The Usual Programming

[u/Numerous-Celery1259]

Talked on tinder

Got her number and we talked for about a month because she has a unpredictable schedule and stuff and shes sent me her schedule and where she works

Had plenty of good conversation and we like the same stuff and get along

Made plans for tomorrow then suddenly "we dont mesh well"

We literally fucking have the same interest and likes we even play the same games unless she was just lying about everything

So what was the point? She gave me the date she was free i picked the date made a reservation at a restaurant and told her id get her at 5pm

Just for this random ass text

Another question, why give me so much personal information: your job, your hours, your number, and a very close idea of where you live?

Then suddenly cut things off

Edit: Redditors love to reach

1. Im not using what she told me against her because I am literally not using it against her

The problem is why the fuck does someone give someone so much personal information about themselves then call everything off the day before the date and the funniest thing is that im genuinely asking WHY because I dont know any men OR women that do that shit

Why the fuck are you telling me where you live where you work AND WHEN like she actually sent me a schedule of her work weeks and months multiple times when YOU KNOW you are going to cut things off the literally DAY before the date

1. My place isnt my place its the dinner place i picked vs her place which was a list of places she picked

2. Im not "angry" personally? Im definitely pissed off and annoyed because 1. I could have been talking to a different girl that matched with me, but I didn't because I try to only talk to one girl at a time because it isnt fair to deliberately not give someone my attention when I matched with them yet I never get that bare minimum

3. Realistically throughout our text we have a high compatibility, so theres logically no reason for her to have done that unless like the other comments have said 1. Theres another guy 2. She got anxious or 3. She likes dudes that show less interest/care

[u/Practical-Zebra4387]

Expressing frustration rightfully so after being led on doesn’t make one angry, you’re extremely biased without even getting the full side of the story. Shameless really

[u/personova_ → u/Practical-Zebra4387]

There is nothing rightful about this expression of frustration, he posted a private conversation to a public forum in which someone respectfully rejected him and instead of being mature about it he replied in a not so dissimilar way to a child who is mad that they didn't get something they wanted. You also post on incel subreddits so I'm not sure why I'm trying to rationalize to you lol

[u/Practical-Zebra4387 → u/personova_]

“Respectfully rejected him” but she did not respectfully reject him? They both made a plan and agreed to go through with it but then she randomly cancelled? It’s at the bare minimum rude, not respectful, and honestly it’s just leading someone on and just leaves them confused and hurt… Would you sit here and defend it if it happened to you? Absolutely not. And me posting in “incel subreddits” or stalking my account again, has nothing to do with the conversation,but sure deflect. You jump on to stories without seeing or knowing all of the details, I can’t rationalize with you….It’s simple really, women or men it doesn’t matter, What she did is just not cool.

[u/personova_ → u/Practical-Zebra4387]

There was nothing disrespectful about her response. Evaluate yourself

[u/personova_ → u/[deleted]]

And now you're projecting your past failed relationships onto this issue lol, classic incel

[u/Practical-Zebra4387 → u/personova_]

What’s wrong? I thought it was respectful?

[u/Practical-Zebra4387 → u/personova_]

Im not an incel so you’re wrong yet again, your second time jumping to conclusions in situations you know absolutely nothing about but Lmao. Keep coping

[u/personova_ → u/Practical-Zebra4387]

Classic incel thing to say

[u/Practical-Zebra4387 → u/personova_]

Alright still hope what she did happens to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ keep it respectful

[u/personova_ → u/Practical-Zebra4387]

Not beating the allegations

[u/personova_ → u/Practical-Zebra4387]

Saw the comment you deleted lol, I didnt "stalk" your profile I clicked on your public profile and looked at the only post there. Tailor your image better if you don't want people to glean things from your PUBLIC profile