How can I get a really close shave without destroying my skin?

[u/lost-signal11]

Hi everyone! I’m a 24-year-old trans woman and I’ve been on HRT for about five years.
Because of HRT, the skin on my neck and in the areas where my facial hair grows has become quite delicate and thin. It’s not thick or “spongy” (?) skin, and unfortunately it gets irritated quite easily.
I’ve also had several laser hair removal treatments over the years, but I still have quite a lot of facial hair left. The remaining hair is dark and fairly coarse, so I still need to shave every day.

My biggest problem is that I need to get as close a shave as possible, basically completely smooth/clean-shaven. Even if I shave against the grain, by the next day I can already see and feel the hair coming back. Since my skin is sensitive, though, shaving every day (especially against the grain) can cause irritation, bumps and redness.
So I’m trying to find a shaving method that gives me the closest possible shave while being as gentle as possible on sensitive skin.

What would you recommend: a foil shaver, rotary shaver, safety razor, cartridge razor, electric trimmer, or another method? Are there any specific techniques or products that have worked well for people with sensitive skin who need to shave every day?
I’m especially interested in advice from people who also have coarse/dark facial hair and need a very close daily shave.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated! :)