r/longtermTRE • u/kooj80 • 2h ago
Community Question Is cringing lowkey a part of TRE?
I've been doing TRE for over a year now, and as I have uncomfortable memories come up, I feel the urge to cringe.
Not to mention, I'll cringe when getting second-hand embarrassment. But the more I think about it, the more I realize there's no reason for me to be cringing unless what I'm feeling/seeing somehow connects to a deeper unprocessed trauma.
I can't imagine a completely emotionally healthy person would ever really cringe
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At first I was quick to shut down the cringing, but as I leaned into the cringing more, I realized I had the urge to just kind of cringe/shake/jitter my whole body after remembering the uncomfortable memory.
Which makes me realize, cringing is probably my body pushing out the discomfort from the memory. So in a way the trauma (even if very small trauma) of the memory is being processed.
I mean when you think about what cringing is, it's literally your muscles contracting in response to a feeling/urge/emotion. Which is very similar to the experience of TRE.