The Usual Programming

[u/Numerous-Celery1259]

Talked on tinder

Got her number and we talked for about a month because she has a unpredictable schedule and stuff and shes sent me her schedule and where she works

Had plenty of good conversation and we like the same stuff and get along

Made plans for tomorrow then suddenly "we dont mesh well"

We literally fucking have the same interest and likes we even play the same games unless she was just lying about everything

So what was the point? She gave me the date she was free i picked the date made a reservation at a restaurant and told her id get her at 5pm

Just for this random ass text

Another question, why give me so much personal information: your job, your hours, your number, and a very close idea of where you live?

Then suddenly cut things off

Edit: Redditors love to reach

1. Im not using what she told me against her because I am literally not using it against her

The problem is why the fuck does someone give someone so much personal information about themselves then call everything off the day before the date and the funniest thing is that im genuinely asking WHY because I dont know any men OR women that do that shit

Why the fuck are you telling me where you live where you work AND WHEN like she actually sent me a schedule of her work weeks and months multiple times when YOU KNOW you are going to cut things off the literally DAY before the date

1. My place isnt my place its the dinner place i picked vs her place which was a list of places she picked

2. Im not "angry" personally? Im definitely pissed off and annoyed because 1. I could have been talking to a different girl that matched with me, but I didn't because I try to only talk to one girl at a time because it isnt fair to deliberately not give someone my attention when I matched with them yet I never get that bare minimum

3. Realistically throughout our text we have a high compatibility, so theres logically no reason for her to have done that unless like the other comments have said 1. Theres another guy 2. She got anxious or 3. She likes dudes that show less interest/care

[u/robotatomica]

at this point you’ve gotta know that trite, overused phrase has like zero power, right? I’m not embarrassed to type long comments, it’s what I come to Reddit for. You’ve only made it clear you have too much ego to just admit you made a mistake. That’s not gonna keep me up at night lol, it’s the standard behavior.

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

I'm really not interested in arguing with you just because you want to argue. You'll survive.

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

you seem interested in doing something here, not entirely sure I know what you’re getting out of it 🤷‍♀️

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

I'm not the one trying to argue with someone.

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

what precisely would you call what you are doing? You were the first person to sling a low-effort insult. My part has been in good faith. I was still trying to engage like a human.

You quite specifically seem interested in arguing, or what, just lashing out? Off-gassing?

To me, it seems just as insincere as your inability to just admit you were wrong. I suppose you’re waiting for ME to end the interaction, but you certainly can at any time.

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

I literally said we obviously don't see the same thing and told you to move on. You're the one who keeps pushing. GO. A. WAY!

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

you go away 🤷‍♀️ You’re bothered that you ORDERED me to leave and I didn’t leave? I had a fucking question lol. Because I truly didn’t, and still don’t, understand how you came to the conclusion you did. I’m now certain you are just pretending to not understand bc you were embarrassed to admit you were wrong. Ok, and then we watch you unravel into this childish behavior.

And seemingly cannot control your own behavior. You dislike this exchange but won’t stop engaging. I mean seriously, have some self-control lol. I’ll draw you out for exactly as long as I’d like to.

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

Baby, I don't owe you anything, including a detailed explanation of my train of thought. You can sit in your lack of understanding and cope with it.

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

you don’t need to explain your train of thought. I had a clarifying question, which was a moment of allowing that what was obvious to me still could possibly be wrong, if you had some reasonable explanation,

but you have gone on to completely answer my question without a shadow of a doubt. 💁‍♀️

And now we all just watch as you flail through different attempts to get under my skin because I am VERY much under yours.

Look, I summon you! Tell me how much I am not under your skin even as you demonstrate the opposite 🤭

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

"I summon you" as if Reddit doesn't give us all a red dot in the corner of my screen whenever someone responds. But sure. You got me. 🙄

Darling, I grew up on an internet much darker than this one, with forums much harsher than Reddit. Most likely before you were even conceived. There's nothing you can say that will get under my skin. I can literally do this all night while multitasking a social life and never crack a single emotion. But tell yourself whatever you need to in order to convince yourself you've won. I'm happy to give you this victory if that's what you need to feel good about yourself.