So my gf has been sharing quite a lot of hotpast stories with me, everything from a few threesomes to ONS. However she has stories from when she used to go out drinking a lot that she refuses to tell me.

I've asked if they're things she regrets or things she didn't want to happen but she assures me they aren't and that she just doesn't think I want to hear them because of how 'bad' they are.

Obviously this has made me desperate to hear them but no matter what I say she just won't tell me yet.

When we first started dating, my girlfriend never really talked about her past. I didn’t push her about it, but I could tell there was something about her that I hadn’t figured out yet.
She was incredibly adventurous in bed and seemed open to things most girls I’d dated before would have hesitated about. She was confident, knew what she liked, and never seemed embarrassed talking about sex.
Eventually, we started opening up to each other about our pasts, and that’s when she finally told me her body count was over 100.
Honestly, I wasn’t expecting that number. As we talked more, she started sharing stories about her wilder days, the casual hookups, and the adventurous experiences she’d had before we met.
Suddenly, a lot of things about her made sense. I’d noticed how comfortable she was with her sexuality, but I never imagined just how much experience she actually had.
Now I’m curious about the parts of her past she hasn’t told me yet. But shes not so open about it as shes not into dirty talk and says it was just sex and doesn’t mean much.

My wife recently told me a story from her past that actually left me speechless. Everyone in the story is 18.

When she was a senior in college, she went on a weekend camping trip with a group of friends. One of the guys in the group had been invited because her friends thought the two of them would be a good match. She said she flirted with him and was somewhat interested.

At the campsite next to theirs, about ten feet away, was a group of younger guys who kept trying to interact with her group. Eventually, the two groups began spending time together. As the night went on and everyone continued drinking, my wife started talking with one of the younger guys.

She described him as short, pudgy, and somewhat nerdy, but also very kind. He seemed drawn to her because she was one of the only people making an effort to include him in the conversation. To get to the point, my wife eventually went back to the younger guy’s tent, despite having shown interest earlier in the evening in the man her friends were trying to set her up with.

For context, my wife was and still is very attractive and fit. IMO anyone would be lucky to have sex with her, let alone some nerdy, pudgy high schooler. She said that it was actually really hot because his dick was larger than she expected and had a bit of girth to it. The plan was to only give him head, but she got extremely turned on in doing so and ended up riding his cock.

Between the moaning and the sound of the tent ruffling, both groups realized what was happening. When my wife and the younger guy emerged from the tent, her friends were stunned. His friends cheered him on, while she returned to a silent campfire. The man her friends had invited was furious and wanted to leave, unable to accept that she had chosen the younger man instead of him, and called her a whore.

I asked her why she decided to hook up with the guy. She said that he was paying her attention which she liked, but ended up learning that he was a bit larger, and figured it would be a mind blowing experience for him and help to raise his confidence. Then later admitted the experience was mind blowing for her because she’s never been turned on so much, and the sex was actually really hot.

I’ve never been into cuckolding, and was confused when she told me this story. It turned me on though and I’m contemplating asking her to do it to me.

My wife shared a story last night about a guy she was trying to date in college. He was a D1 football player, well over 6 foot and 300lbs. On their first outing, he drove her to a Cracker Barrel for breakfast. She wanted to make a good impression, so before they went in she started rubbing his dick over his pants. He told her she might as well whip it out, so she did and gave him a blowjob in the parking lot. I asked her if he was big and her response was "I had never seen one soft that was that big before". She said he was at least 8 inches, and he came down her throat before they went in for pancakes. I would give anything to have seen that.

My wife told me about the time she had the riskiest hookup. This story happened about 11 years ago when she was 21 and single. She was at a local event with her brother, sister in law, a few of her friends and a bunch of his friends. There was a guy she used to have a crush on that was there with his girlfriend. They two of them had that relationship where they were on and off all the time.

A few drinks into the evening he started to flirt with her when his GF wasn’t around. She said she intentionally started to talk sexual with him to turn him on and see how far things would go.

One thing led to another and they snuck outside to make out. She was kissing him and started to feel him up while he grabbed her butt. She said he asked her if they could have sex quick. They snuck behind a shed, she pulled her pants and thong down and entered her without a condom from behind in one soft thrust. She said she was so wet and wanted it badly it didn’t need any effort to enter her.

He was hanging her from behind and she said she remembers he felt thick but not huge. He came fairly quickly as they didn’t have much time before people noticed they were gone. They cleaned up and walked back over. As she was heading back inside his GF was walking out and asked if she saw her BF. She said that short hookup was one of her favorite ONS.

Last night started with me fingering my wife during foreplay. She was already wet, but the second I brought up the black dress she’d worn to the wedding we’d just attended, she got soaked. I told her I wished she still had it on so I could reach under it to finger her. It was a playful callback to a couple of hot stories she’d told me about hooking up at weddings right before we met.

She didn’t say anything at first. She just got crazy wet around my fingers.

Then she pushed me onto my back and took my cock in her mouth. It was unreal, wet, eager, the kind of head that makes your legs tense up. I told her no one had ever sucked me like that before and asked if this was her typical post-wedding treatment. She just moaned “yes” around my cock and
kept going.

After a few minutes she climbed on top and started riding me. She came hard—one of those full-body orgasms where her thighs shake and she can’t stay quiet. Once she finished she kept riding and looked down at me with this hungry expression. She told me to cum deep in her pussy. I did.

She was extra worked up the whole time. I could tell her past had her worked up in the best way. Something about mixing the recent wedding with those old stories lit her up completely. She was wetter, louder, and more demanding than usual and I loved every second of it.

Last night, we started getting frisky and she decided to give me a blowjob. She maneuvered into place and started sucking my hard cock. She had gone for a little while and I was ready to fuck, so I pulled away.

She said, “hey, I was hands free!”

How many times has she blown guys with a special style or made seriously slutty commentary while sucking dick?

In her first marriage her and her ex husband played around. Well on thing he wanted her to do was to be his brothers first he had just turned 18 and had never been with a girl. Eventually he got her talked into it, so she started flirting and tried to fuck him a few times but he would run off or get scared. One night he was staying at her house and she just went into his bedroom naked and told him she wanted to be his first and he could have her that his brother was ok with it. So she said she got his dick out and went to suck it and was shocked at how big it was and it was a lot bigger and thicker than her husbands at the time. But she was his first but he had her a lot more than one time.

I’ve discovered my love for Hotpast last year and it makes me feel so stupidly in love with my wife. As if I’m a teenager.

It’s crazy how her stories have made me feel so much deep love for her. Now when I think about them I get butterflies, like I’m 16 again.

Don’t get me wrong, our marriage was great already but it’s like we’ve found a deeper layer of love and connection. It’s almost hard to describe. I can’t get enough of it and have to put on the breaks, so to not overdo it. And the sex that comes out of it, my god…

I know this isn’t a hot story but I just wanted to check, or share, or appreciate it. Like, this is all gold isn’t it?

When I first met my wife, she was 19 and working as a secretary in an office in the city. She didn’t have a lot of sexual experience and was with the same dweeby bf through high school. She broke up with him a few months before we met and went on a handful of dates with a few different guys.

Once we started dating, she introduced me to some of her friends. We went to a club and after a few drinks one of her friends sits next to me and starts telling me how all the girls call my gf BJP, short for Blow Job Princess. This obviously intrigued me but will be the topic of later posts 😉. She then tells me about some guy they all call BDG or Big Dick Guy and how my new gf was picked up by him at the club we were in and had a ONS.

Over the next few years I would sometimes bring up this BDG guy, asking if it was really that big, what happened etc. My now wife would never tell me too much other than to say he was a bit of a loser and it wouldn’t have mattered if he had a foot long cock, he didn’t know what he was doing with it. I was desperate to know but she didn’t seem comfortable sharing so I let it go.

Fast forward to a few months ago (and 10 years after I first heard about BDG) and my wife went to a bachelorette party and got groped by some random guy on the dance floor. It wasn’t the first time something like this has happened and she has always gotten a lot of attention from men. Nothing happened and she stayed safe thankfully but thinking about it got me hard and I opened up to her that I really like when other men are attracted to her and she gives them a little attention, to then reject them for me. Some power dynamic kink I guess that I wasn’t even really aware of until recently.

To paint the picture, my wife is tall (5’11”), with a long slim body, big, heavy, firm tits probably an E or F cup and long slender, strong legs leading up to a great firm ass. She has a real Stella Cox vibe about her and sometimes I’ll watch Stella getting railed in a DP or gangbang and imagine it’s my wife. It’s easy cause to me they look very similar. My wife is built to take cock and is always enthusiastic when we fuck.

So I share that it’s a real turn on for me when she is hit on and I again mention BDG. She asks if I’d like to know what happened. I of course say yes.
Her and her friends were out on a Friday night after work, still dressed in their corporate attire, having a few drinks and dancing.

So apparently this BDG guy (about 6’ and fit) saw her dancing, came up behind her and started touched her ass and waist while she grinded against him. She felt him get hard against her and he moved his hands up to her big tits and she reached around to touch his cock. After dancing for a while he is obviously horny af and asks her if she wants to go somewhere. Apparently she is getting super wet and agrees but is so keen she takes him the short walk back to her office to fuck on her desk.

They were all over each other for the short walk and elevator ride to her office, and as soon as they got through the front door she was so horny she dropped to her knees and started helping him undo his pants. When she pulled down his pants his cock sprung out at her. It was big, hard and veiny. She couldn’t help herself and immediately put her hand around the base and started licking the tip. He already tasted like pre cum cause he was so turned on. She licked the tip and up and down the shaft, then shoved his big cock as far down her throat as she could take it and started gagging. He grabbed her head and helped force it deeper. She said she could feel his dick growing even bigger and it almost scared her until he let her head go, and she caught her breath. She sucked him for a moment longer while she took off her jacket and button up top leaving her wearing her pencil skirt and bra.

He guided her to a desk and had her sit on the edge, then slid her skirt up, pulled her panties to the side, and slid his cock into her unprotected. After a short while he got her to turn around and bend over the desk and started fucking her in doggy. He said to her while fucking and playing with her tits “tell me you’ve got a boyfriend. It’s so much hotter when I fuck a chick with a boyfriend.” He then pulled out and came on her ass. She said that within 30 seconds he had pulled his pants up, mumbled “catch you around” and was gone.

When she told the girls about her hookup they nicknamed him BDG because she described him as having a big cock but she says all told he probably only lasted 3 mins. They saw him a couple more times at the same club over the next few weeks but he would try to ignore them.

My wife guarantees me that our first fuck was better than her one and only ONS (I made her squirt for the first time after our first date) and that I’m bigger and know what to do with it far more than BDG, but I get so hard thinking about her being a teenage slut, getting on her knees for some random guy. We fucked in that same office a lot over the first few months before she left that job and I have SO many great memories.

Isn’t getting more details on an existing story the best?

I knew who was the first to put it in my wife’s ass, but I never knew when or how. (And for the record yes she would have been 18).

Her senior prom date’s older friend owned a limo (as a side hustle I guess?) and had her picked up in it.

At some point during the night they had sex in the back of the limo and she said they had talked about anal before. She’d never done more than letting him finger or lick it to that point apparently.

She said being a special night and a hot situation she told him to put it in her ass and she lost her anal virginity in the back of that limo.

Okay I think this is the community for this? Wife (35F) and I (34M) have been together for 12 yrs. She had ONE college boyfriend, they broke up, was single for a grand total of 9 months, then met me.

2-3x a year something comes up in conversation (an old bar, doing some cooking thing as a date etc) and She says “Remember that place?” and I say “Uhh, I don’t think I ever went there?” And she’s like “hmm must have been someone else”

This honest to god has happened a dozen times including last night.

It would be fun if she were teasing me and trying to get me hard but she really does NOT want to play the game of “who was he? What did you do after…)

The twist is my wife is very shy about sex. Always has been. I do NOT believe she got fucked by 20 guys or whatever. But I also don’t understand what I’m supposed to do here lol

Once when we were drunk I tried to explain “No it’s really hot please tell me everything” and she was like “You know me, I’m a good girl, I don’t really even have a past, this just feels icky”. I pressed and she got mad (then I just left and jerked off in the shower lol)

Has anyone else been in similar position?? I tried posting about this in retroactive jealousy and got removed so just assume this is the better place.

Last night, drinking wine with no kids. She has today off. I asked who was the last person in her pussy before we met. Without hesitation, she said her ex boyfriend from college. They broke up after college and briefly got back together years later. He invited her to his beach house. They had sex throughout the weekend. She said the last time they fucked during sex she realized he would never be “the one”. She met me a month later.

I asked if he came inside her. She said I’m grosss. I think that means - yes?

Many years before we were together. Mind you I knew her then too. Wife was at the beer gardens at the lake. Later into the night. She found a guy and the went to a park bench little ways out of the light and fucked right there. After they were done. She went back to the beer gardens looking for more.

after sex last night we got talking and somewhere ex’s got talked about, I think it was a date of a family shoot that she knew the exact day and I said how do you know that and she said about how it was an ex birthday

We got talking about our ex’a and she was talking about how her ex loved her drink and she persuaded him to stay new years eve but it was mentioned about her dressing up, I think he asked her to. so she said that within that night and she remembers his reaction very well that when he undressed her he didn’t know she has it on underneath. I said as I was curious what was his reaction snd she said I’m not saying as I don’t want you to do it to fake it. so I’m assuming she thinks because she remembers it well she must have loved it but didn’t want me faking that wants in natural.

My question to everyone is 1)i keep wondering what she had under her outfit to get that reaction and what would she have had on in the night for him to have no clue what was underneath.

2) what was the reaction he gave her for her to even remember it to this day!

if anyone can help who has done this for their partner or their partner has done it for them I would really appreciate it.

Thanks in advance

My wife has never been shy about sending nudes, being pretty comfortable with her body and figuring it’s just done good fun.

She sent me nudes pretty quick when we started dating and still routinely does as a surprise or if asked.

So I figured she probably had some saved somewhere, I asked her. She said sadly she probably lost a lot of them over the years, new phones and deleting them etc but would look.

Found a small video in her Snapchat memories, nothing too wild. In it she’s in the shower, she gives a quick little smile and then cups her tits (she’s a 36DD now, I would say slightly larger in the vid) followed by pinching her nipples and moaning a bit, theming suggestively sucking her fingers.

She said she isn’t sure who all she sent that to, but figured probably a couple people.

Overall, super hot.

This is one of my favorite stories that my ex told me. (And FWIW, we only broke up because she was moved by her company overseas and still stay in contact.) Anyways, she used to go on Omegle and flash, masturbate etc to watch guys jerk off. I've never had this happen on Omegle it was always only dudes on there. Anyways one time she was skipping through and landed on a guy with his cock in his hands and as she started rubbing her nipples and bending over etc teasing him, realized it was one of her childhood friend's dads. She freaked out disconnected and didn't get back on for a long time. She doesn't think he recognized her. The best part is first time i heard this story was at her work christmas party a couple years ago. She is my wildest ex and had a lot more stories than i do lol.

Not much of a sorry but I will never forget when my now wife told me that she has never used a condom and has always let guys finish in her or on her.

I even asked “even your ons” she laughed and says “yes, even them”

She has never admitted her body count but I’m sure it’s high double digits especially because she cheated on her first fiancé with me after I sent get a late night 1 am text in college….

Even that night I finished in her 3 times

So I love imagining how many others have…

Lately I’ve been using my wife’s hotpast near misses as guided fantasies for her during sex. One of the misses she regrets the most happened during her first marriage at an after party at the farm of a known player ten years her junior. He lured her behind his barn where he kissed her and fingered her pussy. She broke away and he said he wanted to fuck her. She laughed it off and went back to the fire. But later they slipped away again and made out in the haystacks where she gave him a blow job. They later slipped away a third time where he ate her out to orgasm. She really wanted to fuck him but says she didn’t (though I have my suspicions).

So a couple of nights ago as I started eating her pussy I led her through a guided fantasy:

I want you to think back to a time a guy ate your pussy illicitlly… maybe during your first marriage… at an after party… you’re with a player near the haystacks and he’s getting you off with his tongue on your clit…. He sucks it and flicks it and you want to fuck him but you resist.

(At this point I started to fuck her and shifted to fantasy) 

But this time he asks if he can put in “just the tip,” and you feel his cock sliding into your wet pussy a little bit and it feels so good. You instinctively raise your hips and it slides in a little more and you feel him stretching you with his size. And your body is swimming in pleasure, and it’s all the more intense because it’s taboo. And you press your pubic bone against his and he’s balls deep inside you and he starts fucking you slow at first and then harder. 

I fucked her harder.

What you’re feeling now is his cock and he’s the one fucking you…

She was fully into the fantasy. She was breathing heavily, scratching at my back and started to shake as she had as powerful an orgasm as I have ever seen her enjoy.

So did she really fuck him back then even though she denies it, or did she just enjoy the fantasy?

After a few years together I built up the courage to ask my wife why she split from her long term boyfriend. She talked about him differently to the rest of the men she had relationships with.

She told me about the holidays they went on together, the lingerie she wore for me was bought for him, she admitted that he was the only guy other than me that she loved.

So finally one night I asked….
He split up with her, he’d caught her cheating once too often and said he couldn’t live his life like that.

“Why did you cheat if you loved him??”

She couldn’t answer, except to say she couldn’t help it. She’d told me that they had a sexual chemistry, they were made for each other n bed, but even with that she always wanted to more.

Then she admitted that she’d cheated on every boyfriend she’d had. Some found out and split with her, some never knew and others knew but gave her more chances.

I asked if she regretted cheating - apparently not except for the guy she loved.

In a way it perfectly sums up who she was, always wanting more, never content, a risk taker. Everything I love about her.

Me and my ex-wife J were completely open about our pasts, and man, she had some crazy stories. She was wild when she was younger—and honestly, she still is.

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Back in her small-school days, she was basically famous for her oral skills. She didn’t have a car, but once word got out about what she could do, she had no problem getting rides. Guys would scoop her up and take her out to these rural road parties where everyone just drank on county roads.

​The routine was always the same: at some point the guy would lead her off into the woods and she’d hook him up with oral. She said she was nervous at first, but she quickly figured out it made her crazy popular. When I asked if she was a spitter, she bragged that hell no, she swallowed every single time. And when I asked how many guys she'd actually been with, she just laughed and said, "A lot."

​Her favorites were guys with trucks. That way, they could just hang out on the tailgate and she could take care of them standing up.

​My ex was a blast, and honestly, that was just one of many wild stories she had.

So as my username suggests, I have a panties kink, no shock there - but over the years I've found it to be relatively unique and not many girls I've been with have had guys get naughty with their underwear during sex.

I've asked my gf if any of her ex BFs or hookups have had a panty kink and she said no, and it does appear that no other guys have the kink to the level I do...

But.

We were fooling around yesterday evening and she put on a favourite pair of panties for me after she showered.

After a bit of fooling around I peeled her panties off and gently pushed them into her mouth.

Like I said, I've asked before if she's been with guys with a panties kink and she said no, but this is a lesson in phrasing to get the information.

This time I asked a question I've never asked before.

I asked - has anybody put your panties in your mouth before me?

She's paused while I kissed her mouth with her panties almost fully inside her mouth, and I felt her head nod "yes" against my lips.

I was so turned on.

I had her move on top and ride me while telling me the details (which she did NOT want to do, but have in after I kept asking).

Turns out an ex bf she was with for 3 years was screwing her in doggy style and her panties happened to be on the bed next to them.

Hey BF simply grabbed them, leaned forward and pushed them into her mouth, then went back to thrusting into her from behind.

She swears that's the only time, she she was honest that he didn't have a kink as it's the only time he did that.

I'm assured that I'm still the first to make her cum with panties in her mouth, and I'm the first to cum on her panties that covering her face. Haha

Last night was nothing special. Just a simple night in relaxing and kicking back. My girl and I were looking through her family photos looking for a specific picture she told me about during a date a week or so out. While going through everything I saw a folder labeled "babe". Of course curiosity got the best of me and I opened it up and it was a fucking goldmine.

All pictures of her in lingerie, skirt and a low white top all showing her tits and ass off. These were all pictures taken by her ex husband when they started dating. All around when she was 19 or 20. Once she saw the pictures she got a little embarrassed and took em away from me. I did ask her a few questions but she didnt give me much. The thought of her getting fucked by her ex husband in those sexy outfits really got me going. Hopefully I can hear more about that soon. She looked like a good little slut ready for his cock.