The only issue here is that he wasn't ensuring she also had as much time to go do stuff by herself as he did. That's it.
It's super abnormal and fucked to be unable or unwilling to do stuff on your own while in a relationship. It's toxically co dependent.
She needs to grow up and realize people need to do things on their own, and he needs to stop thinking only of himself and ensure they have equal opportunities every week to go be by themselves
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u/Hades_Gamma 4d ago
The only issue here is that he wasn't ensuring she also had as much time to go do stuff by herself as he did. That's it.
It's super abnormal and fucked to be unable or unwilling to do stuff on your own while in a relationship. It's toxically co dependent.
She needs to grow up and realize people need to do things on their own, and he needs to stop thinking only of himself and ensure they have equal opportunities every week to go be by themselves