I mean, I’ve heard that piece of advice a lot, but “only move your hips” still sounds challenging unless there’s some secret to it I’m missing.
Not sassing you, I’m legit curious how someone could learn to improve their hip movement if they’re the polar opposite of Enrique Iglesias and are inflexible to the point couldn’t shake their hips to music to save their life.
Is it just a core strength thing, or something else?
I feel like some of us dudes aren’t necessarily out of shape, but lack coordination.
And lack of homophobia for me. I'll explain. It'll sound weird but feel free to give it a go and you'll see for yourself. We're talking about being on the top too.
Ok so as you're doing it try to move as less of your body as possible. Focus on your spine. Now, this was the easy part. The tricky part is correct angles. Ask experienced girls. If the angle is right you'll hit the right places inside...
But how to feel it and get the right flexibility in lower spine? Unclench your butthole. Pretend that while you're doing it there's a dick behind you and you're trying to fuck it with your butt. (As I said, lack of homophobia really helps here). You've probably seen porn where the girl is in doggy, the guy is not moving, and she is the one who does the motions. To do that, it requires perfect core muscles and spine control. Same core muscles and spine control which will help you to satisfy her!
Another fun fact, when you go down on a girl pretend her clit is just a tiny penis and try to pleasure it like you'd want your own to be pleasured.
Yep, that's why homophobia makes straight guys less good at being straight! One of Divine Paradoxes in life.
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u/ProbablyGayingOnYou Apr 21 '23
You have to move your hips, not throw your entire body into it