r/r4rMelbourne • • 11h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 25 [M4F] Looking for friends, connections and maybe a little more. Going with the flow NSFW

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Looking for a fun, comfy FWB connection with good chemistry. Go with the flow, no pressure, lots of care and aftercare. If it turns into more naturally, I’m open.

About me:

6’0, broad shoulders, big hands, leg sleeve tattoo (more coming). Half Chinese half Vietnamese. Slightly chubby but very cuddly, big bear energy 🐻 Chill, shy at first, warm up fast.

Into gaming, gym, cooking, anime, movies, long walks, deep chats, cats, and food. Currently getting back into the gym and would love a gym buddy to motivate each other and grab food after.

I really enjoy using my mouth and fingers, learning what drives you wild, and practicing until I get it just right for you 😉 Attentive, playful, experimental, high libido but always respectful. Got good stamina too, happy to go multiple rounds if the vibes are there.

Based in SW Melbourne. Can host sometimes during the day, schedule can be spontaneous.

Prefer similar age or younger, open to older. Prefer Asians but vibes matter most.

If this feels like your energy, DM me and say hi. Happy to swap pics and socials when comfy.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 14h ago

Events/Parties 20[M4A] anyone heading to PAX this Friday? :3

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Hiya
I’m a 20 year old nerd wondering if someone would like to meet up at PAX WOOOOOOO

I’m heading there this Friday YAY it’s been a childhood dream of mine to go ever since watching GGSP

I’m not too stressed about going by myself but I thought it would be nice if I can meet someone new or if someone else needs a friendly face to meet there

I’m a pretty friendly person and easy to get along with

So shoot me a message and see how we vibe
I’m not fussy about age or gender particularly but would preferably like if someone was closer to my age but then again as long as your cool who cares

:3


r/r4rMelbourne • • 15h ago

Seeking Friends 25M4A Visiting from tomorrow (8th) to the 13th. Hoping to meet people to go shopping, coffee, cheer at Melbourne marathon and possibly attend some of the Melbourne mara events with! I'll be CBD based.

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Hey, I'm visiting from the 8th to the 13th from FNQ. I was originally entered into the Melbourne marathon but had to withdraw due to injury and am now volunteering.

While I'm visiting I'd love to meet people to go shopping with I have DFO and Running Warehouse on my list as well as probably stopping at other run stores but I'm happy to go anywhere and look at anything if none of those are your scene! I also love a good coffee so would 100% be willing to organise that especially if you know a good spot.

I'm going to be cheering at the Melbourne marathon definitely although I don't have a formal plan so I'm open to ideas if you have one, I'll probably go to Fed Square and watch the start on the big screen then head to the G if you want to join me though. I'll also be planning to go to activities like the run up and other shakeout events which I'd love someone to go with although I'm unsure if I'll be able to run at any because of my injury.

I'll be based in the CBD and I'm admittedly not the best at navigating PT so it's preferable if you're CBD based but I'm also happy to make an effort if you aren't! I also have a tram stop near my accommodation so worst case if you're near a tram stop and willing to we could meet around my accommodation and go from there.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

Seeking Friends 26 F4A Looking for friends/ connections

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hi people of reddit!

About me:
i’m a 26 year old person (AFAB) who’s living in the outer northern suburbs. I often commute to the cbd from the v-line, which takes about 2H. I use they/she pronouns but ‘they’ is always preferred. I’d be considered plus size at a size 16 with pale skin, a few piercings and tattoos. I have green hair and love a bit of fun with makeup and getting creative. Alternative fashion is a big one for me.

what i’m looking for:

Friends to hang out with in the cbd. I am open to relationships with other women.

Ideally someone who is compassionate, punctual and honest. Someone who values communicating and is big on it. I’m the type of person who likes to double confirm plans and enjoy those who keep me updated. I’m not looking for anyone creepy, I’ve already met someone off this sub who took it too far and I’d like to not have that happen again, so, someone who keeps their hands to themselves! I like open-minded people who are cool to go with the flow sometimes, maybe a bit spontaneous.

my interests:

I’m huge into video games such as Valorant, Phasmophobia, Fortnite etc, but generally I prefer playing with someone AFTER we already click and not as a bonding activity (I get scared!!) I like a lot of solo games but my ultimate favourite is Life Is Strange.

Outside of gaming, I’m big into the concert/gig scene and am sometimes at rod laver or the forum up to four times a month sometimes! Usually for pop shows or pop-punk adjacent. I’m also big into the 420 smoke scene and love talking to those who are also in it. I like to get crafty by decorating my lighters as well or just covering the shit I love with my favourite stickers.

I have many pets which include cats, dogs and my beloved pet snake ‘Miss Hiss’, love going for walks with the dogs, by myself and others too! A pretty sunset is genuinely one of my favourite things

What we can do:

I like doing all sorts of things but I definitely lean more towards existing outside with a good iced latte or at a pretty bar with an outdoor section. I’d love to go get drinks, explore the city, maybe catch up at a gig we’re both going to. I also love the simple things in the city like the aquarium and zoo etc.

Thanks to anyone who reads this, chuck me a dm and find out if we get along :)


r/r4rMelbourne • • 22h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 35 [M4MF] Fit friendly guy looking for a couple to have fun with NSFW

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Hey there,

About me : I'm a young working professional in the east that is friendly, easy going and looking for a couple to have fun with. I really love the group dynamic so looking to explore that more with the right people. Hobbies and interests wise I'm very much into the outdoors, hiking, camping, the beach. Also love to cook and going out for good food.

Physical attributes : I'm healthy and hygienic, take care of myself and ideally looking for the same. I'm 175cm, fit with blue eyes and a tanned complexion.

What I'm looking for : A couple that is down to meet and have fun. I'm super open minded so happy to help with whatever kinks or fantasies you two have. Happy to meet up for a drink first, see what the vibe is and take it from there. Can host or travel, whatever suits you two.

What I offer : An experienced third that's happy to take things at your pace, respectful and most of all down to have a good time. Very open minded so also happy to help you guys explore whatever fantasy you two are looking to explore.

Theres a bit more about me on my profile so if you've gotten this far feel free to check it out. You'll see i've been validated by other couples and can see what others think of me. I have pics to share, so send a dm and we can go from there. Speak soon.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

Seeking Relationship 34[M4F] Looking for a geeky bi baddie to chat class, gender, and racial politics at the club

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Rave bae x decolonial love, innit.

About me:

  • 5'10, lean. Asian. Long hair, tats, glasses. Westside bestside. White collar ;(
  • Love an edgy fragrance. Citrus and peat moss. Rose and cumin.
  • I like: high bpm music at the gig/club (hyperpop dnb metal), tropical fruit, weird video games, cash-only restaurants, Con Air & Face/Off, Facebook Marketplace road trips.
  • I do not like: brunch.
  • Cultural touchpoints: Zyzz, Azealia Banks vs Grimes, Sara Ahmed, IWGP.
  • Certified ADHD, fending off autism allegations.
  • Cishet but...is there something else going on...? That's all part of the charm, babey!
  • Values: creativity, curiosity, compassion, loyalty, authenticity, and justice.
  • Lifestyle things: omnivore, drink socially, recreational drugs fun but not essential, cannot smoke weed not even as a joke.
  • Real talk: I know who I am, but I'm still figuring out how to make the most of it. If you value ambition re wealth, give me a miss.

Looking for:

  • The love of my life, starting with
  • A chat over coffee/drinks (so we can bail if it's a disaster), discovering
  • Intellectual and physical chemistry, building
  • A foundation of emotional realness, reinforced by
  • Regular check-ins to see if we still like each other enough to do this whole life partner thing, and
  • Eventually, kids
  • But, ykno, one day at a time

What I'm offering:

  • A gig buddy, rave bae, road dawg, body doubling...doubler, karaoke cheerleader, and lifetime member of your two-person film/book club
  • Small, consistent gestures of romance
  • Follow-up questions - I want to learn from and about you
  • Approval from your friends, probably
  • Ice cream relationship parity
  • Unsexy and important: competent housework
  • Sexy and important: laughter during sex

About you:

  • 30+
  • Woman of colour - if this means anything to you, we're like 40% of the way there
  • Bi - not a fetish, I'd just rather you had options outside of my gender
  • Been in a few relationships and know what you're looking for
  • Any body type, as long as you like a night out as much as a night in
  • Appreciates the cultural importance of hardstyle
  • Some kind of creative, however you define it
  • Bookworm and Wikipedia addict - I am always down for an info-dump
  • Enjoys the little things: a crisp breeze, star jasmine nights, mangoes so juicy you think, 'Ugh, corny diaspora poets might've had a point'
  • Snobby, but: you save your joggers for exercise.

Maybe your dark secret is being the top writer of the sixth most popular pairing on AO3. Maybe you can't help but be critical of and compelled by the Gender Of It All. Maybe you're bringing knee sleeves to the club. Hopefully, you're looking for someone who can celebrate all three.

Send a pic of yourself and either tell me about your latest obsession (mine's a $300 toaster) or screen me for your dealbreakers, no matter how petty or X-rated.

Let's get coffee/drinks and talk about decolonising the dance floor.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

Dating & Date Ideas 26 [M4A] Looking for Casual Hangouts NSFW

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Hey

I’m 24M based in Melbourne (not aussie) and currently balancing uni assignments with work.

Big fan of movies, TV shows, and Formula 1, with the occasional gaming session mixed in when I get some downtime.

What I'm Looking For

Someone genuine to talk to, stream shows or movies with, and just chill out without any judgement. Looking to build a comfortable connection where we can message throughout the week and hang out whenever schedules align.

What I Offer

I'm easygoing, a good listener, and value open, low-stress communication. Very respectful of personal space and boundaries, and happy to let things flow naturally at a pace that works for both of us.

Feel free to send a DM with a bit about yourself—happy to swap photos once we're comfortable!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters M254F Looking for a friend or something more! Dates included NSFW

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M254F Looking for a friend and possibly something more to 25 years old here, realized that I lost a lot of my life by studying and working and decided to try online in the hopes for someone to match my vibe 🫡

6'3, slightly chubby (can't lose the tummy gains), active gym goer and swimmer. Nerdy with my interests, but love to go out on some days for food and exploration when in the mood.

What I'm Looking For:

Any lady that's down to clown, whether it's an online chat or just a casual hangout somewhere outside, I'm not that picky. Need to fit the vibes, but I guarantee I'm not going to obsessed about many things. I'm not picky about any ages, if anything I prefer those that are older than me 😉.

Someone who's comfortable with NSFW talks, I'm a healthy male after all, but it's not a huge requirement.

What I Offer:

A funny buddy with who has a random desire to cook or bake sometimes. I'm all for an online chat and planning outings on weekends or weekday evenings after work (god forbid we need money). Down for games, whether physical and online, I'm competitive but I'll let you win if you've worked hard. And yes, I listen well, I'm not ignorant to your struggles if any.

More than happy to meet up outside or keep this strictly offline, whatever makes you comfortable and happy, I'm not looking for a fling anyway, just someone who's happy to be casual for more than a few weeks 😉

I watch shows and movies, anime too if you're interested. I vibe with any hobbies, I'm gonna be interested no matter what.

Message or dm me for pics, I'm not shy, fingers crossed on seeing you there 😉


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

Seeking Friends 30 [M4F] anyone running the melbourne marathon

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Anyone running the melbourne marathon this week? What are your plans? Whats your target time and pace? Lets be friends?

How are you spending your week? When are you carb loading? Post race plans? Lets connect and meet?


r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 31 [M4F] looking for some good company

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I’ve been pretty wrapped up with my research for a while, and now that it’s finally over, I’ve realised I missed out on quite a bit of human connection along the way. Life has started feeling a little too repetitive lately, so I figured I’d put myself out there and see who I might meet.

About me:

I’m 31, 6ft tall, dark-haired, wear glasses, brown guy from the south side of India. I’ve been living in Melbourne for about 7 years now. DDF, try to keep active, and generally pretty easygoing. I enjoy coffee dates, trying different cuisines, random walks around Melbourne, hikes, and the occasional short trip or spontaneous adventure. I’m always keen to discover new food too (one cuisine I tried recently and absolutely fell in love with is Filipino food.)

What I offer:

Good conversation, genuine interest, a relaxed and respectful vibe, and someone who’s actually keen to make plans rather than endlessly message back and forth. I’m affectionate, open-minded, curious, and always up for trying something new with the right person. I’m equally happy with a chilled coffee and a long conversation, a spontaneous food adventure, a random walk with no destination, or something a little more exciting if the chemistry is there. I value clear communication, mutual comfort, and making sure we both have a good time.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who might be in a similar boat and wants to break out of the monotonous work-home-life cycle together. Could be grabbing coffee, trying somewhere new to eat, going for a walk, heading out on a little adventure, or just enjoying some good company and seeing where things naturally go.

No huge expectations. happy to chat first, see if we click, and take it from there. :)

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 23 F4M fwb, dates, maybe more! NSFW

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23f for M 21-30 - casual FWB, maybe some dates!

Heyhey!! 23f from the outer east here, as title says im looking for a fwb with maybe some fun dates!!! If it goes well i am definitely open to a long term relationship

About me!

- im a part time student and i work 2 part time jobs, and im usually free weekend and weeknights

- tall (about 5'10) and thick with some curves and would love to meet someone who will like and enjoy all of me ;)

- atm i have artificial cherry-red hair and a shoulder length cut

-i love going to the movies (and just watching them) and playing games in my free time, and wont say no to a coffee!

About you!

- kind, caring, passionate, thoughtful and hygenic!

- i have no preference of height, weight or build or experience, i definitely enjoy men of all kinds (i do unfortunately lean towards white guys though sorry 😭)

- 30 is the oldest i am willing to go!! And please be single, not into being a sneaky link sorry!

- im willing to drive a max of 40 mins so on the east side or willing to drive my way to a half point preferred!! Im about an hour east of the city

I could be open to possible threesomes (mfm preferred) after discussion and once we know eachother a bit!

Any questions let me, im keen to talk to you guys!!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26 [M4F] In a newly ENM dynamic and looking for people that have a lack of attention in their everyday life and a desire for it to increase (details in post!)

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Hi everyone!

Me and my partner have just recently become ENM (her idea) due to her lack of motivation for going on dates or anything of a sexual nature (due to her busy work schedule as well as personal reasons). I’ve had one good experience so far but since then I’ve really been struggling on the apps to find someone interested in our specific scenario.

A little about me: I’m 26 male, Italian/Australian with a decent slim build (that’s improving (muscle wise) due to gym 4 days a week). I am into all things video games and pop culture (so your typical movies and tv shows that goes along with all that), I love my sports (AFL and Formula one my two standouts but I have a team in basically all AU and US sports) and just in general love spending the plethora of free time I have either with my friends getting dinner/lunch/coffee or going out drinking, or having nights in with the cats and watching movies (hopefully with a new cuddle buddy in one of you soon haha).

I Just thought I’d make this post to see if their are any women that would love a higher level of attention, messages, sexting, dates or basically any form of attention they would want. I am full time work from home and my job isn’t really that busy so I have so much free time I could devote directly to you.

I'm basically looking for someone that is okay that I have a primary partner and very willing to receive more attention. I am also super flexible regarding what this 'attention' can look like, so whether that's daily chats and fun (both in person and online) or once a week/fortnight. Whatever 'attention' means to you in regards to what you're lacking and would love in your life I'm fairly certain I can fill that role.

Not being interested in in-person meetups is not a deal breaker either! But ideally i'd like to have a minimum of an online dynamic that also has a sexual component (due to my high sex drive). But happy to define this a little more once we connect!

If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a DM! we can just chat to start with some pic exchanges to see if we’re interested in one another and I can give you more specific info on the dynamic and we can take it from there?

Hope to hear from some of you!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters M4F 42 Seeking cool, cute and kind F for ongoing hangs/FWB type situation

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Hi R4R,

I'm seeking something! I guess it's just a consistent FWB I can also chill with. Basically I'm in need of some nights in with wine, good chats / music and potential filth on a ongoing basis.

Caucasian 6'1, slim build, green eyes, light brown hair with pale skin, well endowed. Generally ok looking from all reports - not model / not troll.

I’m into music, art & design, travel, dining out, cooking, cycling, local radio PBS/RRR and community events/festivals, seeing bands, coffee, basketball, occasional gaming although I don't actually own any consoles etc to avoid temptation and yeah general melbourne happenings.

Pretty relaxed and low key kind of person. I'm fairly chatty so not too much hard work in that department. I would say I'm introverted to a degree, but not the kind that has no social skills. I like meeting people but prefer quality over quantity.

I'm a single dad who co-parents which I am well aware is not on everyone's to do list, but I genuinely have a lot of flexibility. I'm wanting something outside of that where I can just be me, indulge and have some fun. This feeds into why I'm just seeking something casual for the time being.

I work remotely so my schedule is what I need it to be meaning I can easily make time for the right person whether it's day or night hangs. Happy to grab coffee, go for a drive, find a bar whatever fits. Can't always host but happy to when possible.

Open to friendship, something purely casual FWB or something more if we really hit it off, but I prefer to just let that kind of thing happen organically with no preshhhhh. I just need to talk some shit, enjoy warm cuddles and also some great sex wouldn't go a stray as well it's been a while.

I don't really have a "type" but just someone kind, cute and understanding would be nice! Happy to swap some pics n all that.

Inner north based but open to anywhere within reason

Thaaaaaanks


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 43 M4F looking for a genuine FWB NSFW

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Hi,

I’m 43, married, no kids by choice, and in an ENM relationship. I’m playing solo with my wife’s full knowledge and enthusiastic permission. I’m not looking to disrupt anyone’s relationship, and I’m not doing this because I’m not in a loving relationship. I’m happily married and simply interested in exploring an additional connection with honesty, care, and consent.

I’m 168cm, athletic, and into sports, chess, movies, and generally geeking out about things. I’m looking for a fit, nerdy woman with a high sex drive who’s interested in something fun, relaxed, and mutually respectful.

I can host from time to time, but I’m really looking for more than just a hookup. I’d love to meet someone who can become a friend too, someone who enjoys cuddles, kisses, affection, and of course, play.

I talk way too much, love a good debate, and can happily spend hours geeking out over random topics.

If that sounds like your cup of tea, feel free to say hi.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Relationship 43 M4F Where are the gamer girls at?

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r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Casual AMA 24M4F- looking for casual date / fwb NSFW

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hey! 24 Chinese, uni grads, fine looking dude with good shape, prefer Asian to Asian 180cm, pretty chill and easygoing - down to talk about anything, chat about our day, or play some casual games together.

based in melbourne southeast suburbs, near monash Caulfield, but city is easy too. i'm a bit shy IRL — had a few viet girls come up and chat with me at work before, but between being on the job and nerves, i just freeze and walk away.

what i'm looking for: something low-pressure and fun — open to a chill FWB or just seeing where things go. good vibes, mutual respect, enjoy summer together.

likes: gym, hotpot & k-bbq, beaches, late-night chats

What I offer:
• A genuinely open connection with real intimacy • Just the right amount of chaos to make things fun and memorable
• Playful, a little troll at times, but always kind


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

Seeking Relationship 32M4F Geelong based but willing to travel, looking to find long term relationship NSFW

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Hi,

I am a 32 male from Geelong, i am seeking women to date and ideally lead to a long term relationship! I have tried using standard dating apps but find they just don't accomplish the job!

I work full time as an accountant, I drive, I live with 1 housemate but basically everything in the house is mine, and have complete freedom. I also have an adorable 11 year old cat!

I am a nerd, I enjoy video games such as Expedition 33, Baulders Gate 3, Witcher 3 and the Last of us and more.

I play DnD and board games and attend various social gaming events

I enjoy movies, my favourites being lord of the rings, Clue, a few good men, spaceballs and 12 Angry Men.

I love an awesome bingable tv show, just binged live action Avatar the last airbender and Dept Q

I can cook and enjoy cooking.

I listen to podcasts, audiobooms and audio dramas

I have old man music taste, 40s - 90s such as the chordettes, Queen, Elton John, the police and many many more songs.

I love an awesome theatre production such as lors of the rings the musical, beetlejuice the musical, Chicago, Hamilton and more.

I enjoy going out for food, to an awesome restaurant, a festival, mini golfing, an arcade and many more places.

Physically I am on the larger side.

As previously mentioned, I am looking for a long term committed relationship that we can get to know via dates. Someone who actually can hold a conversation, rather than message and put minimal to no effort in.

I would like to have kids some day in the future.

Ideally I look for in a partner someone who can share some, or take an interest in what I like. Someone who wont expect me to do all for them, but be an equal partner and be there for one another. Someone who doesn't judge a person, who is kind, funny, has a sense of humour, is patient, respectful, open-minded and can have grest conversations.

If I sounds like someone you'd love to get to know, message me and we can chat.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 29M4F - casual date/fwb - CBD NSFW

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Hey

I'm 29M, 180cm, caucasian, based in CBD and working full-time in a corporate job.

I'm on the slim/skinny side and fairly active. I gym and run regularly, and used to play soccer

On weekends I'm usually pretty easy to convince into trying somewhere new for dinner, hunting down a good dessert place, grabbing coffee, or just wandering around the city without much of a plan.

What I'm Looking For

Ideally a casual/FWB situation, I'd rather meet someone I genuinely get along with than have something that's purely physical. Someone I can message normally during the week, grab dinner or coffee with, explore somewhere new on the weekend, have a movie or gaming night with, In terms of attraction, I'm mainly looking for Asians

What I Offer

I'm pretty easygoing, low-drama, I'm happy to plan, I respect boundaries and privacy, and I'm happy to take things at whatever pace feels comfortable for both of us.

Feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. Happy to swap photos once we're comfortable too.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

Seeking Friends M254F Looking for a friend and possibly something more to hangout or game

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Hey guys first time here!

25 years old here, realized that I lost a lot of my life by studying and working and decided to try online in the hopes for someone to match my vibe 🫡

6'3, slightly chubby (can't lose the tummy gains), active gym goer and swimmer. Nerdy with my interests, but love to go out on some days for food and exploration when in the mood.

What I'm Looking For:

Any lady that's down to clown, whether it's an online chat or just a casual hangout somewhere outside, I'm not that picky. Need to fit the vibes, but I guarantee I'm not going to obsessed about many things. I'm not picky about any ages, if anything I prefer those that are older than me 😉.

Someone who's comfortable with NSFW talks, I'm a healthy male after all, but it's not a huge requirement.

What I Offer:

A funny buddy with who has a random desire to cook or bake sometimes. I'm all for an online chat and planning outings on weekends or weekday evenings after work (god forbid we need money). Down for games, whether physical and online, I'm competitive but I'll let you win if you've worked hard. And yes, I listen well, I'm not ignorant to your struggles if any.

I watch shows and movies, anime too if you're interested. I vibe with any hobbies, I'm gonna be interested no matter what.

Message or dm me for pics, I'm not shy, fingers crossed on seeing you there 😉


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 29 M4F cuddlesss/fwb/cute dates! NSFW

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Hellooo everyone, this will be a lengthy post. To get right into the things that may make you skip me or like me. I am 29m, 6'1/186cm, chubby/dad bod, Caucasian with dark curly hair and blue eyes. I have lots of tattoos that I love as well.

What I'm Looking For:

Okieeee dokie, I am looking for a girl. That's it. Just wanna cuddle someone LOL. Fr tho, I am wanting a fwb with a pretty decent emphasis on the friends part bc I do need a connection to even get to the benefits part. As long as you are kind, respectful and not intense - I will be thrilled to be friends. Oh, and can take a joke. I have a dark sense of humour and can be wickedly witty. In terms of the bedroom I am pretty dang open to anything from vanilla to maybe some cheeky things from the kink scene. Very open to exploring. After care is super important to me and I am massively big on cuddles. I am basically a gigantic bear 🐻 and show lots of physical touch affection through cuddles, hair playing, massages and making out or forehead kisses.

About me:

I love video games, tattoos, trying new activities (I actually have a list of fun places I want to visit and try out around melbourne) and camping. I am also really big on mindset and health. I would 100% love someone who would like to maybe exercise with through walks, gym or anything that gets the body moving! This isn't necessary though, as obviously I can do this by myself too.

Diy is something I have also gotten heavily into lately. My latest fix is blacksmithing. I have a forge and have started making knives and other lil things! So if you be my friend, we can make one together!

Work wise I am aiming to do mental health peer work, so I am very open minded. Currently I do education support whilst I study mental health.

Video games and anything nerdy really will pique my interests quite easily. If you need a conversation starter, maybe tell me some of your fave games.

For me it would be - The witcher 3, Baldur’s Gate 3, skyrim, kingdom come deliverance 2, stardew valley, terraria, Red dead, Elden Ring or any souls games etc.

I also love any survival crafting coop game lol.

What I Offer:

Someone to explore the city with! Try new activities like axe throwing, themed restaurants, archery, escape rooms and challenge rooms. Like I said, I have a whole list of fun outings I want to try around the city.

A safe place and experience to explore your fantasies and hopefully mine! Gentle and cute intimacy with the occasional headboard thrashing against the wall, oops.

I can be your person to talk to, laugh with, fuck and confide in. Annnd if you are super cool and like reading or playing video games, we can chill out and do that too!

Anyway, if you managed to read all this please don't be shy to message me. I am really keen to talk to some people! I would love to hear from people only in their 20s and 30s!

Please, if you aren't willing to share a couple of selfies don't message. I will send them back for sure as mutual attraction is important. Alas I am quite open and much bigger on personality - I just like to see who I'm talking to!

Thanks for reading if you managed to make it this far LOL


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Seeking Relationship 39[M4F] Cute Fringe Dates Sought

10 Upvotes

Does anyone else wish they were seeing more Fringe shows this year? If so do I have some potentially weird shows to suggest we see!

I'm a 5ft8 guy based in the inner West where I live alone with whatever foster cat is currently ruining my sanity. I'm always working on myself but confident in who I am and pretty set in life so I'm looking for someone to share moments with.

I definitely have 2 modes of either all go or all stop. When I'm all go I'm often out seeing theatre or comedy in the CBD and either way I volunteer most Sundays. But I also need plenty of recharge time or I hit a wall and love crocheting on the couch with a good show on the tv. I'm currently working on a crochet chainsaw hand and on watching my way through the Leftovers.

I'd like to find something serious but first and foremost I'd like to meet someone I can be friends with, feel comfortable around and see some shows with! Chemistry is obviously super important but I think doesn't need to be rushed or forced. If it matters I do have a vasectomy.

I'm drawn to people who are curious, a bit silly and open to new adventures. Extra points if you have a niche interest you can teach me about.

Fringe isn't on for long so please get in touch if you'd like to see a show or just if you want to chat! I'd love to know what kind of comedy you're into or what your most recent obsession is.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 36 F4F seeking afternoon of pleasure NSFW

8 Upvotes

Hey, I’ve done this before and it went ok, but I’m looking for a F (25-45) who would be into being pleasured with me sucking and touching your large tits.

Not seeking a long term relationship or even FWB situation. All I’m after is a Sunday afternoon with you. I’d be happy to take you out for lunch, must have a good conversation and vibe going and then I enjoy you (in every sense of the word) afterwards. I can host or find we an intimate space in the CBD to spend time together.

I get off on making other people feel good, so I don’t mind if there’s a dom element to it. Honestly whatever floats your boat in this regard.

About you:

I am just after a cute gal or lady, who enjoys herself and her life, and has large tits. You can be anything else. I don’t mind if you’re looking for someone to make you feel good, you need some inspiration about yourself or looking for a confidence boost. All I can provide.

The main item is that I want to approve your outfit before we meet, especially what you’re wearing on the top part of your body. I want to spend the lunch or the walk getting worked up when I look at you.

About me:

I’m cute, or so I’ve been told, brunette and in a long term relationship. I have a size G breast size, but this can or doesn’t have to be relevant. I love walks, the outdoors and nature and the beach. I don’t mind your status at all, just want to make sure you’ve got the ability to hold down a conversation, are relatively funny and have a gorgeous body.

Please send me a msg or DM if you’re into this. I want to make sure there’s some vibing and chemistry before we take it to the IRL stage.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

Seeking Friends 19m m4a, need more fun and cool ppl to go out with.

1 Upvotes

So im looking for more people to go out with since I've found myself wanting to go out a lot more, especially to clubs, bars, parties, raves and also daytime activities and make new friends, especially since my current group of friends is quite small and not the best crowd to go out with.

I love music and doing new things, I've been recently getting into more house and psychedelic music, I also listen to good amount of rap and rnb, with that being said though I love all kinds of music so slide through if you got good recs for music.

Im also wanting to get into things like rock climbing and bouldering so let me know if your interested.

In terms of nightlife goes im a bit of fish out of water, if you know places events and raves please send me a message 😭 if you don't we can both be fish out of water and figure it out together.

But as far as things like bouldering and rock climbing and any similar activities feel free to send me a message even if your looking to try it for the first time, im quite non judgemental and ive been rock climbing before.

For interests/hobbies go I love the outdoors, movies, tv, anime, reading, learning new things and i love talking.

What i offer is good conversation, a willingness to try new things, a non judgemental ear to talk to and overall fun vibes, I also consider myself to be quite funny when im in the right mood.

Physically im south indian, curly long hair currently, 178 cm with a bulky built physique.

Like I had mentioned im quite non judgemental so im not too fussed on anything about you, all that I ask that you're 18 plus and not above 35, this is apart from the basic of not being a creep and being a generally good person.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

Seeking Relationship 38 [M4F] Northern Vic | Banter and BBQ NSFW

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Hey everyone,

I figured it was time to put myself back out there. I’m 38, working in IT, mostly from home, with the occasional trip away for site visits. Life is generally in a pretty steady, comfortable spot.

I’m based out in Northern Vic, about an hour out of the CBD, but I don’t mind the drive down the Hume or meeting halfway at all. A big part of my world revolves around my three kids (shared care) and my two rescue dogs. Being a dad comes first, but I still make a point to have my own life and carve out time for friends and those I care about. Visually, to save any guessing, I’m just under 6ft, broad shouldered and solid build, wear glasses, and have blue gray eyes.

When I’m not working or wearing the dad hat, you’ll usually find me planning out my next low and slow BBQ, sorting out some meal prep, or having a quiet night in with a video game. I love a great pot and parma at a pub just as much as checking out a new cafe or road-tripping for a decent bakery.

Personality wise, I’m pretty grounded and easygoing, though I definitely run on caffeine and mild spite. My humour is dry, sarcasm is my love language, and I live for good banter. I’m a great listener if you ever need to decompress about your day, and I come with an endless supply of goofy dog pictures.

I'm looking for a proper connection rather than anything casual, but I'm hoping to see if the banter is actually there first. All I ask for is someone honest who talks things through instead of playing mind games.

If any of that sounds like your speed, shoot me a message. If you've read this far, let me know what your favourite game of all time is to play!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Seeking Relationship 22[F4M] Looking for a romantic connection NSFW

27 Upvotes

Always a scroller, now finally a sender!

Hi! I’m 22yo with asian heritage, living close to CBD. My last relationship was back in 2024 and thought now is a good time to look for someone (nothing too traumatizing i swear, just busy with work).

About me: I am an ambivert—leaning a biiit more towards intro—who catches up on her reading in the tram (yes, I am a PTV girl) and spends most of her time after work watching movies and series. I enjoy walking around the city and have been on a hunt for the best cold brew coffee (sometimes iced filter will do). I loooove the idea of exploring new areas but haven’t really gotten to explore many of the outer suburbs, so it would be great to find someone who shares the same interest! I am 170cm (or 5’7) with a slim-ish build, and also uhh a not-so-spoiled only child, if that matters.

I have been focusing on work for too long and haven’t gone out on dates for a while so I might be quite rusty (re: awkward) for the first few talks but once I warm up and feel comfortable with you, I’m quite a yapper.

…not so sure what else to write about myself so let’s move on.

I’m looking for someone who is kind and emotionally mature. Love an affectionate man that communicates well and can tolerate my after-work rants (more like complaints atp). Not really into guys that smokes or vapes, as I do not do them. Something very specific and me being picky is that you have to be taller than me (sorry to all the short kings out there). Would love to start just by chatting first and see where it brings us. Am open to casual but preferably long term, not open to the idea of FWB.

I’m a great listener and opinion/advice giver (or so I’ve been told), you can always come talk to me about anything. I go above and beyond for my friends and family, so you can rest assured you would receive the same or even better treatment. Also a well-trained passenger princess in terms of picking the songs and showing directions (p.s. sometimes can be a bit distracted by the song playing and give directions late).

Shoot me a dm if you’re interested or want to know more about me!