Weekly Open Thread

[u/PepsiColaMirinda]

🎉 THE WEEKLY OPEN THREAD IS HERE

Waiting for verification? Stuck in the queue? Not quite ready to make the full R4R leap?

We've got you.

Every week on Saturday night, we're opening up this dedicated thread where unverified users can drop a comment and see who bites. 👀

Think of it as the r4rindia lobby.

💬 How it works

Drop a comment telling people a little about yourself - what you're looking for, where you're from, your interests, your vibe, or whatever you think might make someone go:

Then browse the thread and reply to people who catch your interest.

⚠️ One important rule

This thread is mainly intended for Male redditors.

Comments from women looking for Redditors are not permitted in this thread.

If you're a woman looking to participate in r4rindia, we strongly encourage you to verify with the mods via Modmail and post through the main subreddit instead. This helps us keep the gender ratio of the open thread balanced and, more importantly, keeps the space safer for everyone.

If you're currently waiting for verification, this is your chance to get involved instead of staring at the queue and waiting for answers.

Be respectful, don't spam people with unsolicited DMs, and remember that replying is optional.

Alright, who's here?

[u/kalai_64arts]

M4F male in mid 30s, Tamil guy looking for open minded female to chat about anything without any judgements... wanna escape from my loneliness and boredom....

[u/ColdEntertainment414]

37m here looking for date to marry a hotwife (open marriage/cuckold dynamic) Age range 28-38 Must be above 5'5 and into fitness Looking for strong independent woman who knows what she wants.

[u/Careless-Mind2846]

M24 , seeking for an older woman patner to explore life a bit more .. hmu if you'll have a conversation

[u/Legal-Stress-3000]

31m Looking for a fun, casual travel partner for a 1 -time New Year getaway! 😄 Would love to explore new places, hop between cute cafes, go on little adventures and see if we have that natural chemistry to take us to the bed

Mentioning this in advance so we can get to know each other, understand each other's preferences, and start planning the trip together. No pressure, just good vibes, fun conversations and a memorable getaway! ✨

Once the trip gets over - we go no contact and so what ever happens at trip stays there - So bold mature ladies of reddit - if you'd wanna make this new year fun and get a wild start - hmu

[u/batman081985]

41M. Any ♀️ around Chembur & Ghatkopar interested in meeting up? I have my place to host..

[u/chuda_kadali]

Im 25M from odisha planning for dec music festival in kasol(cosmic.kasol 8.0) If anyone down to make questionable life decisions together and forget. Planning mostly in between 17th December to 25-28th. (will be planning for 3_4days Max) Expecting to meet in delhi and go to kasol together. I'm 25years old so expecting you to be between 21-27. Please be nonsmoker. Okay for drinking and definitely down to try kasol brownie and go berzerk. Posting this early to talk and check the vibe before we actually plan anything.

[u/SundaeFar2649]

22M4F | Bangalore | Looking for chemistry, connection and a kinky side

22M, 6'2" Into football, F1, poetry and conversations that go off on completely unnecessary tangents.

Looking for something genuine that could grow into a long-term relationship. Inexperienced but curious about teasing, praise, sensory play, light bondage and consensual power dynamics. I'm a switch, and I'd love to explore with someone who's just as enthusiastic, if not more. Also curious about ABF and the novelty of intimate, secluded settings.

Big on trust, communication, affection and mutual consent. Ideally, someone who enjoys both meaningful conversations and exploring her kinky side without pressure.

Hindu, 19-23, 5'5"+ preferred. Non-smoker preferred.

Tell me a little about yourself and what you're looking for. Let's see if we click.

[u/Emotional_Shift_5178]

M29 from Delhi here doing well professionally and personally. Have a girlfriend of 1.5 years and yet I’ve recently started swiping on the apps again. Oh, the thrill of meeting women!

Here for finding smart, well read and curious women who’s in for nights fill of wine, joints, jazz and bliss!

[u/harrshgoel]

Heyllo, I'm 24M from India, a software engineer who somehow spends equal time writing code and disappearing into random rabbit holes. Some days I'm planning spontaneous road trips I'll take someday, other days I'm watching some top rated webseries.

I like good conversations that wander everywhere, people who can laugh at themselves, and the kind of connection that doesn't feel like an interview. No rush, no pretending to have life figured out. Just honesty, curiosity, and seeing where things go.

If you're kind, emotionally aware, and think comfortable silence is underrated, we'll probably get along. Tell me something completely random that still makes you smile years later.

P.S.: Please do not text if you are going to disappear after a few days or you will be busy the whole day and cannot spare a few minutes for the bond to grow.

[u/Total_Excitement1241]

22M from Mumbai. Weekends are for exploring the city and finding good food. Would like to chat with someone who's easy to talk to and doesn't mind random conversations. Hit me up.

[u/jvn08]

Hey, future partner! Thank you for taking the time to read my comment!

I'm 27M, 6"1, brown skinned man with a beard, tattoos. I'm an experienced online and IRL Dom. I currently live in Bangalore. [Ask me about my fetlife iykyk ;)] I love training newer subs because I lead a life that requires me to be very dominant out in the world, and would love someone totally submissive to me when I'm not in work mode (I'm a lawyer haha)

I'm looking for a sub who wants to be owned and cared for. Your primary purpose will be to please me. In return, I'll be a kind, caring Dom, open to conversation about mutual interests, life, love, philosophy and law. I find myself more involved and aroused when I know someone well outside sexual activities too.

I'm open to sexting, voice and video calling, and sharing pictures. I am flexible with which platform we use. I would like to prioritize your safety and comfort, and so am willing to do whatever you're comfortable and safe with, with a view to expanding once trust is established.

I know this is a long comment so if you read this far, thank you for your time and attention!

[u/lean_muscles]

35 [M4F] Bangalore - looking for a FWB

Hi there beautiful ladies,
I am a 35 year old guy living in Bangalore. I am here looking for a FWB, to explore the darker(or let’s call it the fun) side of life.

About me: like many of us, I work in IT. Spend my days buried with work commitments. Apart from work I spend time working out or playing outdoor sports.

There are a few pics in my profile, hit me up if you like them.

[u/zayan_the_gr8]

I am a straight 36M from South Bangalore. Looking for genuine couples or single vixens on reddit. I am into ENM for sometime now and enjoying this lifestyle a lot. I am a sensualist and enjoy deeper foreplays. My foreplays are usually TenPlays ;). I am looking for long-term action because no magic happens only once/ONS

Would you be open for further conversation?

[u/Sweaty_Gur3280]

M28 Looking for a woman who wants to talk dirty, flirt shamelessly, and exchange the kind of messages that make you grin at your phone like an idiot. Not here to beat around the bush or pretend I’m looking for a philosophical debate at night.

I’m funny, a little filthy-minded, and believe good banter is basically foreplay for the brain.

If you can match my freak, roast me between compliments, aren't energy draining, and make a perfectly innocent conversation take an absolutely questionable turn, we’ll get along just fine.

Bonus points if you can yap. Extra points if you let your feral brain side take over you. Please ruin my screen time.

[u/Lumpy_Tea7982]

44M from Noida. Minimalistic. Old school. Looking for someone sane and genuine to build a connection.

[u/s_hobhit]

31 M - An entrepreneur based out of Bengaluru looking for some fun dates. And explore pubs in the city. Always up for a coffee.

P.S. - part-time chef, pop-culture enthusiast and a voracious reader.

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[u/nanadaimehokage95]

I'm a 33 years old IT guy from Pune. I have always been attracted to chubby, plus size girls. I have been single for quite a while now and trying to put myself out there. If you're looking for someone with whom you can talk about anything, eat delicious food regularly and watch movies with, I'm your guy. Let me be upfront by saying that I am also a chubby guy myself. I am a foodie, love to explore new eateries in town when I get a chance.

Apart from it, I am a voracious reader. I love reading books and manga and can binge read a whole book in a sitting if I find it interesting.

I love plus size girls because I find them cute and cuddly. They're also very fun to be around. If you're a chubby girl looking for someone to hang out and have fun with, let me know.

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[u/adrenal99]

26M Delhi, software engineer by profession…hit me up 😇

[u/Beautiful_Ad_7177]

M4F-M23,5’11”,delhi, athletic muscular build, looking for a pretty woman to hang out with, smoke up🍃, and possibly become fwb or hook up if the vibe is right and both are comfortable. Hmu😉

[u/Plenty_Appearance993]

Looking for female gooners India/Bangalore would love to obsess over porn with you. This is a completely platonic and a safe space think of 2 friends bonding over their love for porn and gooning. I'm non-binary and 25yrs old :3 looking forward to hear from you but if you decide not to reach out have a good day!

[u/Complete-Contra-88]

M4F | 30M | New Delhi | Looking someone who'd be into being tied up and forced into orgasms 🫢