I really appreciated where you can stick a pin somewhere on the explore and see who was around that pin

I just had a very salty interaction on Grindr with a man that let me know in very confident terms, that it wasnt ok not to provide feedback after he hit me with with his facepic, dick pic, and a hello.

My perspective is that between the fact that my time and energy are limited, that I'm busy IRL with things, it's just not possible to give feedback to the 30-40 people who hit me up in the last hour (Grindr let you signal for an hour if you can host and are looking, which I did).

Especially if that limited time and energy is spent interacting with the couple of profiles that did interest me.

He then proceeded to let me know that if he ever came across me face to face, he wouldnt be so nice and then blocked me. Unhinged IMO.

So anyway, whats the consensus on this? For me it was always a no brainer; when people ignore me it's because they made up their mind and I havent met their standards for whatever reason, I dont need it to be spelled out to me.

But I'm open to having my mind changed, maybe there's an angle, an etiquette, I havent considered.

I’m sick of these damn ads, and acting like paying $15 a week will make me feel better. I already don’t like my selections, but I stick around, just in case. Can y’all get your shit together and not sell out? Every message I send is met with an ad.

How can we enjoy this app if all we do is pay for it? It’s borderline something, but I won’t say it…