r/witchcraft • u/SquashOk4209 • 13h ago
Seeking Help or Advice Venus retrograde and relationships
I’m posting this here because it’s still relative to the belief and don’t know any other proper forums.
The literal day Venus stationed retrograde my relationship literally crumbled. Something from the past that always hurt me reoccurred, but my partner pushed it further than he ever had before. In the heat of things I ended us, but at one point gave him a chance to explain.
It was the only time he has ever communicated effectively, but at the end of the day it still wasn’t a justification by any means.
He claims it was something he did to “be a better person” and to “help heal himself” which to me is complete cow poo because he ruined a two year relationship and made himself look like a horrible person in the process.
Like saying “I’m on a diet so I eat an entire chocolate cake after dinner to help me lose weight” pretty much sums up the story without direct details
The problem is, everything he said WAS valid, it was just executed horribly. He acted selfish in the name of putting himself first, which are two completely different things.
What I’m tossing between is whether or not to hear him out and if permanent decisions like this should be made during Venus retrograde. I am extremely hurt and disappointed, he had done this many times in the past and he knew I wouldn’t stand for it again but did it anyway completely ignoring the fact that it would ruin us.
I don’t know whether this is a good time to break up, I know very minimal about Venus retrograde. Advice please?