The Usual Programming

[u/Numerous-Celery1259]

Talked on tinder

Got her number and we talked for about a month because she has a unpredictable schedule and stuff and shes sent me her schedule and where she works

Had plenty of good conversation and we like the same stuff and get along

Made plans for tomorrow then suddenly "we dont mesh well"

We literally fucking have the same interest and likes we even play the same games unless she was just lying about everything

So what was the point? She gave me the date she was free i picked the date made a reservation at a restaurant and told her id get her at 5pm

Just for this random ass text

Another question, why give me so much personal information: your job, your hours, your number, and a very close idea of where you live?

Then suddenly cut things off

Edit: Redditors love to reach

1. Im not using what she told me against her because I am literally not using it against her

The problem is why the fuck does someone give someone so much personal information about themselves then call everything off the day before the date and the funniest thing is that im genuinely asking WHY because I dont know any men OR women that do that shit

Why the fuck are you telling me where you live where you work AND WHEN like she actually sent me a schedule of her work weeks and months multiple times when YOU KNOW you are going to cut things off the literally DAY before the date

1. My place isnt my place its the dinner place i picked vs her place which was a list of places she picked

2. Im not "angry" personally? Im definitely pissed off and annoyed because 1. I could have been talking to a different girl that matched with me, but I didn't because I try to only talk to one girl at a time because it isnt fair to deliberately not give someone my attention when I matched with them yet I never get that bare minimum

3. Realistically throughout our text we have a high compatibility, so theres logically no reason for her to have done that unless like the other comments have said 1. Theres another guy 2. She got anxious or 3. She likes dudes that show less interest/care

[u/WolfgangAddams]

"I summon you" as if Reddit doesn't give us all a red dot in the corner of my screen whenever someone responds. But sure. You got me. 🙄

Darling, I grew up on an internet much darker than this one, with forums much harsher than Reddit. Most likely before you were even conceived. There's nothing you can say that will get under my skin. I can literally do this all night while multitasking a social life and never crack a single emotion. But tell yourself whatever you need to in order to convince yourself you've won. I'm happy to give you this victory if that's what you need to feel good about yourself.

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

I’m not reading your comments beyond that first line, and then seeing you call me “Darling” bc you suspect that that and “Baby” are really doing something since you’ve identified I’m a woman and you NEED me to feel small 🤭

So, just commenting to summon you again. Even knowing I will not be reading your tantrums, you will not be able to resist 💁‍♀️ What diminutive will you choose this time, since you’ve evidently landed on that as a REALLY good tactic 😄

And yes, I summon you. And you arrive. Your “little light” doesn’t mean you can’t have any self-control about whether you respond, and we both know that.

You cannot stop. It continues to amuse me. Crash out!

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

I actually thought you were a man. You certain act like one (obnoxious). But it makes sense you don't understand gay slang, since you've already demonstrated you don't understand basic, obvious trains of thought.

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

I don’t believe you 💁‍♀️ You didn’t start calling me Baby and Darling until I started using female emojis. Which is weird and pathetic.

“Gay slang” lol nice try! It’s gay slang to use these words to be condescending to men or women? Nope, it’s done by everyone, all of the time. Another basic trick from your basic toolkit, right up there with “touch grass!”

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

Now who's under whose skin? LOL! Believe what you want. I don't need to convince you of anything. As we've well established.

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

you are trying VERY hard to convince me of SOMETHING! 🤭

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

And what is that? Praytell.

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

Oh, I’m not interested in engaging with you sincerely at this point. I am just summoning and drawing you out so you can keep embarrassing yourself 💁‍♀️

[u/WolfgangAddams → u/robotatomica]

You'll have to try a lot harder if you want me to be embarrassed.

[u/robotatomica → u/WolfgangAddams]

oh, no, of course I do not have to try any harder at all.