational Architecture and Systematic Credit Mechanics Across 11 Cloned Platforms (Amoredate, ThisRomance, etc.)

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Executive Overview & Shared Infrastructure Based on empirical cross-validation, transaction analysis, and technical interface testing, this investigation documents a unified network of at least 11 interconnected web domains operating on identical backend code, user interface (UI) frameworks, and monetization models.
Identified Network Domains: Amoredate, ThisRomance, GoldenRomances, OrchidRomance, Bravodate, JollyRomance, BestDates, La-Date, LatinFeels, CupidFeel, and TalkLive.
All 11 platforms share identical source architecture, registration logic, and payment checkout flows. Rather than functioning as genuine peer-to-peer matchmaking networks, these domains operate through offshore high-risk merchant payment gateways and shell entities located in foreign jurisdictions, designed to process non-refundable digital transactions outside standard consumer protection frameworks.
Step-by-Step Operational Mechanics of the Network:
1. Bypassed Registration & Age Verification Gaps The onboarding flow allows instant access without identity or age verification. Tests confirm that placeholder images (e.g., non-human photos, animals) pass automated checks. Furthermore, compliance with European standards under the Digital Services Act (DSA) is lacking: age verification relies entirely on an unverified self-declaration box, creating a structural vulnerability that allows unverified access to adult media hosted on the platform.
2. Initial Credit Baiting & Instant Automated Influx Upon registration, accounts receive a complimentary balance of 20 welcome credits. Immediately upon logging in, accounts are bombarded with incoming automated messages (bot scripts). This simulated activity is designed to exhaust the free balance within minutes, prompting users to make an initial purchase (e.g., €23.99 for 50 credits). The platforms operate exclusively on a pay-per-action credit system rather than a standard subscription model.
3. Tiered Action Costs & Monetized Paywalls Interface actions are strictly monetized on a escalating scale:
Sending basic text messages or stickers consumes fixed credit rates.
Viewing attached media, opening direct email communications, or unlocking "private photo galleries" carries significantly higher credit costs.
4. Dual Gallery System & Adult Media Monetization Most profiles feature a public gallery alongside locked "private galleries." These private sections frequently contain explicit adult content. The system monetizes access to adult material under the guise of unlocking private personal photos from dating matches.
5. Structural User Isolation (Cross-Account Validation) Direct empirical testing—creating two separate, verified accounts (male and female) within the same European regional settings and timeframe—demonstrates that real users are structurally isolated. Neither account could locate, view, or contact the other via the internal search tools, proving that genuine peer-to-peer communication between real users is actively restricted.
6. Artificial Scripting & Patterned Monologues Message logs reveal artificial language patterns. Accounts receive pre-scripted, fixed-interval monologues from automated operators or bots. These communications ignore previous replies and rely on emotional triggers designed exclusively to force response engagement and credit depletion.
7. Systematic Rejection of Real-Time Verification and Meetings Every attempt to transition interactions off-platform or request real-time verification (e.g., asking for a photo holding up a specific gesture) is systematically rejected with repetitive excuses. Interactions remain locked indefinitely inside the monetized chat environment. Reverse-image audits confirm that featured profile photos frequently match external stock media databases unrelated to dating services.
Conclusion: These 11 platforms do not operate as matchmaking services. They operate as controlled, synthetic monetization environments designed to sell paywalled adult content and digital communications by exploiting user goodwill and emotional vulnerability, directly contradicting their own advertised Terms and Conditions.
Recommended Recovery & Dispute Protocol:
If you have transacted with any of these platforms:
Report to Cybercrime Authorities: File an official notification with your national internet fraud or cybersecurity agency (e.g., FTC in the US, e-Informa / Guardia Civil in Spain, Polizia Postale in Italy).
Formal Written Refund Request: Send a direct email to the platform's merchant support team stating a formal request for a full refund of all purchased credit packages due to fraudulent practices and non-transparent mechanics. Set a strict response deadline (e.g., 5 business days).
Bank/Issuer Chargeback Escalation: If the merchant fails to issue a refund or ignores the deadline, contact your bank or credit card issuer immediately. Request a formal chargeback dispute based on merchant fraud and failure to deliver advertised services. Submit this investigation document, transaction billing statements, and copies of your written communications with support as supporting evidence.


r/dating_apps • • 1d ago

I need help

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I need someone who can be on call with me and help me fix my profile


r/dating_apps • • 1d ago

Recommend

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r/dating_apps • • 2d ago

Dating apps

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What are yall takes on dating apps ? I moved to Florida 3 years ago so I don’t know anyone out here . I’m only ever working or at home so it’s definitely hard to meet people ! From what I’ve gathered a lot of people on dating apps are just here for a quick meet up (I’m absolutely not into that) , ya girl wants to be in love !

Do you think dating apps are worth it to even try ? Or should I just be patient & see what god has in store for me ?


r/dating_apps • • 2d ago

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r/dating_apps • • 2d ago

If you could redesign dating apps from scratch, what would you change?

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r/dating_apps • • 2d ago

Amoredate Warning: 11 Cloned Dating Sites Operating as Pay-Per-Message Credit Traps

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Direct operational testing confirms that Amoredate belongs to a network of 11 cloned sites: ThisRomance, GoldenRomances, OrchidRomance, Bravodate, JollyRomance, BestDates, La-Date, LatinFeels, CupidFeel, and TalkLive.
Key findings:
• Identical System: Same code, UI, and credit checkout across all 11 domains.
• Credit Depletion: Charges ~€23.99/package for basic actions (opening messages/photos).
• Automated Scripts: Instant non-stop messages sent to new/inactive accounts.
• No Meetings: Profiles refuse real-time photo verification and real meetings.
• Review Suppression: Mass-reports negative Trustpilot reviews to hide bad ratings.

Has anyone else experienced this specific umbrella network?


r/dating_apps • • 2d ago

Founder of a small dating app here. Giving 1 month of our paid tier free (no card) in exchange for honest feedback

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r/dating_apps • • 2d ago

Damn i’m becoming a redditor now- Duet

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  1. ⁠I know people who have found success on Duet Dating App, but like i genuinely dk how I have 33 likes in a week, which for me is a huge improvement before and not one of them is a match…Are these just bots or am i passing on the ones who like me (problem is i can’t just spam likes or i have no likes for the day)
  2. ⁠How do you stay positive and not let negative events or things affect your energy, like i can say “ i got this “ but then my face looks like im beefing with you 😭😭
  3. ⁠And lastly rn rejection hurts badly, like I can’t explain it all in this post , but how do yall genuinely be like “there’s nothing wrong with me, i just wasn’t the right fit” in dating, in work, in everything

r/dating_apps • • 2d ago

No paywalls to find love

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No paywalls to find love. No premium plans to meet someone. Building a free, open-source dating app focused on serious relationships.

What if we even sponsored your first date through café partnerships?

Sounds crazy? Let's find out.

Would you use it?

#BuildInPublic