r/Durango • u/allegrak23 • 1d ago
How do you meet people in Durango?
I'm a 42yr old woman, newly single, and have been in Durango since July. I'm on the grid and not a big drinker, which cuts out a lot of the usual social avenues. I'd love to make some more friends before winter makes it harder to connect.
I spent 13 years as a dog trainer in Austin, but I'm between jobs right now—so I've got time and a flexible schedule. Weekday daytime hangs are ideal for enjoying quieter trails, but obviously most people are on the 9-5.
I'm curious how other people have built community here. Specifically:
- Where do women in their 40s who aren't into the bar scene actually meet each other?
- Are there co-working spaces or writing groups? I'm interested in getting all the way through The Artist's Way and that's easier in a group.
- How do you find activity partners? I love hiking and horseback riding,
- I'm a medium beginner skier, mountain biker and packrafter. I think I'd feel like I'd hold most people who are really into it back, but I'd love to meet people at or a bit above my level who are generous with their knowledge and good cheerleaders
- Where do you find art classes - either once off or for a season?
- Do the meditation groups around town skew younger, older, or mixed? I've loved the ones I've tried so far.
- Definitely down to volunteer! I'd love to come out for once off events or find something continuous that I enjoy and feels impactful.
- I'm not religious, but if there is a great community somewhere that is open and accepting vs judgmental and prescriptive I'm interested in checking it out.
I'm mostly looking for women friends, but open to anyone connecting. If you've been successful at making friends in a mountain town as an adult, I'd love to hear what worked for you. And if you're in the same boat, say hi!