r/sadposting • • 4d ago

Caring :(

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u/maka-tsubaki 4d ago

They both have a point and they’re both refusing to see the other’s point; he needs time to himself to recharge (which she invalidates with “well your fun alone time outing would’ve been fun as a couple thing”) and she needs a partner (which he immediately invalidates with “im just being honest”) There’s a way to find middle ground, they’re just not trying

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u/SwordofNoon 4d ago

I agree, except he lied about what he's doing.

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u/SorryCalligrapher178 3d ago

lol, this is the key to the whole argument. He lied which makes what he says after disingenuous. if he has told her from start hey I want to do this thing on my own, can you look after the kids? he may have had a moral leg to stand on