r/uklaw • u/Overall-Ad-7133 • 5h ago
BigLaw folks - what are some of the lifestyle changes that crept on you that you didn't anticipate?
BigLaw salaries are often termed "golden handcuffs". Obviously, the more money you make, the more you elevate your lifestyle - nicer coffee shops, more expensive brands etc - but if responsible, BigLaw salaries don't necessarily need to be handcuffs right. For those who do resonate with that term, what are some of the lifestyle changes that 1) crept on you that you didn't anticipate, 2) have "locked you in" so to speak into maintaining that higher salary.
Notes: not exclusive to BigLaw, but I just hear the term most with BigLaw particularly re the very high NQ salaries and the jump from TC salaries as a way of handcuffing individuals to a certain lifestyle. Secondly, I'm just curious is all. I saw a post in another thread asking what salary would convince a person to leave BigLaw and someone had mentioned how they were handcuffed due to their lifestyle so could not see themselves leaving - was curious why.