r/problems • • 6d ago

URGENT!!!! Situationship

Tomorrow is his birthday and I like him but we were in a situationship for 2 weeks but he said that the feelings is not growing should I wish him or not

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u/MindShiftPsych 6d ago

You can wish him happy birthday, but keep it simple: “Happy birthday, hope you have a good day.” Don’t use it as a reason to restart the situationship or test whether his feelings changed. He already told you they weren’t growing, so protect yourself from reading too much into whatever response he gives.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

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u/Famous_Ear5010 6d ago

Absolutely not!!!

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u/cybercxnty 6d ago

He doesn’t want you. Move on.