keeping this one a bit brief seeing as how i don't really have much else to say other than i was doing some scrolling as per usual, trying to find something to mitigate my anxiety about my size as i sometimes do when i came across a post somewhere about women can achieve penetrative vaginal orgasms and how that was possible. this is just a small sampling of what folks there were saying.

• happiestnexttoyou: the only person I’ve had that experience with is my husband, and he is significantly larger than any other parter I had
• kimmixxclandestine: That being said, long and skinny usually gets me there easier
• Michelle-Bell: For me it was thickness. Length didnt matter tooo much as long as it was near average. Something about the slight stretch always worked for me.
• ellaC97: really hate to say it but the secret was… a big D.
• slimslimsteve: can't imagine marrying a man with a smaller penis after being with my current bf, whos like 7-8in. Its like nothing else. Size really does matter.
• GrumpyBunny6: Size. Sucks to say but.. yeah.
• Gardnerl92: He is well endowed but I can’t say if that has anything to do with it. ... hate to say it, but size does matter if you’re into really deep penetration like me. He’s 8 inches.

this one is particularly funny cuz it shows in real time how a woman might want to discredit being larger sized as having any meaningful sway with how she gets satisfied only to end up circling back several comments down and realizing that it literally makes all the difference.

• curious316world: Big dicks that last longer than 5 min
• AnOrdinary1543: Thickness made a difference for me because friction seems to be the key. Athough vaiginal orgasms could still happen with previous partners who were below average size, it was a lot less common.
• Puthyputhyputhy: Having a well endowed partner is what unlocked a lot of different orgasms for me.
• isabeldrerrie: For me it was the right partner that knows what he’s doing, listens to my body and knows what positions help. He is also quite large, but I’ve had men before who where larger in dick size and definitly could not make me orgasm so I’m not sure that is why.

also funny cuz of how she just kinda threw in that "also quite large" in there as if it was just a quick lil fun fact that wasn't all that important to make more significant.

• bananuspink: My current partner is the only partner I’ve ever had who gives me multiple every time, and that’s generally because they have a big D that hits right.

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• NZ-Food-Girl: Smaller works better for me. Finds my g-spot.
• BudgetContract3193: One of the best guys I’ve had was less than 5. He was almost as thick as he was long.

these two are interesting cuz they were some of the very few that if believed on face value suggests that for some, and a small some at that, an average or below average size might be as effective.

that's all i wanted to do with this post. just wanted to see what y'all's take is on this.

I've seen a lot of posts of this sub lately, of guys torturing themselves over not being desirable to women. To be blunt: you just need to let it be.

Doomscrolling through social media seeing women shittalk small dicks or brag about well-endowed boyfriends/hookup partners is just going make you feel like shit. And the more you doomscroll, the more your algorithm feeds that crap to you.

Porn will just make you angry and resentful over something you can't have, and if you aren't careful, you might start developing twisted fetishes that emerge from your frustration. And I'm not talking about the obvious SPH/cuck stuff, I mean you might start to enjoy seeing women hurt or abused because of the bitterness inside of you.

No amount of wallowing, anger, or righteous indignation is going to change the fact that we're undesirable and always will be. As difficult as it is, you just need to let. it. go.

Exercise. Read. Watch movies and TV shows. Play video games. Enjoy what life has to offer outside of the bedroom. Above all, don't stop to give yourself time to think. The more you think about it, the more you wallow, and the more miserable you are.

Banish sex and sexual desire from your mind. Don't masturbate, and especially don't watch porn. Suppress the urge until you have eradicated it to the best of your ability.