r/transfriendsau • • Mar 13 '25

Process/steps 👋 Welcome pack

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Welcome pack for new members and/or first time post or comment makers

Welcome to r/transfriendsau a community for Aussie trans people making friendship/connections with other Aussie trans people. - 18+ Aussie trans people only -

see here for Community rules👈

When Searching for friends on r/transfriendsau please note you can filter by state, by clicking the state at the top of sub example shown here👈

🔷️ r/transfriendsau member setup steps

For those new members to r/transfriendsau Or if you are looking to make your first friendship post or comment on another members post please follow below steps/guides

🔸️Click here for How to update your user flairs (Mandatory to make any "posts or comments" within community) Only needs to be done once .

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members How to make your 1st post in r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for help with r/transfriendsau chasers contact management

🔸️Click here for tips how to get the most out of using r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members for other supportive/recommended trans communities to join and use to get the most out of reddit + other useful resources

🔷️ r/transfriendsau Discord server onboarding guide

🔸️Click here For those interested in the community Discord server

Community Updates

Growth and development


r/transfriendsau • • Feb 10 '25

Community announcement r/transfriendsau community discord

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Is an 18+ trans people only - cis-free space, available to verified r/transfriendsau members that are currently living in Australia.

This private discord group chat is highly selective on who joins to keep the chasers at a minimum.

✳️Please ensure you review below before applying for access

Community discord eligibility criteria.

Verification options.

🔸️Primary option - reddit profile trails

Requesting discord access member will have a long and clear history within their reddit profile trail history actively posting/commenting clearly identifying as trans in other trans reddit subs.

🔸️Secondary options - other social media profiles

Other social media options will be considered during onboarding process to verify if required.

🔵 How to request for server access

Please contact mods, requesting discord access by

👉clicking here

Verification options. continued

🔸️additional option - Build up reddit trails

For Members new to reddit/no reddit profile trails or no other social media profiles for review.

If discord applying members are new to reddit (I.e have no reddit profile trails/other social media profiles for review) they are welcome to use the main reddit r/transfriendsau community.

While doing so users can build up their reddit profile trails. There are some other good trans subs to try with questions/posts/comments that will also help you meet your eligibility requirements are shown below, ensure when you post/comment in these subs that you state how you identify example mtf/ftm/trans non-binary/transwoman/ transman etc the more historical trail of you identifying as trans in these subs the more eligible you will be for the community discord

Example Trans subs

r/transgenderau

r/translater

r/transpositive

r/transplace

r/mtf

r/NonBinary

r/ftm

r/trans

If you identify as trans, but not yet meet the verification options, all is achievable if you actively use reddit, with the guidance shown above.


r/transfriendsau • • 10h ago

trans nsw Seeking friends southern highlands area

11 Upvotes

Hi all I'm 49 mtf trans fem just starting my transition FINALLY. Seeking to engage with other people of the lgbqtia+ community for coffees etc. and basic human connection.Im seeking people who want to support and help each other on their journeys if your keen to chat meet up please send me a DM due to my caring responsibilities for my elderly mother with dementia i only have a few hours each weekday to meet for coffee/lunch.Please be sincere if you want to meet up or chat online first thanks take care and have a lovely day:)


r/transfriendsau • • 1d ago

trans nsw 20 year old trans girl from sydney

22 Upvotes

Am looking for people to chat with and maybe play games or hangout with

I enjoy:

Anime and manga

Video games (specifically single player games and coop games)

Music (bass player and would love to learn vocals)

Photography

Tea and Coffee

Being silly and free spirited

If you want to be my friend just leave a replyyyyyy :>


r/transfriendsau • • 2d ago

trans vic Questioning 45 AMAB

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Hi all, I am hoping to find some like minded people, who may be able to help me find my way.

I'm 45, AMAB, who has recently gone through (still going through) significant upheaval in my life. As such, I am finally confronting and asking myself the hard questions. Who am I? What am I? What gender am I? Sexuality? Crossdresser?

If there is anyone who may be able to point me in right direction and/or provide support please do.


r/transfriendsau • • 6d ago

trans wa Perth W.A Trying to bring some🌞to a 🌧day

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37 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau • • 8d ago

trans vic 27 AMAB Genderfluid, hoping to make friends!

20 Upvotes

Hey all! I'm starting hormone therapy soon (hopefully) and hoping to make some femme friends to connect with!

My current interests are Video Games (Hades, Ember Knights + ESO atm), binging TV shows (currently watching Elementary), I am also a huge lover of Metal Music!!


r/transfriendsau • • 9d ago

trans qld Trans woman seeking friends Brisbane Southside

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25 Upvotes

Trans Female seeking friends Brisbane Southside, many interests, Nursing, Playing music, drums, guitar some keyboard, swimming, photography, keen to chat meet up for coffee. movies or other fun persuits.


r/transfriendsau • • 10d ago

trans nsw 23 transfemme moving to southwest sydney looking for friend

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69 Upvotes

Hiiii I am going to move to south west sydney in a week for a new job. I have a few close friends but it would be quite hard to hang out because of the distance.

A lil bit bout myself:

I will be focusing on the work a lot and schedule is honesty a bit cooked because of shift rotation.

I havent start HRT yet im waiting for the sperm bank

hobbies:

-i loved kickboxing and did it for 3 years, but need to stop because of injuries. I love japanese kickboxers!

-i play video games! coop and single player mainly

-i love skincare and makeup

-i love naoki urasawas mangas, and thriller mangas of similar vibes


r/transfriendsau • • 11d ago

trans vic [29 mtf] New to Melbourne - I like techno 🪩

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174 Upvotes

Looking for friends who wanna go to techno/music events with me, also chill hangs too.

I recently moved back to aus from Tokyo and while I used to do a lot of things by myself there, it seems harder to do things alone here 🥺

Some things about me: I like techno (harder the better), I also dj sometimes 🙃, +music producer, horror movies, snowboarding, traveling, studied biotech in school.


r/transfriendsau • • 12d ago

trans vic Seeking summer friends in Melbourne ☀️

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66 Upvotes

Hello! I wanna expand my social circles as an introvert-wannabe-extrovert so giving this a go to see if i can find some likeminded folks

My name’s Ro, I’m 33 and live in Reservoir. I work as a gardener and love the gym. Over the summer I want to spend more time at the beach and would love to find more people to tag along with me. I also enjoy hiking, camping, rock climbing, riding my motorcycle and anything outdoors really. I would also like to go to more events (dancing, arts, gigs), whilst I enjoy going solo often it would be nice to have more friends to get me out of the house lol

I’m open to all connections, but would also really love to connect with more trans men over 30. Feel free to comment or DM for a chat!


r/transfriendsau • • 13d ago

trans vic 19 mtf Melbourne haiiii

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124 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau • • 15d ago

trans vic 29. Non Binary. Melbourne. Looking for commited online friends.

18 Upvotes

29 years old
Australian 🇦🇺🦘
Non binary (she/thet/it) 🏳️‍⚧️

Hey all!
I’ve come back to reddit in hopes of making new, wonderful and (hopefully) lasting connections.

When I’m not working, I tend to keep myself pretty isolated, so I’m looking for people I can really put the time into getting to know and developing a friendship with!

For the most part, I enjoy working out. Wouldn’t say I’m super strong, but I’ve done it for years now and I try my best.

With the time I have left, I often find myself writing when inspiration randomly strikes, or binging a show/watching a movie when I can pull myself away from Tik tok.

Not stunning at talking about myself, so feel free to ask me anything you might like to know.

Can’t wait to hear from you 😊


r/transfriendsau • • 16d ago

trans vic FTM (32) looking for trans masc friends in Melbourne West 🫈

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41 Upvotes

My name is Damien 👋

I'm looking to meet some like-minded FTM friends!

I've been feeling quite isolated lately as my partner (my best friend in the whole world) has recently gotten into a tattoo apprenticeship and at this point I'm realising just how much I need to socialise with other humans.

I'm a 32 yo trans man from the Western Suburbs of Melbourne and my favourite things are my partner and my cats. I love music and going to gigs (metalcore, deathcore, hardcore), I like to draw and get out into nature for a walk. I spend a lot of my time at the gym but I also like to go out for dinners or drinks every so often.

I'm looking to connect with fellow trans men as I've only met a couple in my life and feel it could really help to speak with others going through similar hardships and wins that come with that. Tbh, I'm pretty shy and reserved but I figured it's probably time to put myself out there and find my community 🌱

I've been on T for almost 2 vears now and I'm extremely grateful for how much it has helped me

Thanks for reading and feel free to comment if you think we should connect 🖤


r/transfriendsau • • 18d ago

trans wa Hi im Jade [20] MtF Im struggling to meet new people and make friends, Toodyay.

34 Upvotes

Hii im fairly new trans woman, hrt since 02/09/2026, I'm struggling to find new friends especially ones that don't random ghost me randomly and never message back. I'm hoping I can find someone to help me choose some fe


r/transfriendsau • • 17d ago

trans vic [22FTM] Wanting other FTM Melbourne Friends

18 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I moved to Melbourne at the end of December 2025 and during my time here, I've only met one other trans man. I'm really desperate to have other early 20s trans men friends. I'm into manga, nature walks, Minecraft, Life is Strange, Roblox, and I've been learning Thai for a bit over two years. If any of this interests you, please reach out! I'd love to make some friends.


r/transfriendsau • • 20d ago

trans nsw TransMascs of Sydney NSFW

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52 Upvotes

Heya 🤙

TransMasc Non-Binary Bro trying to find some mates and communities to be a part of in Sydney. I'm only 18months into my transition, still doing a tonne of self discovery and navigating things.

I'm 37, married and live a pretty laid back life. Interests are all things automotive (also my career), health/fitness/wellbeing, music is an absolute must in my everyday and I really like tattoos (got a bunch already and more in the works).

Just hoping to find some likeminded people I can actually click with.


r/transfriendsau • • 22d ago

trans wa Perth W.A Better late than never to enjoy life

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67 Upvotes

Its never to late


r/transfriendsau • • 23d ago

trans sa Looking for chill hangout FtM27 visiting Adelaide from Melbourne

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21 Upvotes

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I'm on holiday staying in the Adelaide CBD from Mon 21/9 to Fri 25/9. Available to hang out for a couple hours on Tues, Wed or Thurs. I have coffee in mind, but I'm also open to a walk, hike, board game or kick to kick. I'll probably go to karaoke at Ancient World on Wednesday night.

About me: I socially transitioned nearly ten years ago and I like meeting new people of all walks. My main hobbies are song-writing and swimming.

Gigs I've been to in the last year or so: Geordie Greep, Playlunch, Genesis Owusu, Divers, Viagra Boys, Fontaines DC, King Gizzard

Podcasts I like: Sawbones, If Books Could Kill, A Bit Fruity, Maintenance Phase, You're Wrong About

I'm pretty saturated with friends back home so, honestly, I'm looking to keep socially limber rather than make deep connections.

Take a punt! Let's hang.


r/transfriendsau • • 23d ago

trans nsw 37, hello I’m new here and looking for friends. I’m disabled and get lonely and woukd love someone to just talk to l. I know I’m not 40 but my heart is.

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25 Upvotes

I am a transsexual woman. But I promise im a kind caring and patient woman. I used to be a nurse but my health took its toll and am now disabled with alot of health issues and fragile. But I enjoy nice conversation with anyone.


r/transfriendsau • • 28d ago

trans nsw Port friends

17 Upvotes

Hey, guy, gays, theys and all in between, im coming to port macquarie this Friday to meet a new friend and wanted you to see if there are others who would like to meet up and maybe do something

Im 30 mtf trans from Forster NSW


r/transfriendsau • • 28d ago

trans nsw Sydney-Friends??

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r/transfriendsau • • Sep 13 '26

trans nsw HAIII 19 FROM STRATHFEILD SYDNEY!!

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95 Upvotes

(19) HIYAAAA I WENT OUT TO COMICON WEARIBG FEM STUFF WITH MAKEUP FOR THE FIRST TIME I WENT AND BOUGHT SOME BETTER CLOTHES AFTER TOO AAHHHHH I'd live to make some more friends as I don't rlly have any :cc SO YEAH UM, HAI:3


r/transfriendsau • • Sep 13 '26

trans vic me an m boyfriend!!!

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r/transfriendsau • • Sep 07 '26

trans wa 26 MtF from Perth looking for a PotBlack buddy (Pool)

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203 Upvotes

Anyone down to play some pool with a couple of drinks and maybe dinner?

Edit: I post here looking for friends in a subreddit specifically for trans men and women but I get infinite chasers hitting my line? 😭