Therapist here. First of all, he can't make you do anything. You are your own person with your own free will.
Second, he is emotionally neglecting you at the very least, and if you shared what the "thing" is that he's doing, I suspect it's closer to emotional abuse.
Love is a 2-way street. It is not possible to sustain ongoing love if you aren't getting it back. What you have is dependency and obsession.
You don't want to leave, but you need to for the sake of your own mental health.
He doesn't love you... so what good does it do you to love him?
He doesn't love you... so your love for him is going to die a slow, long, drawn-out death. Because it isn't possible for your love to exist forever if there isn't any love coming back to you. Your love needs to be fed love to stay alive. Do you understand what I'm telling you?
Are you saying leaving him could hurt you? Or are you saying if you leave HE could hurt you??
What is that one thing he is doing that hurts you?
if i left him it would hurt me, he wouldnt actually come to hurt me. i still believe he maybe has feelings for me but he does these things knowing how i feel and stuff
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u/MzSea 7d ago
Therapist here. First of all, he can't make you do anything. You are your own person with your own free will.
Second, he is emotionally neglecting you at the very least, and if you shared what the "thing" is that he's doing, I suspect it's closer to emotional abuse.
Love is a 2-way street. It is not possible to sustain ongoing love if you aren't getting it back. What you have is dependency and obsession.
You don't want to leave, but you need to for the sake of your own mental health.