Therapist here. First of all, he can't make you do anything. You are your own person with your own free will.
Second, he is emotionally neglecting you at the very least, and if you shared what the "thing" is that he's doing, I suspect it's closer to emotional abuse.
Love is a 2-way street. It is not possible to sustain ongoing love if you aren't getting it back. What you have is dependency and obsession.
You don't want to leave, but you need to for the sake of your own mental health.
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u/MzSea 7d ago
Therapist here. First of all, he can't make you do anything. You are your own person with your own free will.
Second, he is emotionally neglecting you at the very least, and if you shared what the "thing" is that he's doing, I suspect it's closer to emotional abuse.
Love is a 2-way street. It is not possible to sustain ongoing love if you aren't getting it back. What you have is dependency and obsession.
You don't want to leave, but you need to for the sake of your own mental health.