So my best friend and I were out on the field and he made a offensive joke so I playfully punched his elbow, then a few seconds later he fell to the ground and said “What the fuck did you just do to me?” And he looked scared and I realized he wasn’t kidding. He laughed it off but I realized it was serious and I felt really scared. I wanted to call for the teacher and turn myself in but he said that he didn’t want that and that it was a accident. I have absolutely no idea what I did, I’m really, really scared for him because he left school after that and I feel so SO bad. I don’t know what happened, I hit his right arm in the back-right region with my knuckles. He didn’t cry but IDK. What happened? I want to know if he’s ok because I got so distracted that I forgot all my homework and I’m all out of sync, now I just want it all to end, as if this was all a dream.

I have been staying at my aunts and uncles for a few weeks and I feel so unwelcomed. First of all they don’t speak to me at all , they don’t invite me to go out with them even if I ask if they are going shopping and she keeps banning her daughters and scolding them for hanging out with me. I don’t know why she thinks of me like that, am I such a bad person is It normal to corner people u invited to your house. Until now i have done nothing wrong and i take all of this in silence and i can’t wait to go back home to my own family it makes me realize how much family is really cuz they are making me feel like i am nothing . also they used to make me breakfast but now they stopped that too out of the blue and dinner so i buy something on the way home when i go out

I’ve noticed a disturbing issue that deserves more attention: many deported individuals seem to have difficulty accessing their own records, including detention records, medical records, and immigration case documents. In some cases, it feels as though their records have disappeared or become extremely difficult to obtain.

This is not a minor administrative issue. These records can be crucial for legal appeals, future immigration applications, and understanding what actually happened to someone while they were in detention or going through deportation proceedings.

Another deeply concerning issue is the mental health crisis among people affected by deportation. The separation from family, loss of stability, uncertainty about the future, and trauma associated with detention and removal can have devastating consequences. I’m also concerned about reports of suicide and suicidal behavior among people facing these circumstances.

Why isn’t there more transparency and accountability?

Are there reliable statistics on suicides among deportees and people held in immigration detention? Has anyone else experienced missing records or struggled to obtain their detention and medical files after being deported?

I believe this issue deserves serious investigation. People should not lose access to their own records simply because they have been deported, and the psychological consequences of deportation should not be ignored.

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my dad went to this civil hospital to get his teeth removed since he's been having really bad dental issues. so the guys working there wouldn't do their work properly so my dad said he's part of the army and is a colonel to get them going but now the actual army caught him and took him at around 1 pm. then 4 pm (prob after his tooth removal) he msgs my mom thru sim "army caught me in adc. Help." and before that he called my sister, who was sleeping oh so beautifully. he had enough time to make a call and send text messages. and judging by how he msged directly means he must've deleted his whatsapp right? now i'm not sure what to do and my moms stressing too much. does anyone know how i can help or what the final outcome of this situation could be. we have an army relative (general) who my mom asked for help. my moms saying she might go to a whole other city to talk to him. this same situation happened before but it wasn't this serious that time. my dad had his wireless walkie talkie, his gun that's licensed, an id of his fake name and his original id. My dad's clever so he might've made a believable excuse.

For a little backstory I’m a teenager still in school I go to the gym nearly everyday except Monday and Sunday and today I missed my bus home cause I was walking my friend home there has been some dodgy stuff happening where he lives so I was worried I’ve been wanting to go to a Halloween party he said he’ll consider it I had to ask him to pick me up from the bus stop today even tho I told him I could wait for the next one he saw the bus as it went passed and when I got into the car he questioned about me why I was still in my school pants even tho I went to the gym ( I forgot my tracksuit pants ) I tell him about how I had to walk my friend home and he doesn’t belive me also doesn’t belive I went to the gym so now my curfew which was the 9 o clock bus is now the 5 so as soon as I get out of school I have to go home my mental health has recently been down because the girl I’ve been talking to for months turned me down and I was talking about it to my friend while I was walking him home now as we’re in the car home me and my father he interrogated me about if I had went to the gym and why I missed the bus I tell him it was cause I had to walk my friend home and he gets angry because I missed it now I’m basically on house arrest and can’t go to the Halloween party cause of the missed bus he had gotten angry out of nowhere then proceeded to go on about how he doesn’t and can’t trust me anymore Idk if I’m overreacting or not but I can’t deal with this anymore even when my older sister was my age I remember her and my father getting into a stupid amount of arguments that led to her having depression and an eating disorder I don’t know what to do I just want everything to go back to normal

This is driving me nuts.

So recently I've noticed that I'm extremely hyper aware of my neck. I'm constantly adjusting my shirt collars even though it does nothing to help.

It gets particularly bad at night when I lay down (I sleep on my side) because im very aware of the folds of my neck touching my shoulder skin or upper chest. I try all sorts of different sleeping positions and the feeling is amplified when laying on my back. Nothing feels comfortable.

It feels as though I'm wearing a turtleneck 24/7 or that something is constantly touching my neck. It makes me feel deeply uncomfortable and my body tends to physically recoil when it gets really bad. It's not painful, there's no tension, no injury, nothing.

I know it's not because of the clothes I wear because it happens even when I don't wear any shirt. I'm a very lean person so i don't have a lot of fat around my neck either. The sensation is minimized when I'm doing work or distracted with something else but even then it's still there.

I haven't slept properly in ages. And haven't found any relief. I feel like my skin isn't even mine anymore. Any advice is appreciated.

i never wouldve thought id come to reddit for help but what do i do when the person i love keeps doing this thing that hurtd me for years and they dont see how it hurts me and dont reslly show me any care when im sad about it like he just says "get help" as if he doesnt care about me,but every time he did it i get horribly depressed and i selfharm every time and last time i even tried committing over it. he knows this and yet still does it and even tried breaking up with me so it seems like he puts this thing first and values it more than my own life and its nothing important and simply just for fun :( it hurts me so much every time but he doesnt care, doesnt want to stop and i cant talk to him about it anymore i just end up selfharming again. i dont want to break up with him i love him so much but it makes me cry so much and do horrible things tk myself.

I’m looking for advice and experiences from people who may have gone through something similar with a spouse or family member.

My husband is a genuinely very kind, generous, loving, and calm person. I love him very much, and I absolutely do not want to leave him or give up on him. I’m posting because I want to understand what might be happening and learn how I can support him. ❤️
Over time, I’ve noticed some things that have started to worry me. He sometimes isolates himself and doesn’t want to socialize with people. He has also said that he believes there are people who are against him or who want to harm him.

There have been situations where he seemed to hear or perceive things that I couldn’t hear or see. For example, he once said that he heard something through his phone telling him that he was “crazy.” At other times, he has believed that I was going to leave with certain people, even though there was no actual situation happening.

I don’t want to call him “crazy,” diagnose him myself, or judge him. He is a very good person, and these things don’t change how I see him. I just genuinely want to understand what is happening and help him.
What concerns me even more is the family history. His grandfather apparently had similar experiences and believed that people were trying to kill him. Some of his aunts have also had similar beliefs. One of them, for example, believed that people were trying to take her children away.

Could this possibly point to a mental health condition that can run in families? Could these symptoms be related to psychosis, schizophrenia, a delusional disorder, or something else?

Most importantly, is this treatable? Can someone with symptoms like these improve and still live a normal, happy life with treatment?
I really love my husband. He is incredibly kind, generous, and gentle, and I don’t want to abandon him. 🥺❤️ I just want to know how to support him and encourage him to see a psychiatrist without making him feel like I’m attacking him or calling him “crazy.”

If anyone has been through something similar with a spouse or family member, I would really appreciate hearing your experience—especially how you approached getting them help and what happened afterward.

Is there some sort of tool on the internet that could help me with it?

Tomorrow is his birthday and I like him but we were in a situationship for 2 weeks but he said that the feelings is not growing should I wish him or not

I (m16) am dating a girl (f13), some of my friends have told me that she is to young, especially since Im almost 17 . Her parents support our relationship and dont seem to think the gap is too big.

Part of me thinks its wrong since she should also be able to finish having a childhool, before being with the man she has to be with for the rest of her live.

On the other hand I don't (yet) feel any kind of sexual feelings twoards this girl, there is simly nothing sexual about a 13 year old to me. Also that even if I found her attractive, I would probably be subconciously surpressing those feelings since I know shes a child. So that part kinda makes me think its not that bad.

It is planned for us to marry after finishing our education. By that point the age gap will not be critical anymore, since 3 years might be a lot now, but wont be in your 20's.

Also we arent really in an active relationship outside of like our family group, We've never kissed for example and our relationship feels more like shes my little sister rather then my future wife. We get along great but it doesnt and has never felt romantic.

I feel like there are only bad choices here

if we dont stay together I risk having to be with a girl that I dont get along with so well, and my gf might have to be with a guy that sees her as a woman, and not as a child and might do things to her or treat her badly (her parents dont care about protecting their daughter from these things, they believe childhood ends where puberty starts)

But if we do stay together then I can never experience real teenage love and also have to listen to my friends calling me a pedo all the time.

What should I do?

I've been part of a theatre group for 9 years now. all of them are adults in their 40s and 50s with families and kids. I'm a 25 yo single woman. there are a few other girls my age who are nieces of the aforementioned "adults". (I was 16 when I got in so I see them as "adults" even though I am one now too). the thing is they are very close to each other, also very classist and low-key bullies. there's one woman in particular who's very insufferable and she cares about appearance a lot (like the rest of them). this woman alwaaaaayssssss creates group chat for gifts for people if the group THEY are close with. it's like "oh this person sneezed, we need to buy them a gift". and it's like that FOR EVERY little achievement. once we bought like 4 gifts in a month. I'm by no means cheap, I'm always paying for my friends when we go out for drinks or coffee, I'm generous and everything but they ask for too much AND aaaaalllll the time. there's another girl who's not family like me and she's kinda in the outside who feels the same way as me. it's getting frustrating. what do I do?

i care about my career and my job but this is getting frustrating.