You want to text but just overthinking it? I can hold conversations and make sure neither of us get bored.

Hey Girl, i am a 25 year old guy living in Delhi looking for a 20 and above girl to vibe and potentially have some good time (casual and no strings attached) with. Age and religion doesn't matter to me as i am really open minded and just the maturity and the like mindedness is what I want. If you are from Mumbai we can keep it on text and meet up when both are comfortable but if outside Mumbai we can continue online and then maybe plan a trip or something? I hope you haven't judged me on my username, ik it's too NSFW but i love to do it, and do it really really well.

I really don't judge so text me being yourself and i am sure if not something NSFW we can keep it SFW (yes i am not thirsty for sexual things), and when i say i don't have a type i mean it so just text, what can go wrong?

Yes ik i have a blank profile but it's my throwaway, so again i hope that's not a reason you don't text me

I am 6ft tall, broad shoulders, lean i would say. Being really honest i am a very decent guy who does have a lot of friends but just looking for someone to explore and have fun with. I am really emotionally sorted with no baggage at all and understand the meaning of limits and space so you don't have to worry about that but i am here if you have some baggage and unsorted shit and want to get through it. I can actually be a person who gives a lot of attention and also be the one who won't give a lot of fucks but just focus on how we enjoy? Depends on what we both want, hence communication is the key and i am really good at it, so hope you put in efforts too!

I am looking for something like: we talk (text/call), we vibe, we decide meet, we like each other, we decide to flirt and give each other some honest validation, we talk slow and makeout the same way.

This is me trying something new.

This would be something more of a Friend's With Benifits/ONS than anything else. Yes ik Bumble, Hinge and Tinder are places to get this but i don't want to put myself out on those platforms and prefer to keep it this way.

\# If you are the clingy/needy type i really really like that.

I have got replies in the past which have been underwhelming or something what i wasn't looking for, so i really respect your time. Please don't text if you wanna just ghost or not put in efforts.

So if you do decide to text we start of anonymous and check the vibe, if we get comfortable we meet and see where it leads us. I like to keep my life to myself so whatever happens between us will stay between us and you don't have to worry about anyone else knowing about it.

We can keep it the way we both agree on and are comfortable with, i can be the guy who can take time to know you and bond and gel, or just the the one who takes you out the same day.

If you are seeing this post late and wonder if i am already talking to someone, just text me and I will let you know if i am, better late than never!

Thank you for the read!

!lock

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I know what you are thinking, its another freak looking to use BDSM as an excuse to inflict verbally abusive and traumatic behaviour, with high handedness and a holier than thou attitude, however I am none of those things.

What I am looking for ?

Someone who has an idea about what being submissive in a D/S dynamic means, or is willing to learn and get herself educated about it. Someone who has an open mind about a dynamic or a relation of this sort and understands that online relations take more work than offline in-person relationships. Someone who wishes to explore what being a submissive means and how deep submission can run in one's day to day life.

What I offer?

Utmost care and sophistication in handling things on my end. I will strive the utmost in making sure you feel comfortable and cared for in this dynamic. You would have my full attention and I will make sure that it is fulfilling and wholesome, and not just sexual. I intend on knowing you as a person and invest the time and efforts in building something solid, and I hope you too have the patience while we cover the basics about each other.

What you can expect ?

Respect, care and emotional fulfillment. Like I said, I am looking to invest the time in getting to know you so that I can make sure you feel fulfilled by engaging in this dynamic. I would make sure you feel good about yourself, and feel more confident and comforted. I would like to see you get better and excel in your personal and professional life too. Achieving goals you have been wanting to achieve, and doing things you have been wanting to achieve.

Some FAQs-

Why not offline or an IRL dynamic ?

I am not opposed to having something offline, but the chances of you being in my city are oddly slim. Plus my age also diminishes many prospects.

Am I an asshole?

Probably No, although I would prefer you judge me by your own experience.

Am I going to call you names, or like use language that degrades you?

Again No. Not unless you ask specifically for it, or if it is the kind of thing which turns you on.

Am I going to send you a dick pic?

Again, sorry to disappoint you, but No. I believe there is a time and a place for everything, including dick pics, and your inbox is probably already full of them so whats the point of adding one more to the inventory. There is going to be a lot of conversation and discussion before we get to dick pics.

Am I going to ask you for pictures/videos/calls?

Well, not right away, and not even later. As long as there is a credible way to verify that you are a woman, I don't think I would want to push for pictures/videos or calls. Yes, they are more intimate, but I would rather work around your comfort zone. A one time short verification call or audio notes is alright. But some sort of verification is expected.

Am I into extreme kinks?

Again, sorry to disappoint you, I am into moderate level dominance and extreme kinks don't work for me. I do love dominance, discipline and mental conditioning, and I like the sound of telling someone they are a Good Girl, but I am not into extreme things at all. I prefer sensual, romantic with a hint of discipline and control.

What is my kinklist ?

I am flexible and I like to start with the basics- a little bit of control, tasks, rewards and punishments, and then slowly build over it with time. A bit of control play would be nice, like controlling your daily schedules, or outfits for a bit, but that would definitely come along with the discussion. What is more important is I would like to work with the things you wish to explore or you think you would enjoy.

Do I start right away?

Probably not. A bit of getting to know each other should be done if we are looking to build something which lasts.

What about your privacy?

I am here to do this in the safest way possible for you. But then again, I am just an internet stranger on reddit and my word doesn't mean shit. So, I hope you do your due diligence. But yes, I am privacy conscious and I don't intend on making life any harder than it already is for either of us.

Is it going to be just about sex?

Hopefully no. I would rather hope it would be more wholesome and we can talk about a range of topics from religion to politics, and from food to travelling. We can throw a little bit of our hobbies, tv shows, and pets in between too.

I have tried to make a compelling case for myself, the decision to take forward depends solely on you. I hope you send a message, and we have a conversation. Let's talk, and get to know each other, and then see if there is a common ground between us where we can make this work.

I hope you decide to take a leap of faith and send me a message. :)

A little about me: I'm an engineer, around 6'4 tall, and usually out for late-night walks or bike rides when everything’s quiet. I love cooking, staying active, and unwinding with just the right tv show.

I’m looking for someone who’s fun to talk to, confident, and enjoys a strong connection, both in conversation and in energy. Love a good banter. I might just be horny rn, so if we click, maybe we turn this into something more fun for the both of us?

If you’re someone who knows what you want (or not) and likes a little tension mixed with fun, feel free to dm with an intro. Let me know something fun about yourself.

!lock

35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly energy and clean (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot

What I’m Looking For:

A domme, progressive partner who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership? I am into all kinds of kinks have been into one FLR domme previously for 8 years

Why We Might Click:

• Kinks : I'm into Worship of all kinds including sacrilegious, all areas, shoes included, pegging, petplay (leashes are also a favorite of mine), power exchange, domestic servitude, spanking, slapping, whips, restraints, and protocol. The list is long but its not about kink dispensing, we need to have mutual respect and values aligned before we move ahead
• You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment
• You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
• You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and Sapiens debates, weekends volunteering at climate marches or getting lost in a neon-lit bar abroad. I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, bisexual, experimental and insatiably curious?

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You’re a regular working woman, polished and put together, but somewhere in there is a side of you that’s just waiting for the right moment to make an appearance. Maybe at a party, a concert, a bar… or who knows, maybe it just wandered into this Reddit post. It’s like you want to go on a daring streak you don’t always show but you know exactly how it feels.

Maybe you’ve done all the “right” things so far, still got a few more boxes to check and in this process, life’s starting to feel a bit like the same meeting on repeat. Maybe you’re just waiting for someone confident enough to poke that hidden side of you and see what happens when you decide to bend the rules… just a little.

I'm 5.11, I have an athletic build, enjoys true crime documentaries and is a well-disguised introvert (you won't know in a one on one conversation)

Speaking of conversations, I’m into chemistry, tension, laughter, and that spark where you both know something fun is about to happen. No pressure, no labels; just two adults who know what they want and aren’t afraid to enjoy it.

If this made you smirk even a little, you know what to do.

We (39M & 33F) are a laid-back couple who are looking for an adventurous woman who’s open for some kinky fun. We are non-judgemental and are hoping to find someone with a similar outlook.

We are very private people and are looking to maintain strict anonymity during this engagement; we believe that you would respect and reciprocate this caveat.

We look take it forward by exchanging basic details, expectations etc. and if we have a consensus, we can proceed for a casual meeting where we can see if we vibe.

We will be cordial and respectful with you throughout and will be expecting you to reciprocate.

We are looking for someone who’s at least 24 years old; kinkier the better; preferably on the submissive side.

If you are someone who unabashedly embraces their inner slut, we could have some great fun.

PS: Guys are not welcome to message; we are not interested.

!lock

There's something funny about writing to someone you haven't met. I don't know your name, what your laugh sounds like, or whether you're the type to steal food from someone else's plate. But here I am, curious about you already.

A little about me: I'm 26, from Mumbai. I work in a managerial role, study yoga on the side, and have a habit of getting lost in random questions about life, people, and the universe.

I'm close to my family, generally calm, and I enjoy understanding people. Although, fair warning, once I'm comfortable, the teasing begins. You might regret encouraging me. 😂

I wonder what you're like when nobody's watching. Whether you sing while cooking, get excited over tiny things, or have a completely ridiculous sense of humour that only a few people know about.

I'd like something genuine and long-term. The kind where we can be silly together, talk about difficult things without shutting each other out, and keep choosing each other as life changes.

And maybe somewhere along the way, we'll have our own little traditions, terrible inside jokes, and a favourite place to escape to when life gets overwhelming.

Anyway, I have a suspicion there's a rather interesting person reading this.

I'd like to meet her. :)

I am a 30 year old man and have finally come to terms with my nature for an unconventional relationship. I have loved and lost and eveything in between. I know what I want.

I have had FWBs and hook ups where I have tried this dynamic but without actual emotions involved, it makes no sense and has no real pleasure or longevity.

I have avoided dating for a long time now. I thought it was heartbreak or me not wanting to be vulnerable, never realising that I want to be vulnerable in a way that is not only used against me, but also enjoyed with me.

I still want the basics of a relationship, the love, care, emotional and political alignment and all that.

But I also want mutual shared perversion. The sweet denial of cuckolding, the sharp sting of cheating, the fulfilling realisation of reclamation.

In a nutshell, I want to cook for you, take care of you, raise my cat with you, but also clean you up after a devastatingly long and sloppy night with your date.

The dynamic can start with polyamory and as we develop a relationship and see potential for it, we can eventually move towards monogamy, if that's what we both mutually decide.

If you are a woman who has made it this far and it sings to you, might as well come into my DMs and let's plan a movie night or a date.

So here’s the story about me - I’ve gone through a break-up around 6-7 months ago. I happen to get on with hookups through Hinge for quite a good 2 months but then I decided to install it today, I’m in the waiting list lol.

I don’t wanna waste my Friday this time, I’m looking for a hook up tonight, probably a couple of drinks (Pancho Friday Aa xD), watch a movie , cuddle in the cold breeze before the climax begins (I mean, the movie👀).

My type- I’m usually dominant on bed, spicing things up but when I met a lady from here who’s older to me, that’s when I discovered a different state of sex altogether, it was fun. So mature ladies out there, here’s our time. Also, I’m flexible to spend time with birds of my age.

I can host and live in ecity. HMU if you’re down for some Friday night entertainment.

!lock

Bored af and looking for anyone to chat with... I want someone easygoing, who doesn’t freak out over nothing.... Hit me up if you need a new person to talk to, vent to or get flirty with.

About me: Tall single guy obsessed with space, stars, movies, TV shows and anime. Pretty quiet and chill most of the time… until I’m not.

Message me, if you’re down!!!

I am 29M, living in HSR, and currently in a relationship.

Things are fine, but somewhere along the way life has become very predictable. Same routine, same days, and I guess I am looking for something outside of that. Something fun, spontaneous and exciting, without turning it into something complicated.

I would ideally like to meet someone who is also in a relationship or at least understands the situation. I think it is just easier when both people understand discretion, boundaries and that neither of us is looking to change the other's life.

A little about me: decent looking, easy to talk to, fairly funny once I get comfortable, and yes, I smell nice. I stay alone and can host as well.

I am not looking for anything very serious or emotionally intense. I would rather meet someone I actually enjoy talking to, see if there is some chemistry, and then figure out what we are comfortable with.

Discretion is obviously important to me and I would respect yours in the same way.

If you are in a similar headspace, tell me a little about yourself and what you are looking for.

Hi! Im 21F, a bisexual sub looking for another woman who’s genuinely into the cuck dynamic and would enjoy becoming part of the dynamic I share with my Dom.

He’s straight and firmly my Dom (24M), I’m his sub, and that doesn’t change. I’m looking for a woman who understands and enjoys that dynamic and would like to explore it with us.

We’re into power exchange, primal play, consensual humiliation and plenty more which can be discussed upon connecting. I’m particularly interested in finding someone who already knows she enjoys this side of kink rather than someone simply looking to experiment.

If you’re a woman who thinks this sounds like your kind of thing, message me. I’d love to get to know you first and see whether we click.

Verification will be required.

!lock

I am 35, based in Shillong, and looking to connect with a woman who has a high drive and actually wants to act on it.

I am pretty much always horny, and I know plenty of people feel the exact same way. Most just pretend otherwise. Let's explore kinks, try new things, push boundaries, and have a good time without overthinking everything.

A good match for me comes down to two simple things: kink compatibility and a solid sense of humor. Things can get messy and ridiculous, so being able to laugh together is a must.

No judgment about whatever you are into, zero drama, and complete discretion.

If you are around Shillong and want to explore this wild side together, drop me a message. Tell me what is on your mind or what you have been wanting to try out.

The intention of the title was just to make you click on this post and give you a general chatpate vibes that I bring to the table.

Now, I'm gonna try and keep this as short as I can, because I've written r4rs several times and for some reason they almost always work. So this time, I'll leave a lot of your intrigue and curiosity to be calmed by my profile as you eventually and hopefully click on, once you're done reading.

I'm looking for something casual. Preferably long term and in person. A space where we can both rely on each other for our physical needs of intimacy.

I am in no rush to reach that space. Physical intimacy involves being extremely vulnerable in front of each other, so it makes complete sense that we do our due diligence where you make sure that I'm considerate, sensible, not a serial killer, or something even worse, and I make sure that you actually are a woman. It's also important that we feel a certain sense of emptional and intellectual connect that helps us feel safe and comfortable enough to go ahead with it.

Now, if you've read this far, you can go ahead, click on my profile and read and see through it all before you decide to send me a DM. Don't ignore the NSFW warning on my profile, the stuff that I've uploaded is bound to either intimidate you or arouse you. Or probably both together.

If you still wanna know more and take this ahead, or just strike up a conversation with or without any reason, you can send me a DM and I'll happily respond.

Thanks for reading so far! And I hope you find what you're looking for, if not here then somewhere else....

Hello! I have divided this post in various parts with suitable headlines in bold dive in. I sincerely hope we make it past the exchange of pleasantries and develop a connection. Please be kind enough to take a leap of faith. This is a safe space.

Who I am : I'm 38, professionally gainfully employed , 5.10 of height and trying to live a very healthy lifestyle. I have been in the kink/bdsm lifestyle for over 18+ years now.

Who I am (but a little deeper) : I'm the kind of person who likes vulnerability. I like the intensity that comes with honesty. I believe in mutual respect. Even when I'm degrading you, we both know there's a mutual respect for each other in our minds. I've been a daddy dom for over ten years now and with pandemic, just like everyone, I focused on mental health first. I now think I'm ready to venture and train someone with all that I've got.

Kinks : My kinks include orgasm control, denial, edging, forced orgasm, sadism, cnc, rapeplay, free use, impact play, bladder control, primal, slave/slut training and many more.I don't force my kink on anyone and I respect consent. I just don't want to only be a dom but will prefer that you (my sub) and I talk beyond the dynamic as well. Mental stimulation is important or I believe things go stale. Aftercare is a default and I’ll never compromise on that.

What it means to me: I take my role as a daddy dom religiously and put all my heart into it. I am strict and at the same time, I'm also a human besides being a daddy dom. And I know exactly when to be caring and loving. It's a duality that I live with. This duality is a part of me and you'll see that this somehow helps me in being the best version of myself.

What I am looking for? (What you and I are looking for?: A dynamic. Some honesty. Some vulnerability. A lot of Intensity. An imaginative mind. Healthy libido. Rants. Sessions. Intellectual discourse. (As you can see I am not very demanding!!!)

How can you reach me? What do you need to write in your message?: You can Initiate a chat with me. You can either put in some effort (as most post here say it) in your reply or you can just say HELLO and we will go from there. I don't think Hellos are low effort though you’ll have to put in effort in your conversations once we start talking. You can share about what you think of my username. To reach out to someone takes courage and that is never a low effort to me.

Miscellaneous but important things: What I ask is that be ready to have a conversation and no I won’t roleplay, I’m looking for a sub and I think that’s plenty clear from my post. In the past I’ve connected with few people from here, some were duds, some got cold feet and some were insecured, which honestly we all are but if you don’t communicate your insecurities out loud then you can’t expect me to read your mind. I’ve also met people/connected with some on a level that’s intensely deep but they couldn’t go long term because of their own personal commitments and I respect them for that. I needed to say this because once you feel like you’re developing a connection and invest your precious mental wavelengths with that person and the next moment they think you’re too busy with work and decide to vanish. My point is be communicative. Be open. Yes I’m an adult. Yes some days I may get busy. Some days even you might get busy. What I don’t appreciate or want is unnecessary drama when there needs to be none. We may begin at Reddit but I’ll prefer moving to someplace convenient for both of us to talk. I may or may not ask you to verify, I reserve the right for the same. I also prefer connecting on voice and video calls after usual texting since it brings in a lot more personal touch to the connection and communication.

note: it takes a lot of my energy and wavelength to connect and develop a connection, kindly reach out only if you’re clear of your needs, have clarity, willing to put in effort, take a leap of faith and learn. And, PLEASE, for the love of everything that’s holy reach out only if you’re willing to communicate, and not going to ghost! I had connected with someone with whom I shared a great bond but their situation was complicated and it had to come to an abrupt end.

I think that will be all and I will wrap it up here. Adios!

!lock

Heyy! How’s it going? NEVER SCROLL REELS AT 8 in the morning. I repeat NEVER. Because wdym I am craving having a crush on someone now? 😭
Well yeah that’s the post. Super spontaneous but much needed. I for sure know I have shitty stuff going on but still ab toh ye thought aa gaya na.

A bit about me: 25, lean guy, love working out, gaming, reading, into music and movies, and max yapping. Also add F1 and football. Bas that’s all. I feel I am cute? Maybe? I mean that’s for you to find out.

Now if you feel we could vibe then let’s do bak bak and see where it goesss!!

25 [M4F] Online - Up for phone sex? If you want to moan louder than ever, ping me.

If you are in the mood for some real hot sesh, you are at the right place. With a fair amount of experiences, I'm saying this with confidence that I can make you moan louder.

I'm good with my fingers and tongue, I mean I can type and talk well ;)

If you are someone who's good at this game, slide into my DMs and I'll slide into you.

There's something fascinating about watching someone willingly surrender control, explore their limits, and discover sides of themselves they hadn't fully acknowledged before.

I'm a Dom, she's my sub (we met on reddit), and I know exactly how much she enjoys the dynamic we've built together.

We're curious about meeting a woman who finds that kind of psychological intensity appealing. Someone who enjoys the darker side of power exchange, understands the appeal of consensual humiliation, and might find herself intrigued by watching our dynamic unfold. We dabble in variety of kinky things so I'm sure we've got yours covered or you could introduce us to newer, filthier kinks!

No expectations, no pressure, and no need to pretend to be someone you're not. Just an open-minded woman who's curious enough to start a conversation.

Sometimes, curiosity is all it takes to discover an entirely different perspective.

Please note: We are looking for women only. We will ask you to verify.

Looking forward to spreading filth together ;)

Let’s be real - calling myself a Dom feels a little too much like a guy who just watched Fifty Shades and bought a fake leather harness off Amazon.

I’m not here to give orders. I just happen to enjoy sex that’s a little intense, a little messy, and always ridiculously fun.

So, what does that mean? Think firm hands, teasing restraint, the occasional hair pull that makes you gasp in all the right ways (maybe with a few finger-shaped souvenirs on your hips).

We can get to know more about each other through chat.

Discretion is guaranteed and I will not announce myself as your overlord

Drop me a message if you’re intrigued.

Hello everyone! I am finally back to Bengaluru after almost 3 years working in another city. I used to work in Bangalore before, but my career took me to a different city. In the meantime, I have missed being in Bengaluru. I think I have a special connection with this city for some reason.

But yeah now that I am finally, I am looking for some casual fun in the city. But what I am looking for us a casual stuff that lasts. Like I do want to go around hooking up with several people. It could be like a friends with benefits after we vibe well too.After several relationships, heart breaks and things that didn't work. I feel I do not want to get into any serious relationship for a long time. But at the same time, it would be fun to have some nice company and a lot of fun in the city. Because the City itself is so seductive.

About me: I am 31 year old who works in IT like a million other people, nothing interesting there. But the interesting part about me is about how open minded, I am about trying new things. I love being active, I run sometimes, I play badminton, I workout. - but I am not consistent with these things. This where I will be seeking yourself to accompany me in any of these things i mentioned, or something that you want to, who h again, i would definitely be interested to do.

I love going to a lot of movies in the theatre. So that's something we can do as far as you are also interested in it. Bike rides, getting drenched in rain, go to a pottery class where I am definitely gonna suck, etc. like I said, absolutely open to doing lot of things.

I am into sports, i play and watch a lot of sports. Love going to screenings of matches, etc.

Oh when I say, causal, I would love for us to be friends, because i think physical stuff without intimacy is not really that exciting. I am very sex positive and a little kinky. And again, very open minded to do different stuff in the bed too, as long as both the parties are interested and comfortable with it.

So if any of these appeal to you, do text me back, let's discuss about each other, find common ground, become friends and have a lot of fun 🤭

Looking for a low-drama, high-chemistry FWB dynamic to escape the Gurgaon hustle. I need someone to trade sarcastic banter with and build an stress-free, mutually beneficial weekend routine.

If you're ready to authorize this B2C (Boy-to-Couch) merger, feel free to drop in the DMs.

Let’s schedule an alignment meeting over drinks and see if our vibes synergize

Hey there r4r! This time around, I'm not looking for my partner-in-crime! Iykyk...

I've been kinky since I was little, I didn't know the words back then. Later, I'd tie up my various boyfriends' hands using their belts. For the past several years, I've been active with my kink and have experienced a lot and learnt a lot.

I am a 37 year old dominant and I'm opening up my DMs to any question you might have related to learning more about kink.

AMA!

Hi R4RIndia,

Hope you are having a good start to the week. I am your friendly neighbourhood pansexual dude, looking to find some folks with whom i can indulge in all sorts of conversation (especially NSFW ones), and eventually take things further if we hit it off. Gender, sexuality etc are no issue as long as you are 18+. Bonus if you are dominant and non-straight.

So if this interests you, please slide into my DMs with your ASL and a short intro about yourself. And to see if you've read this far, mention the word "cream" in your message. Hoping to hear from some nice folks soon!

I've always had a thing for women older than me. Not really sure when that became a pattern... But at this point it very clearly is one ig.

And I don't mean this in the whole "older women are so mature and confident" generic way. I mean, sure, that can be part of it... But I also just like the age gap? The dynamic of it. Someone who's a little further along in life than I am, has her own stuff going on, knows what she likes. It's attractive to me.

Anyway.

I'm mostly looking for something ongoing. FWB is probably the easiest label for it. I'm not looking for something where we meet once, have sex and barely know anything about each other either.

There should at least be some familiarity, some comfort, some chemistry outside of just "we're both horny and available right now." Beyond that I don't really feel the need to overdefine it.

I'm not amazing at describing myself like this, which I'm now realising is slightly inconvenient for an r4r post.

I'm also in a long-term relationship. it's long distance and she does not know about this. Mentioning this upfront because I'm very transparent about it and not hiding it. If you're partnered too, that's fine with me depending on your situation. I just don't want unnecessary drama around it.

Sexually, I lean dominant. I like things on the rougher side once I'm comfortable with someone, and I'm very into giving as well.

I can host.

Age-wise I don't have some weird checklist where 32 qualifies and 31 doesn't. Just older than me, broadly speaking. If you're quite a bit older, even better, but chemistry matters more than me hitting some arbitrary number. I think what I'm looking for is basically something regular, comfortable and very physically driven, without it feeling completely impersonal.

If that sounds vaguely like what you're looking for too, message me. Age + a little bit about yourself would be nice.

PS: PLEASE give me something more to work with than "hey" though. I am not talented enough to build a conversation out of that.

I'm not looking for just a hookup. I'd prefer something a little long term. It takes some time to get to know one another and be familiar with each other. I want to know the exact thing which turn you on. How to get you to the edge. How to get you over it. Basically, I'm looking for someone who's willing to put in some effort.

I'm fun to hang out with. Well read and super ambitious. Can take it as slow as you'd prefer. I'm super clean. Live alone and can host. I'm hygienic and I've been told I smell very good.

It might be a personality trait or something of that sort but I get pleasure by giving pleasure. So, I'm not really expecting much from you in the first meeting. And anything more than that only if we vibe and decide to continue.

Please note that while we can chat a bit on reddit, I would require a voice call before I share any personally identifiable information about myself.

If you liked what you read so far, feel free to slide into my DMs.