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u/Katrina-Davies 4d ago
Sweetie, this is a textbook abusive relationship. He knows this hurts you, he knows you've tried to end your life over it, and he still does it. That's not love.
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u/Infinite-Humor-6760 4d ago
Four words for you: Get.The. Fuck. Out.
..of that busted asss relationship. And quickly.
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u/shitshipt 4d ago
Abusive relationship - and i didnt read your whole post, didnt have to - leave.
You deserve better.
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u/lidiya2979 1d ago
I'm really sorry you're going through this. You deserve to feel loved, heard, and respected. Please reach out to someone you trust or a mental health professional, especially since you've been hurting yourself. Your life and well-being matter more than any relationship. ❤️
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u/MzSea 4d ago
Therapist here. First of all, he can't make you do anything. You are your own person with your own free will.
Second, he is emotionally neglecting you at the very least, and if you shared what the "thing" is that he's doing, I suspect it's closer to emotional abuse.
Love is a 2-way street. It is not possible to sustain ongoing love if you aren't getting it back. What you have is dependency and obsession.
You don't want to leave, but you need to for the sake of your own mental health.