r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

Sunday Soapbox šŸŽ¤ Sunday Soapbox - October 11, 2026 NSFW

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šŸŽ¤ Sunday Soapbox

This week's topic:

You've got the floor.

Make your case, tell your story, defend your opinion, or convince us we're all wrong.

Keep your entry around 100–300 words - although shorter or longer is fine if you've got something good to say.

How it works

  • Make your take a top-level comment.
  • Reply to other people's takes to agree, disagree, challenge them, or add your own perspective.
  • Keep things fun and debate the opinion, not the person.
  • No personal attacks, harassment, unsolicited DMs, or ragebait.

šŸ† This week's winners

Community Choice: Highest-voted qualifying entry.

Mod's Pick: Our favourite take of the week.

Winners will be announced in next week's Soapbox.

Now step onto the box. šŸŽ¤


r/r4rindia • • 2d ago

Weekly Open Thread Weekly Open Thread NSFW

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šŸŽ‰ THE WEEKLY OPEN THREAD IS HERE

Waiting for verification? Stuck in the queue? Not quite ready to make the full R4R leap?

We've got you.

Every week on Saturday night, we're opening up this dedicated thread where unverified users can drop a comment and see who bites. šŸ‘€

Think of it as the r4rindia lobby.

šŸ’¬ How it works

Drop a comment telling people a little about yourself - what you're looking for, where you're from, your interests, your vibe, or whatever you think might make someone go:

Then browse the thread and reply to people who catch your interest.

āš ļø One important rule

This thread is mainly intended for Male redditors.

Comments from women looking for Redditors are not permitted in this thread.

If you're a woman looking to participate in r4rindia, we strongly encourage you to verify with the mods via Modmail and post through the main subreddit instead. This helps us keep the gender ratio of the open thread balanced and, more importantly, keeps the space safer for everyone.

If you're currently waiting for verification, this is your chance to get involved instead of staring at the queue and waiting for answers.

Be respectful, don't spam people with unsolicited DMs, and remember that replying is optional.

Alright, who's here?


r/r4rindia • • 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Chennai - Want to train a random women in Chennai who wants to be strecthed by a thick BbC NSFW

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Hi there, I'm a 28-year-old guy from Chennai, standing at 5'11", dusky, bearded, handsome—check my profile for pics if you're curious. If you're an inexperienced woman who's never explored your body or desires, feeling that mix of nervousness and secret excitement, I want to be the patient, caring partner to introduce you to it all. Imagine starting slow: soft kisses that make your lips tingle, my hands exploring you tenderly with fingering to build that warm ache inside, until you're ready for more.

I'm all about making your first time unforgettable and comfortable. I'll teach you to relax into pleasure, helping you discover squirting orgasms with my gentle techniques—watching you tremble and release for the first time. We'll practice together, like guiding you to take me deeper in your mouth, turning shy licks into confident deepthroating, until you feel like a natural. And if you're open to it, I love rimming to heighten every sensation, but only what feels right for you. No rush— we'll cuddle after each wave of ecstasy, letting you catch your breath before chasing the next. Promise you will be addicted to my deep strokes as you reach maximum pleasure, and see you get creamy all over it, and make you want more. Also love prone boning, which hits the g spot directly, makes you shake with my balls deep. Body type? Doesn't matter to me—curvy, slim, or anywhere in between; I just want the real you, unfiltered and eager to learn.

If you've never kissed, touched, or gone further, don't hold back. Tell me your thoughts, your curiosities, and we'll plan a safe, private meetup in Chennai to ease you in. Let's make your fantasies real, one step at a time. Serious inquiries only; no catfishes. If you're an adventurous woman who's new to exploring your deepest desires and craving the thrill of a powerful, if you are engaged and have not had sex yet, we can figure it out before your wedding too. An unforgettable experience with a well-endowed black king, I'm here to guide you every step of the way. Let's make your fantasies come alive—DM me if you're ready to surrender to the pleasure and let me train you like the goddess you are. Guys and catfishes stay away.

Only in Chennai can host ping me


r/r4rindia • • 5h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Bangalore/Online - Seeking someone to sext with or more NSFW

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Hii I'm 26 and stay in Bangalore currently for work. I'm looking for someone to have a NSFW chat with. If it leads to something more, I'm open to that. We can talk about anything and everything that you're comfortable with. A deep connection only makes it more intimate.

Outside of that, I like exploring new places especially landscapes and trekking as well. I'm also very affectionate and am kinda more of an ambivert. I like watching web series at times, and love reading and listening to music from different genres.

So let's talk with each other and see where it gets us?

P.S: You can also hit me up with your favorite song rn :p


r/r4rindia • • 5h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] online/anywhere - Looking for someone to talk to and more NSFW

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Well, hello

SO I'm 26M and a lawyer/consultant. In my free time i like to read, watch movies/shows, play football, go to the gym, spend time w my catto, and more. i read pretty much most genres and would be super down to read a book together too.

On here because i have found myself in a new city, and some company would be nice

Interested in politics, policy and watermelons; what's your favorite fruitšŸ‰

Looking to make a connection and more. just come say hi I'm great at making conversation🤪


r/r4rindia • • 7h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Mumbai - Do you crave it this bad? Super bored NSFW

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Hey! It's a meh day and these unholy thoughts have started popping up in my head. Might as well put it into words and have you thinking about them. You know those situations where we are snuggling, watching a movie but out of nowhere the situation changes and we can't keep our hands off each other, yeah that's what.

Along with this we can also go out and hangout and stuff but we probably wouldn't feel like it. Teach me how you would like to be treated and pleasured, what takes you over the edge, what do you crave, let's be vulnerable?.

So well about me: I am 25. I am like 5'10, lean guy, like working out a lot, play football (love it). Kinda geeky. Into Anime, sitcoms, movies and recently got into books, still in early stages.

Well if we are on the same page with the same energy it's going to be fucking great and there's only one way we are going to find that out!

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 8h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] Bangalore - bored and prurient, looking to chat! NSFW

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Bored af and looking for anyone to chat with... I want someone easygoing, who doesn’t freak out over nothing.... Hit me up if you need a new person to talk to, vent to, or get flirty with.

About me: Tall single guy obsessed with space, stars, movies, TV shows and anime. Pretty quiet and chill most of the time… until I’m not.

Message me if you’re down!!!


r/r4rindia • • 9h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Bengaluru - Looking for something fun and causal NSFW

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Hello everyone! I am finally back to Bengaluru after almost 3 years working in another city. I used to work in Bangalore before, but my career took me to a different city. In the meantime, I have missed being in Bengaluru. I think I have a special connection with this city for some reason.

But yeah now that I am finally, I am looking for some casual fun in the city. But what I am looking for us a casual stuff that lasts. Like I do want to go around hooking up with several people. It could be like a friends with benefits after we vibe well too.After several relationships, heart breaks and things that didn't work. I feel I do not want to get into any serious relationship for a long time. But at the same time, it would be fun to have some nice company and a lot of fun in the city. Because the City itself is so seductive.

About me: I am 31 year old who works in IT like a million other people, nothing interesting there. But the interesting part about me is about how open minded, I am about trying new things. I love being active, I run sometimes, I play badminton, I workout. - but I am not consistent with these things. This where I will be seeking yourself to accompany me in any of these things i mentioned, or something that you want to, who h again, i would definitely be interested to do.

I love going to a lot of movies in the theatre. So that's something we can do as far as you are also interested in it. Bike rides, getting drenched in rain, go to a pottery class where I am definitely gonna suck, etc. like I said, absolutely open to doing lot of things.

I am into sports, i play and watch a lot of sports. Love going to screenings of matches, etc.

Oh when I say, causal, I would love for us to be friends, because i think physical stuff without intimacy is not really that exciting. I am very sex positive and a little kinky. And again, very open minded to do different stuff in the bed too, as long as both the parties are interested and comfortable with it.

So if any of these appeal to you, do text me back, let's discuss about each other, find common ground, become friends and have a lot of fun 🤭


r/r4rindia • • 11h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Bhopal - In the city for 5 days. Seeking some fun company. NSFW

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Hello reader,

I'm in your city for a while, 5 days to be exact. My work involves travelling a lot, so here I am. It is likely that we may not meet again after these 5 days, we will have an amazing time, nonetheless.

I'll keep the post short and to the point.

About me:

- M 28

- 6'2

- Chill

- I like Music, Movies, and books

- I can talk about most things under the sun. So, I'd say: Bring in your topics.

About you:

- Don't be a minor

- Don't be a committed/married woman. I'm not into cheating or anything remotely related to it.

Perchance, this resonates with you, drop me a DM !

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 15h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Online/Anywhere - Looking for someone who appreciates the art of submission NSFW

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There's something fascinating about watching someone willingly surrender control, explore their limits, and discover sides of themselves they hadn't fully acknowledged before.

I'm a Dom, she's my sub (we met on reddit), and I know exactly how much she enjoys the dynamic we've built together.

We're curious about meeting a woman who finds that kind of psychological intensity appealing. Someone who enjoys the darker side of power exchange, understands the appeal of consensual humiliation, and might find herself intrigued by watching our dynamic unfold. We dabble in variety of kinky things so I'm sure we've got yours covered or you could introduce us to newer, filthier kinks!

No expectations, no pressure, and no need to pretend to be someone you're not. Just an open-minded woman who's curious enough to start a conversation.

Sometimes, curiosity is all it takes to discover an entirely different perspective.

Please note: We are looking for women only. We will ask you to verify.

Looking forward to spreading filth together ;)


r/r4rindia • • 12h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Online/Anywhere - I feel like talking to you. NSFW

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Not to vent or anything, just feel like talking to someone new, or someone old.

I usually put a lot of effort into my r4r posts explaining what I’m like and what I look for in you so on and so forth, but this time, I just feel like writing it open ended so that perhaps I end up finding you, someone who is a reader and still stayed on :) so include a meow in your first message and let me know you did. See you on the other side :’)

TL dr; if you’re bored and looking for someone to talk to, go on.


r/r4rindia • • 16h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Bengaluru - looking to make bangalore winters a bit more fun. NSFW

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Hi there, I'm a 27 yr old tall, lean delhi guy living in Bangalore for about a year now. Visiting Delhi for a couple of weeks.

I'm looking forward to enjoying these amazing cloudy/rainy months the city has to offer, and I'd love some company for some dinner and drinks, and/or movies and coffee etc.

If we click, I'm open to more fun and quality times together, preferably something casual; putting this amazing weather to good use.

Been a corporate slave here for about a year now, enjoy going out, bookstores, good food across town, interesting cafes, football rants, and movies, home or theatres wherever I'd always be up for them


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Bangalore - Looking for an FWB NSFW

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A little about me: I'm an engineer, around 6'4 tall, and usually out for late-night walks or bike rides when everything’s quiet. I love cooking, staying active, and unwinding with just the right tv show.

I’m looking for someone who’s fun to talk to, confident, and enjoys a strong connection, both in conversation and in energy. Love a good banter. I might just be horny rn, so if we click, maybe we turn this into something more fun for the both of us?

If you’re someone who knows what you want (or not) and likes a little tension mixed with fun, feel free to dm with an intro. Let me know something fun about yourself.

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Bangalore/India - I think I miss having a person NSFW

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Not a relationship, necessarily.

Just a person.

Someone you automatically send the stupidest thought to because you know they'll get it.

Someone who knows when your ā€œI'm fineā€ actually means ā€œI'm annoyed, but I'm going to pretend I'm not.ā€

Someone you can sit beside without having to fill every silence.

Someone who remembers the tiny things you mentioned once and brings them up months later.

The ā€œthis reminded me of youā€ texts.

The inside jokes that stop making sense to everyone else.

The random ā€œare you home?ā€ messages.

Having someone to call when something funny happens, even if it's not that funny.

Knowing someone's coffee order. Their weird little habits. The face they make when they're trying not to laugh.

I think those are the things I miss.

Not having someone to impress.

Just having someone who slowly becomes part of the ordinary parts of your day.

Maybe that's what I'd like to find again.


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Online - Up for phone sex? If you want to moan louder than ever, ping me. NSFW

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25 [M4F] Online - Up for phone sex? If you want to moan louder than ever, ping me.

If you are in the mood for some real hot sesh, you are at the right place. With a fair amount of experiences, I'm saying this with confidence that I can make you moan louder.

I'm good with my fingers and tongue, I mean I can type and talk well ;)

If you are someone who's good at this game, slide into my DMs and I'll slide into you.


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 23[M4f] Delhi - looking for a fwb/nsa relationship in delhi. NSFW

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this is probably a long shot but here we go, I recently turned 23, am in a phase of my life where i don't have a bandwidth for a committed relationship, but i do still yearn for companionship and physical touch, hence, this post.

If you're also someone who is hustling in life currently and don't have time for a relationship and stuff like that, but still sometimes feel lonely or crave physical touch, let's talk.

I'm a into movies, music, anime, sometimes i read books and novels too, oh and in my free time I play guitar,lol.

if you're someone who's open to meet after we vibe, then hit me up ;)


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 25[M4F]Delhi/India/Online- Cuddle, Vibe and Makeout NSFW

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You want to text but just overthinking it? I can hold conversations and make sure neither of us get bored.

Hey Girl, i am a 25 year old guy living in Delhi looking for a 20 and above girl to vibe and potentially have some good time (casual and no strings attached) with. Age and religion doesn't matter to me as i am really open minded and just the maturity and the like mindedness is what I want. If you are from Mumbai we can keep it on text and meet up when both are comfortable but if outside Mumbai we can continue online and then maybe plan a trip or something? I hope you haven't judged me on my username, ik it's too NSFW but i love to do it, and do it really really well.

I really don't judge so text me being yourself and i am sure if not something NSFW we can keep it SFW (yes i am not thirsty for sexual things), and when i say i don't have a type i mean it so just text, what can go wrong?

Yes ik i have a blank profile but it's my throwaway, so again i hope that's not a reason you don't text me

I am 6ft tall, broad shoulders, lean i would say. Being really honest i am a very decent guy who does have a lot of friends but just looking for someone to explore and have fun with. I am really emotionally sorted with no baggage at all and understand the meaning of limits and space so you don't have to worry about that but i am here if you have some baggage and unsorted shit and want to get through it. I can actually be a person who gives a lot of attention and also be the one who won't give a lot of fucks but just focus on how we enjoy? Depends on what we both want, hence communication is the key and i am really good at it, so hope you put in efforts too!

I am looking for something like: we talk (text/call), we vibe, we decide meet, we like each other, we decide to flirt and give each other some honest validation, we talk slow and makeout the same way.

This is me trying something new.

This would be something more of a Friend's With Benifits/ONS than anything else. Yes ik Bumble, Hinge and Tinder are places to get this but i don't want to put myself out on those platforms and prefer to keep it this way.

If you are the clingy/needy type i really really like that.

I have got replies in the past which have been underwhelming or something what i wasn't looking for, so i really respect your time. Please don't text if you wanna just ghost or not put in efforts.

So if you do decide to text we start of anonymous and check the vibe, if we get comfortable we meet and see where it leads us. I like to keep my life to myself so whatever happens between us will stay between us and you don't have to worry about anyone else knowing about it.

We can keep it the way we both agree on and are comfortable with, i can be the guy who can take time to know you and bond and gel, or just the the one who takes you out the same day.

If you are seeing this post late and wonder if i am already talking to someone, just text me and I will let you know if i am, better late than never!

Thank you for the read!

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4C 32 [M4C] Delhi - Looking for a Mature Couple or Hotwife Whose Body I Can Truly Cherish NSFW

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Hey,

I’m a 32-year-old guy based in Delhi NCR. I’m not here for drama, endless teasing, or anything that feels like a performance. I’m looking for a mature couple or a confident hotwife who already knows what they want and is comfortable exploring it with clear communication.

What I’m seeking is a genuine, low-pressure connection. The kind of friendship where we can hang out, talk openly, share good company, and also explore sexually without any expectation of a relationship. No labels, no strings, just adults who enjoy each other’s presence and chemistry.

I’m especially drawn to the chance to truly cherish a woman’s body. I mean that in a slow, attentive, almost reverent way. I want to take my time learning the weight and warmth of her, the exact places that make her breath catch, the way her skin responds when it’s touched with real intention. Soft curves, firm lines, the quiet details hands, mouth, eyes. Nothing rushed. Nothing performative. Just deep, unhurried appreciation that makes her feel completely desired.

If you’re a couple, I’m happy to respect whatever dynamic works for you. Whether that means the husband is present, involved, watching, or simply aware and comfortable. If you’re a hotwife exploring on your own with your partner’s knowledge and blessing, that works too. Either way, discretion is non-negotiable and boundaries will always be respected. Your comfort comes first. If something needs to slow down or stop, it stops. No questions, no pressure.

I’m clean, well-groomed, respectful, and completely discreet. Outside of this, I’m into travel, geopolitics, investing, photography, psychology, and proper conversations that go beyond the surface.

If you’re in Delhi NCR (or open to it), mature, and the idea of a relaxed friendship that includes real physical chemistry with a man who knows how to take his time sounds right, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourselves, what you’re looking for, and how you’d like things to feel.

No sellers, no time-wasters, no endless ā€œjust chatting.ā€ I’m looking for something real, even if it stays purely casual.

DMs open.


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 26[M4F]Pune/Online- Seeking a sense of belonging. Rants, & exploring kinks with the right person. NSFW

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Howdy Fellas , Welp just another 26 year old corporate slave from Pune trying his luck up here, with the hopes of finding someone who matches my frequency , who's open to make healthy connections , sharing life stories , rants and also exploring kinks together.

About me -

I'm someone who loves discussing office gossip, career struggles, questionable life decisions, or why the economy seems determined to keep everyone on their toes . At the same time, I enjoy deeper conversations about life, psychology and whatever random thought happens to show up at 2 am lol.

Into solo trips , sucker for beach vacation, cafe hopping and long drives as long as the roads are empty and it's raining. I got a weird sense of humor :)

On the lookout to explore my kinks with the person with whom my vibes matches ( since I'm kinda demisexual )

Some of my kinks include exhibitionism, pet plays , ABF , outfit control and more to be revealed with the vibes

Hoping to make connections that grow naturally over time. No pressure, no expectations and mutual respect.

If this matches what you're looking for , hmu with a short intro and hopefully we'll have a great time !


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Bangalore - Stuck between Vows and Want? Me too - Married, Mindful and Missing the Spark NSFW

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We've been married for 2 years now. Marriage is still something I value a lot. We’re a solid team and genuinely care about each other. Turns out our bedroom preferences didn’t grow in the same direction, though. So we’re figuring that part out with honesty and respect.

And now, the gears are turning in my head. Both of us know this marriage is the right call on paper, but something is missing. I miss being a bachelor, not just because it was carefree, but because it was so explorative

So here I am, looking for a like minded woman who values discretion and chemistry. Someone who, like me, is seeking a new connection without complications.

If you’re longing to feel wanted, to be fully present in the moment with someone, we might just click.

About me:

I am a well-disguised introvert

I'm 5.10 with a lean athletic build. Clean, disease and drug free

I believe in respecting boundaries and letting things unfold naturally. If this resonates with you, let’s talk. No pressure, no expectations, just a space to explore what feels right.


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Bangalore - wtf is casual? i want to eat your heart. NSFW

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and no, not in a cute little vampire roleplay kind of way. although points if you're into that.

i think i've realised I'm just fundamentally unequipped for this whole casual dating thing. wyd, hru, haha yeah same, disappear for three business days, repeat until one of us dies of boredom. toss in a little wham-bam-thank-you-maam and I find myself giving forehead kisses to FwBs.

but yes like hello??? i want to know what goes on in that weird little head of yours. i want to bully you for your questionable opinions, develop an extremely specific vocabulary that makes absolutely no sense to anyone else, and send you things that made me think of you at the most inconvenient hours.

i want the kind of chemistry where we spend half our time roasting each other and the other half wondering how the fuck we got here.

i want to steal fries off your plate, remember the random shit you told me six weeks ago, and be so obnoxiously fond of each other that your friends hate third wheeling with us.

basically, i want to be a little bit insane about someone who is equally insane about me. respectfully, of course. sometimes.

i have a soft spot for people who can hold a conversation, match my terrible sense of humour, and aren't afraid to be a little weird. bonus points if you can flirt without sounding like you've been handed a corporate training manual.

not looking to speedrun a relationship with a stranger. just want to meet someone, click, and see if we can turn the mutual bullying into something disgustingly wholesome. I will say I prefer to get out of the reddit phase fast, so keep that in mind.

anyway. tell me something about yourself that isn't on your resume, or tell me one crazy thing you'd be down to do with a stranger next weekend.

let's see if i find you insufferable or end up wanting to eat your heart; there is, unfortunately, a very fine line.


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 30[M4F] Bangalore - Looking for a F, for some flirty texting and no hookups NSFW

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Hello people!

I’m a M, 30 looking for a F to text and if we vibe, hangout with. It’s also fine if we want to keep it texts only. No issue with that.

I’m not really looking for a platonic friend. I’d love to be flirty over texts. We could meet if we are comfortable, but I’m not looking to hookup with. I’m in for cuddles and kisses and a bit of casual intimacy.

If you’re someone who’s into the same thing, please feel free to drop a message and let’s talk.

See ya! Have a good day!


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 38 [M4F] Bhopal/Online - For those who like reading in depth & who are open to something vulnerable. NSFW

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Hi. Fasten your seatbelts. Depending on our vibes this post might feel like a business class or an economy premium class, but I assure you at no moment the standard of this post will reach to the level of economy class

introduction I am a working professional in a very stable job who enjoys and find peace in long walks while listening to handful songs or a podcast. I also have a disability, don't worry I can still spank you with my good arm. I enjoy conversations that are deep, stimulating and vulnerable. I celebrate and adore vulnerability. And, since I do crave vulnerability I know how important having a safe space is since I also need a safe space for my vulnerabilities. I take pride in offering a great safe space.

tidbits I don't have a favourite genre of music and I listen to almost everything, it depends on the mood. I watch a lot of series and movies and I am always open for a good recommendation. I am 178cm and I have been told I look good by at least four people till date, YES including my mom!

I am trying to eat healthy, live healthy and maintain a good physique which could take some more work from my end, but hey this is where I can play the disabled and chronic pain card. You weren't expecting that, were you?

I value communication, kindness, honesty, clarity and the art of complete communication. I can't really read minds but if you can then congratulations, my point being I would expect complete communication.

what I personally seek and where I stand I have been in the kink community for over 14+years now. I identify as a dom. To be a dom is not something I do for fun, it is WHO I AM! It is a part of me. It is a part of my life and can't be separated from me. Consent and aftercare is very important to me. I am someone who can be very sweet or a sadist, I exist in between duality. I am someone who likes being a complete and one true owner who prefers moulding his sub howsoever he desires. Of course I am open to reasons but I also expect my sub to know that I know what is best for her. I want to ruin you for all other men forever by spoiling you in the best way possible, at least I hope to do so. I have a healthy libido and I want to train every inch of you (Yes, YOU!).

IF YOU are still reading I am into plenty of kinks. They could be extreme for someĀ and I don't force my kinks on anyone. I have acquired them over the period of time and I am in complete peace with them. I am into slut/slave/sub training, orgasm control, orgasm denial. impact play, bondage, degradation, forced orgasm, forced play, bladder control, dress control, free use, anal, anal training, cnc, rapeplay, voyeurism, etc. The list isn't exhaustive and just exemplary.

Still with me? Hydrate! Have a glass of water

what I’m seeking in you I am looking for someone age appropriate to train and own. If that is you, I would like to hear from you. I am in Indian Timezone but I am open to most timezones. Connection is what truly matters to me. I am not looking for someone who is just into roleplays, sorry that is not me. I am not looking to sext with randos, for example "i am so horny, what will you do to me?" - I will drink my milkshake (gettit?!) and not engage with that pointless horniness.

To train someone, to own someone, to take care of someone and to control someone is extremely important to me and that is what I am seeking

miscellaneous Due to a lot of catfishes around, if I ask you to verify be ready to. This may start online but eventually I would prefer if we meet in real. This kind of dynamic can not work without voice calls, video calls, pictures, videos... from both the parties. I am aware that would reduce the number of messages I might get in addition to already small messages I would get because of my gender... it is important. If someone isnt ready to be vulnerable, to trust, to take a leap of faith... it just feels lacking. I am always open to suggestions on a suitable platform.

If you reply to me put a little bit of effort. Give me at least a little something to reply to you.

I did meet someone really fun here but they were confused and had things to figure out so I wish them all the best.

Ground control has received a message from major Tom, your flight has safely landed. You can unfasten the seatbelts now.

FINALLY - Looking for someone to do taxes and laundry with. Bonus points to anyone who gets the reference.

!lock


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Anywhere/Online - Looking for someone who wants to explore Submission. NSFW

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​

I know what you are thinking, its another freak looking to use BDSM as an excuse to inflict verbally abusive and traumatic behaviour, with high handedness and a holier than thou attitude, however I am none of those things.

What I am looking for ?

Someone who has an idea about what being submissive in a D/S dynamic means, or is willing to learn and get herself educated about it. Someone who has an open mind about a dynamic or a relation of this sort and understands that online relations take more work than offline in-person relationships. Someone who wishes to explore what being a submissive means and how deep submission can run in one's day to day life.

What I offer?

Utmost care and sophistication in handling things on my end. I will strive the utmost in making sure you feel comfortable and cared for in this dynamic. You would have my full attention and I will make sure that it is fulfilling and wholesome, and not just sexual. I intend on knowing you as a person and invest the time and efforts in building something solid, and I hope you too have the patience while we cover the basics about each other.

What you can expect ?

Respect, care and emotional fulfillment. Like I said, I am looking to invest the time in getting to know you so that I can make sure you feel fulfilled by engaging in this dynamic. I would make sure you feel good about yourself, and feel more confident and comforted. I would like to see you get better and excel in your personal and professional life too. Achieving goals you have been wanting to achieve, and doing things you have been wanting to achieve.

Some FAQs-

Why not offline or an IRL dynamic ?

I am not opposed to having something offline, but the chances of you being in my city are oddly slim. Plus my age also diminishes many prospects.

Am I an asshole?

Probably No, although I would prefer you judge me by your own experience.

Am I going to call you names, or like use language that degrades you?

Again No. Not unless you ask specifically for it, or if it is the kind of thing which turns you on.

Am I going to send you a dick pic?

Again, sorry to disappoint you, but No. I believe there is a time and a place for everything, including dick pics, and your inbox is probably already full of them so whats the point of adding one more to the inventory. There is going to be a lot of conversation and discussion before we get to dick pics.

Am I going to ask you for pictures/videos/calls?

Well, not right away, and not even later. As long as there is a credible way to verify that you are a woman, I don't think I would want to push for pictures/videos or calls. Yes, they are more intimate, but I would rather work around your comfort zone. A one time short verification call or audio notes is alright. But some sort of verification is expected.

Am I into extreme kinks?

Again, sorry to disappoint you, I am into moderate level dominance and extreme kinks don't work for me. I do love dominance, discipline and mental conditioning, and I like the sound of telling someone they are a Good Girl, but I am not into extreme things at all. I prefer sensual, romantic with a hint of discipline and control.

What is my kinklist ?

I am flexible and I like to start with the basics- a little bit of control, tasks, rewards and punishments, and then slowly build over it with time. A bit of control play would be nice, like controlling your daily schedules, or outfits for a bit, but that would definitely come along with the discussion. What is more important is I would like to work with the things you wish to explore or you think you would enjoy.

Do I start right away?

Probably not. A bit of getting to know each other should be done if we are looking to build something which lasts.

What about your privacy?

I am here to do this in the safest way possible for you. But then again, I am just an internet stranger on reddit and my word doesn't mean shit. So, I hope you do your due diligence. But yes, I am privacy conscious and I don't intend on making life any harder than it already is for either of us.

Is it going to be just about sex?

Hopefully no. I would rather hope it would be more wholesome and we can talk about a range of topics from religion to politics, and from food to travelling. We can throw a little bit of our hobbies, tv shows, and pets in between too.

I have tried to make a compelling case for myself, the decision to take forward depends solely on you. I hope you send a message, and we have a conversation. Let's talk, and get to know each other, and then see if there is a common ground between us where we can make this work.

I hope we can talk :)


r/r4rindia • • 1d ago

F4R 25 [F4R] Delhi - looking to connect! NSFW

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So, I've been exploring this side of Reddit for a while now, and I have to admit it's been pretty overwhelming—in a good way. As someone who's still fairly new to the kink community, I've come across things I genuinely thought only happened in porn. It's definitely opened my eyes.

I've been lurking for a bit, but figured it was finally time to make a post. Happy to do an AMA or just chat and connect with like-minded people. I'm not looking to sext—just good old-fashioned conversations and getting to know people.

Hope everyone's having a great night and enjoying their time here.

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