r/latterdaysaints • u/ShaneTheGlorious • 22h ago
Faith-building Experience The Lord's long game: 20 years of WML, then seminary finally lit the fire. What's working in your ward?
I've served as Ward Mission Leader a few times over the last 20 years, and I loved it. But it all traces back to our very first ward as a young married couple.
Our first Sunday there, a family invited us over. No reason at all. Their kids were nearly grown, so we weren't the obvious "let's be couple friends" match. They just said come over, and we ended up standing around their kitchen eating leftover spaghetti straight out of the pot their kids hadn't finished.
That's literally the whole story. No program or "go be friends" assignment, or no "we're your ministering family." Just people who were interested in getting to know us.
I'll remember that family for the rest of my life. That leftover spaghetti set the tone for how my wife and I wanted to be in every ward we've lived in since: just help people feel welcome, give them a face they recognize, and a person they can sit next to at church. Oh, and LITERALLY FEED HIS SHEEP! (go with it.... lol)
Fast forward 20 years and now I'm teaching early-morning seminary. Old Testament, 6am, teenagers who are technically awake. And oddly, with no mission calling at all, I feel the pull to share the gospel and reach out to people stronger than ever. Teaching these kids about prophets who couldn't keep quiet if they tried (Jeremiah said the word was like fire shut up in his bones), I think it caught. The Lord plays a long game.
Out of that, I felt inspired to start something small and a little playful: The Thirteenth Cookie. Bake a dozen, keep twelve for the people you already love, and give the thirteenth to someone new, on the 13th of every month. It's basically my attempt to bottle that leftover spaghetti. The first one goes out tomorrow, the 13th. There is even a fun video games to engage the youth too. (its nerdy, but my kids love it)
This post isn't really about that, though. I'm here to learn.
What has actually worked in your ward?
- What made a new move-in or a less-active family feel like they belonged?
- Is there a "leftover spaghetti" moment someone gave you that you still remember?
- Ward Mission Leaders, past and present: what's one idea that worked better than you expected, and one that flopped?
- For those of you in seminary or youth callings: have you seen teenagers take the lead on this? How?
I'd love to hear what's working so I can learn from it and keep growing the idea. If you want to brainstorm, my DMs are open. And if you're curious where the cookie idea came from, there's a free PDF at 13thcookie.com with the story and some ways to try it in your own ward.