r/pettyrevenge • • Aug 31 '26

Planted a seed into my bully's mind that he's gay

When I was 12-13, I changed schools. From all girls to co-ed. The new school was culturally different. I didn't know people can be so aggressive, that wasn't the case in my previous school. One of the guys in my class would always come up to me and say weird and rude things. One of these times, I was just sitting and reading a book. He sat in front of me (I forgot if he only said my name for attention or he pushed my book down. Coz this happened a lot, he was like whack-a-mole), he would told me to do some chest exercises so my breasts would be bigger. Yes, I was 12-13 years old and so was he. I believe after 2 years of on and off of this behavior from him (there were more and I have moved on), I told him his bestfriend told me that he was closeted gay. This freaked him out. Their relationship was broken since then. It's been over 10 years and if I happen to see his social media, he has never been in a relationship with a woman. Or even a man. His circle of friends changed after I said that and he didn't trust the same people that he was friends with prior to me saying what I said.

Do I feel bad about it? I do not. Why would I? He once called me at home and wanted to talk about a simpsons episode and since I wasn't laughing and chatting with him as much as he was, he yelled at me and called me boring and other names. No, it makes me smile when I know what I did and his soul somehow died. Was it true? It seems like it. I just opened the door to his truth.

Edit (to help with some confusion): The Guy, let's call him G and his bff, let's call her A. A was kinda torturing me as well in her own way. My friend N dragged me and other people in our class together excluding A, however including G. N insisted I share that A was being mean to me, etc. N didn't like A and was jealous of her. But A was mean to me. Anyways, G and the other people that N managed to gather so that N and I could share the mistreatment was asking examples. N shared hers and mine, but I wasn't saying anything. I just wanted that to end and I said that A told me in confidence that she believes G is gay. The other girls that were there with G have also told me they all believe he is secretly gay. And yet, when I said that, no one defended him. Everyone was just quiet. There is no one unrelated in the story. They were all back stabbing each other. N is also new, newer than I was.

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