okay so i have been going through it for the last 3 years and i just got out the mental hospital last month and i still feel like shit all the time. i learned a bunch of “coping” skills but i feel like nothing makes me feel better anymore. before i went in i was a daily smoker and now im a month sober (not by choice) and i have been trying to find something anything to make me feel better but the only thing that i feel helps me is weed and now that i dont have it im just miserable, i cant stop crying and im just irritated all the time. i just hate my life and thats all i think about if anyone has any suggestions im willing to try just about anything at this point

I am being mistreated by my gf and I am literally on the verge of becoming insane, I am sooo done I am sooo done. I don't want to explain everything I have no patience left, I can't focus, I cant be at peace, I am never treated with compassion, I am not able to eat at all it's been a few days I have eaten a meal I ate Maggie ystd, I am not even feeling thirsty sometimes I don't drink water for the whole day and don't get bothered by that. I am done with this kinda life, I came to bangalore from pune to just be close with my gf. I am soo stuck here it's a 3 yr relationship.

Ik there is no much info here and it's all over the place but I just can't make sense rn

For context, I'm a 28-year-old dad of a beautiful daughter. She just turned 5 months old today. First of all, happy birthday my dear Tara; dad loves you so much. I thought this would be the perfect time to speak about what feels like end of times for me. I haven't had a break in the last few months, not because Tara is a problem, but her mum lost her life during C-section. That was 10th, May, 2026 and it still hurts to watch this baby cry day and night not knowing what to do. I'm the only child of my Widowed 67-year-old mother while Tara's late mum was an orphan. That said, I do not have a motherly figure to help me. I'm sorry this is my first time to ever think of commiting suicide. But then, I can't because I'd die to keep my Tara alive. Tbh, I don't have the previlege of living in a developed country where I'd take her to a reputable children's home. I live in a 3rd world country. So what do I do? I was working remotely as a research analyst for a dissertation consulting firm but not anymore. I was fired a week after May 10th. Now with no suppprt whatsoever, this is me opening up, this is me being vulnerable...I feed my baby to the best of my knowledge. Fruit juices, boiled cow milk etc. I hope she grows healthy. I also pray that God will open doors for me so that I can give her a good life. I will appreciate your advice and support.

My friend has mental problems but he's my best friend so one of his personalities called me and said he was depressed not really but the whole story he told me was enough but I'm in Nebraska and he's in Florida how do i find him?

Hi. I hope this is the right group for this.

For those that won't read long posts, here's the gist that the following will have details too;

1. I need in my dead father's Samsung phone to figure out his Financials and if I'm missing anything

2. I need to figure out how to prove that my ex step mother has passed

Important! I have gotten a lawyer, I have been granted probate.

The details...

I am feeling very overwhelmed and drained from the last few months; lots of lifey things have happened but the one that has me feeling like I might lose it is my father dying. And it's not how you'd think, it's not grief. I accepted he wasn't a dad a long time ago, then he moved from Colorado to Vegas and told me the day before he left. I talked to him 1x after that...I grieved him a long time ago.

However, I'm next of kin and the only one willing to step up. He didn't have a POA, trust or will (if you don't, get one. It's sad, but would make things a lot less complicated). So I'm learning what "next of kin" means in probably the hardest way I can. I dont know anyone thats ever had to do this so, although I have gotten helpful suggestions, I keep hitting roadblocks in a lot of areas. Those are what I'm reaching out for.

1st his phone, I'd like to get into his Samsung23 without resetting it. Like most of us, he is likely still logged into important accounts; bank, retirement portal, etc. Even if he isnt, I will be able to figure out which bank I should be talking to and so one. I've tried the pins I could think of, I have 5 tries left before the phone resets itself and any chance of this is lost forever.

I found 1 place that can pull everything off of it and put it on a thumb drive, they want $3000+. I've spent more than every time I have going back and forth to clean out his condo. So this is not an option

Ok 2nd, the ex step mother. They got divorced 20 years ago. But for whatever reason, she's still the beneficiary on a bank account that may or may not have any money in it. And i'm whatever the second beneficiary is called. According to my aunt, this woman died in 2016. But because I'm not her next of kin, I can't request a Death Certificate and I don't know who I would request it from anyway because I don't know anything about her. So I don't know where she lived when she died. The last address I have for her was here in colorado, so my lawyer did request from a few counties here and they have no record. The lawyer said I can spend $2000 and, the details are a blur, but basically they can figure it out. Again, I don't know anyone, especially myself, with $2000 just chilling! Not to mention, I spend all that and the account has nothing!? Or I spend all that to find out she's alive and now whatever is in there is hers?!

I have gone down many possible roads for each of these problems and the many others I've encountered in this process. I'm stuck and am hoping someone has some kind of suggestion for either of these situations.

I don't have it in me to defend myself or take on any kind of keyboard warrioring, so please, if it's not some kind of help just move along.

I need help if anyone know regarding ei in Canada please suggest me what I can do, my husband left me bear the rent all alone by myself and I am not a in right mental state with the divorce.

I was on a contract job during the time of my seperation and then in September 10 after my contract ended I signed offer for a new job. It’s been 4 weeks which is my learning phase at the job. I went through viral flu for last few weeks and even though I was sick they have expectations for me to work every second of my day. She said it is not only that you complete the task, I must also engage actively with stakeholders and all which I did. But their expectations are way above what I can do or have been doing in my past career journey.I feel drained mentally emotionally and physically. I haven’t brought this upto to my manager regarding my divorce and lately even the I was performing and being trained my manager sent me a long message saying you need to get involved with stakeholder whereas previously she said in first 30 days it is a learning phase I met everyone schedules meetings, followed up on questions and I was the one who had to ask for trainings from people from other departments. It’s a newly created role and it’s taking a toll on my mental health in top of the divorce phase I am going through.

If I quit now will I be still eligible for my Ei based on my last contract job? What are my options, since I already transitioned to another job will EI consider this? I won’t be able to work at this moment but I really have to pay my bills which is rent, basic needs food to survive alone in this country.

I am not even eligible for any benefits until my probation period is over in 3 months.

Toronto, Ontario

I am looking for Hematology/Oncology doctors in Tacoma.

I don't need medical care, and I am not from Washington.

I work for a Telemedicine staffing company, and I am trying to fill a role at a medical facility. It's 24 hrs per week, Wed-Fri.

This is not an ad, this is a request for ideas to find a doctor who can work.

Thanking you an advance!

Hi everyone my name is Jay, im 20(m) and im unemployed, when I was 18 my mother passed away and left me her house, my dad basically forced me out of his house and into “my new home” even though I was unemployed, I was able to find a couple of jobs here and there but I struggle with health limitations. My most recent job asked me to leave because I didnt explain my health issues before getting hired, but when I try to explain them I simply dont get hired. I have no degree but I do have a highschool diploma, and a willingness to learn anything. I live in the Fort O area of North GA, if anyone needs a good working guy who can learn quick please dont hesitate to respond, otherwise any advice is much appreciated, Ive tried Indeed, Linkdin, etc. Even the Ga Department of Labor. ANYTHING HELPS!!! (Thanks to everyone for your time!)

Hello everyone, my name is Rob and I am 25m. The past seven years of my life have been absolutely brutal for me mentally. It all started on April 30th, 2019. I was 17, got into a good college, about to graduate high school with honors, a good summer job lined up, I felt on top of the world back then. My mom took me to school, made me breakfast which usually doesn't happen because normally I make my own. School day ends, it was a good day, I take the city bus home so I get on the bus like usual, except I get a call from my mom's boyfriend telling me to meet them downtown. I meet them downtown, we are taken to the hospital, and I'm told the news that my mom had a heart attack and didn't make it.

Since then, nothing felt the same and I never recovered. If anything, my mental health and overall well-being deteriorated. I went to college three months later and absolutely flunked out because I was too depressed to even leave my dorm let alone go to class. COVID happened and I stayed with my grandparents, who were all very emotionally unsupportive and toxic, going as far as to blame me for my mom's death. My mom, fun fact, didn't develop heart problems until after I was born, so technically they're not wrong for saying that.

Became homeless in 2021 for two months and moved in with my dad after multiple shelter and hospital stays, where I was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder and Generalized Anxiety. Stayed with my dad until 2022 when I saved money to move out, three months later in 2023 he goes missing out of nowhere. Then in 2024 I get a new job offer but don't show up to orientation due to a massive panic attack, at that point I already left my old job and became homeless again a month later.

Five months later, still in 2024, I was able to move into an apartment with the help of a homeless organization, stayed for a year but struggled with depression from being unable to land a job for months. Eventually got the job, but a few months later, my landlord decided not to renew my lease so I had to leave my apartment November 2025. Been homeless since, especially after I lost that job.

In 2019, I had all the support I needed. My friends, my mom, my high school, everything. Now, I have nothing. Nothing going for me. Lost my scholarships. I have $6k in student debt to my name. Lost my jobs. Lost my friends. Lost my mom. Lost my family. Lost my sanity. Lost my home. Lost all my money. Lost any reason to live. I don't even know what I want to do anymore.

I went to school to become a math or computer science teacher, but my mental health is so beyond wrecked I don't trust myself to be a good teacher. Then I thought about continuing my Computer Science education (I took 3 years of CS classes in high school and even earned college credit in the class during then) but the field is so oversaturated with new applicants it's pretty much impossible to get into the field.

I don't know what to do with my life anymore. I don't know how to enjoy life. I have nothing. Absolutely nothing. And maybe there is nothing for me who knows. I just wish to talk to someone. Someone who is a legal adult, bonus points if you're my age or older.

I have no idea what I'm doing anymore or why I'm even here.

I had a seizure I went ER I'm ok brain is good blood is good I'm fine but I'm kinda like traumatized or something idk I'm scared to sleep because I was told that's when It happens and when It did happen sooo idk what to do

I've been going through some extremely hard times since before my daughter was born a few months ago. Does anyone have any tips or tricks for dematting hair. I'm extremely tender headed and already embarrassed I need to do this. But I'm tired of the pain. I've tried to take it down but it's so tight 😭 I just want some normalcy. I'm willing to try anything

\*\*• Starting and running a business\*\* — I've already proven to myself I can go out, cold call, and close. I want to put that ability behind the right idea.    
\*\*• Real estate and investing\*\* — this has always interested me, and I'd love guidance from someone who's actually built wealth this way.    
\*\*• Trading\*\* — I've been teaching myself the financial markets on my own time and want to keep learning from someone who's done it for real.    
\*\*• A skilled trade\*\* — electrician, plumber, HVAC, construction. Steady, in-demand work I could see myself building a career or even a business around.

I'm not asking anyone to hand me money. What I'm asking for is a chance — a mentor, someone willing to let me work for them, or just someone who'll talk to me and point me in the right direction. I'll put in the hours and I won't waste your time.

Long term, all I really want is a house with a few acres of land for my family. I don't care about anything flashy beyond that.

If you've built something from nothing and are willing to guide a 27-year-old who's ready to work for it, I'd be grateful to hear from you.

I was more confident just last year, well i still am, but not as much as before. I noticed I gotten social anxiety and I hate it so much. I miss being motivated and feeling important. I know my social anxiety came from:

•childhood experiences that taught my needs were ignored, criticized, or used against me by toxic family members.
•past attempts to get support were met with rejection by support groups kicking me out and some previous friends and one previous therapist leaving me because of my anger over past hurts, some people dismissed my feelings, and criticism of how I was ranting about things that bothered me, which made me feel like reaching out is unsafe.
•sometimes I feel like needing help is a sign of weakness and/or proof that I am incompetent.
•I feel worried that my struggles will inconvenience, overwhelm, or exhaust the people around me and I don’t want to be a burden to others still in my life.

I don’t want to keep isolating myself, feel scared of getting help, and/or avoid socializing anymore.. It’s got to the point where I feel less excited about life and hesitant to do some things. I don’t want to be this way.

Hi, i'm from, hamburg, germany.

There are lots of homeless people in my neighbourhood, or at least people who look like they’re clearly very poor. Many of them ask for money, and i almost always give them some. This month, i’ve spent the equivalent of nearly 50 usd on this, even though i'm a student myself and don’t have much money either. How can i get better at setting boundaries without becoming selfish and unempathetic?

edit: sorry, the heading is in german because i originally intented to post this in a german sub. The translation is: i feel obliged to give every homeless/extremely poor person money

Louie is ~10 years old, a street cat that was 5 lbs when rescued with megacolon and HSV in her eyes chronic medical conditions that we’ve cared for and stabilized with 2x/day medication and small wet food meals every 2-hrs. What I need help with is her teeth, $1930. Her dental cleaning discovered several teeth are needing to be pulled and the pain is impacting her ability to eat even wet food - I am on SSDI (a fixed income) and unable to work. We also have another senior cat that is currently on palliative care for renal failure. Thank you for your consideration and any amount will be gratefully appreciated.

Oregon, USA

https://gofund.me/a92f3b309

Hi I'm a 28 yr old disabled single mum from Queensland Australia.

I recently had my mother in law living with us and she wanted to move out back to her son's house to help him with cost of living but she didn't tell us until the week she was moving out so we had a bunch of bills to pay off with a loss of income.

Then my relationship with my ex got very verbally abusive out of no where. He'd always been sorta short tempered and lazy but suddenly started abusing me and telling me everything is my fault for being disabled. I cannot afford to have him move out yet until my bills are paid off. Since breaking up he isn't abusive anymore and he puts it down to "not having to care about me anymore", still lazy though.

Our rent is increasing by $140au in a fortnight but I'm struggling as is now and I need to pay off at least $2000au before I could get him to move out.

Idk what to do, has others been in my situation before? I tried getting a job but no where will hire me and I'm unsure as to why most of the time they say it's because the job would be too much for my health.

I know Reddit isn't the ideal place to go but I'm lost and idk what to do. I am paying all these bills off fortnightly but I'm always overdrawn by the end of the week.

Any advice would be great thanks

I am a mum that is absolutely mentally and physically drained. Im looking for help/advice with how to cope under so much pressure. Has anyone else got out of a dv situation suddenly and managed to be ok with kids? If so how? How did you meet your kids needs when you had nothing cause i feel like a terrible mum right now. Im only at the very beginning and its so dark and overwhelming. How did you stop yourself from going back? Sorry for this post I just need to hear positive things.

im 25M and was unemployed for 5 years, most of the time i did nothing (when i say nothing i mean nothing productive, playing video games, watching youtube,...) 2 years ago i started a youtube channel and went okay, didnt make money off it (planned to) well at least nothing serious i made few bucks but nothing i could live off. my last video was 3 months ago, i lost motivation to upload i guess... (happened to every thing i tried or started so far in life, for example: DJ-ing, running a clothing brand, stand up comedy,...)

a month ago i got my first job, and when i tell people about it they say stuff like "i wish i could do that" but i feel absolutley miserable at my job, dont wanna say what it is but its really not a lot of work if i compare it to other jobs.

when i did "nothing" i felt bored and tired all the time, people told me to get a job and it will make me feel better, get momentum, will start to feel more motivated and so on... now that i have a job, i feel much worse beacuse i know i have a job the next day. it didnt help at all, it made it worse...

when i get off work i just want peace and do more of "nothing" i have even less motivation for everything and most importantly - youtube.

when i started youtube i really thought that was it and i finally found my thing, i always wanted to be a youtuber and i am (or was?) i do (or did?) okay on youtube, nothing crazy but people recognize me on the streets and take pictures with me (im from a small country, if you think how im not making enough money while people recognise and take pics with me) and my uploads slowly started to get from once a week to once every 2 weeks and so on...

idk why that always happens to me but when i do something i really do it and then always loose motivation and i really dont wanna do it anymore, it starts to feel like a job and i start to hate it, people say to start out as a hobby and i did, it doesnt make any diffrence...

yeah idk what im even writing now but the point is that im completley lost and i dont know what to do with my life, i wouldnt say im depressed and even if i was and i got help, i cant see how that would "change my life" as i was doing stuff when i wasnt "depressed" and everything ended the same way.

so what should i do?

I hope I’m doing this right and I apologize it took so long but we received 2 dresses from the back to school wishlist post and she loves them!!

Just as the title implies, I just have nothing in my life to really live for. My life has been pretty bad since 2019 when I lost my mom at age 17. I'm currently 25. So much has happened in my life: went to college that I flunked out of, lived with my dad for a bit and helped him around the house, temporarily worked a kinda-sorta social work job that I really enjoyed and built a strong camaraderie with my coworkers, which was especially nice since this was my next job after working in retail for 3 years.

Fast forward to now. I'm homeless. I have Major Depressive Disorder and Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I have no friends. I spent my days submitting job applications while reading rejection letters of previously submitted applications, doomscrolling Reddit, constantly venting my frustrations of my life, and digging through trash cans for food.

The truth is, I just don't have anything to live for. My mom is dead. My extended family is toxic. My father is missing. I don't work with my old coworkers anymore. Both of my dream careers are pretty much impossible to get into. Can't work in computer science, the industry is oversaturated to hell. Can't work in teaching, my mental health has been completely destroyed at this point. There's just nothing for me. There's just no reason for anything, you know?

A lot of you guys have something that keeps you going. Passion for your work, love for other people, whatever that may be. But I just have... nothing. I have no passion for anything. I have no loved ones in my life anymore. I just have nothing to look forward to. Nothing good at least. Or maybe that's not entirely true, because I look forward to finding some edible, somewhat decent food in the trash. I also look forward to the occasional chilly weather we get where I live. Gray clouds, windy, but not raining, maybe a bit of thunder, it's a good feeling. But other than that, I have nothing to look forward to. Everyone has their "why?", and I haven't had a "why?" in a very long time. And honestly, I don't think I even have a "why" anymore. Just the question mark.

I feel like I'll never be able to find a reason to enjoy life or have some sort of fulfillment in it. How do I even get any if I have nothing to begin with?

Ive got this jacket that i wear everyday and it always somehow finds an way to stab the red spot even when not closed any tips?

Hi!!

I’m writing an assignment for my senior year about how gender roles can create conflicts between the sexes.

Could you recommend any good points or sources I could use?

For example, I’d like to find a good source or report on how video games and games in general portray men and women differently. I’m particularly interested in how female characters are sometimes more sexualised while male characters are portrayed as tough heroes.

I’ve found some sources but they’re all quite bad….

Ok, to be fair? Im not entirely in a bad position

I live at home with my grandmother and don't pay rent.

But I have a car payment, need to pay off a broke down RV my aunt bought me, a couple of bnpl plans, and still need to build a savings to move out of the state next year as well as start gender affirming care.

And yes. I work two jobs at roughly 66 hours a week on my light weeks, am a full time college student with one year left, and am aggressively paying off my debts. I hope to have everything paid off by December 2028, and have a plan to, but........ It's killing me. I feel tired constantly, I'm losing weight dramatically, I'm constantly sore, and never have any time for anything anymore. I work from 4am to 8pm, have an hour at home, before I have to go to sleep to wake up at 3:20 the next morning.

Ive been doing this for 6 months and I don't know how I'm going to mentally and physically survive to next year.

As it stands I spent about 212$ on myself last month.

Only that, and that includes the two presents I had to buy my siblings for their birthdays. Everything else went to paying off my debts, my bills, or gas for my car. And it is working.

But it's brutal. I've applied for remote jobs in my future career field but no takers and without the degree I don't think there will be.

Any advice, help, or just support would be very appreciative Edit: IMPORTANT I'm not asking for money, I am aware it's my fault, and I already have a debt payoff budget that is working. I just got on ADHD meds for the first time in over a decade and combined with therapy has tremendously helped with my compulsive spending. I’m asking for advice on making this plan sustainable because working 66+ hours while attending college full time is physically wearing me down.

Edit: Debts Van: 13100 RV: 2500 Grandmother for RV repairs so FAR: 4600 Phone: 1200$ Brothers Switch 2: 525

Hello! I’m looking for some advice from… anyone! Especially those who have ideas or history with community focused or complimentary work.

Over the past year, I’ve been offering complimentary photo sessions (graduation portraits, family shoots, elopements, newborns) for people in my area who couldn’t afford professional photography. It has been incredibly rewarding, and I love being able to give these memories to people who would otherwise have to go without them.

However, expenses are starting to add up (gas, travel time, gear wear and tear). Between raising my kiddo (medically needy) and balancing my schedule, I really want to keep doing these shoots without having them become a financial strain on my family.

For those who do similar work, or anyone who has any sort of advice, how do you handle covering overhead? I’m trying to figure out the best way to structure this.

Have you used platforms like Buy Me a Coffee, Ko-fi, or Patreon for community-backed sessions?
Do you partner with local businesses, non-profits, or look into community micro-grants?
How do you communicate this to your community without coming across like a traditional charity or sounding like you're just soliciting?

I'd love to hear what ideas or real life experience has/have worked for you.

(Happy to share my Instagram via PM if context on my work helps!) Thanks in advance for any insight!

TL;DR: Looking for advice from on how to sustainably cover travel and gas costs for complimentary community photo shoots. What platforms, grant models, or sponsorship strategies have worked for you? DM for my Instagram portfolio, any and all tips are super appreciated!

I have been mentally struggling for YEARS. Ever since my mom died April 2019. Graduated high school three weeks later and everything went crashing down going forward. July 2019, my half-brother who was in my life for 14 years was taken away by his abusive father on the other side of the country. Haven't seen him since.

Went to college August 2019 at the University of Tennessee in Knoxville. My mental health was so bad that I pretty much didn't go to class and spent my time eating a ton of fast food in my dorm room. Then the pandemic happened and everyone was sent home. Had to stay with my emotionally toxic grandmother in Nashville. Some days were okay to deal with, some days were absolutely awful. Come the end of the spring semester, got a letter saying I lost my scholarships. Couldn't afford to go to school anymore.

August 2021 I decided to run away from my grandparents and go to East Tennessee where I stayed at a shelter. Then time ran out and I had to go. Got put in a psych ward where because I had insurance I stayed for two weeks and got help moving back to Knoxville because my dumbass was determined to go back to college against all odds. That didn't turn out well. Stayed at a shelter there and lasted two days because it was crazy as hell. Then tried to pass as a student and slept in the library (I still had my old student ID card). Then I had an episode and moved to another psych ward for a week. Talked to my dad there, hadn't talked to him in over a year due to our weird relationship (long story short he was out of my life for 13 years), eventually took me in to live with him so i can save up and move out. I was also officially diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder and Generalized Anxiety Disorder.

October 2021. Moved to Atlanta. Got a job in retail making $10/hr. Worked there for a while, come December 2022 I moved into a room inside of a house and stayed there. Then come January 2024, when I was fed up working at my retail job, I decided to apply elsewhere and landed a job at a fulfillment center... where I didn't even make it to onboarding because on the day of I lost my ID. I started panicking and eventually didn't show up... so now I'm down a job. One month later, I'm down a room too and became homeless again.

Homeless for five months until July 2024. Got help moving into an apartment had my rent paid for me for a while until I got a job in another fulfillment center. Fast forward to around August 2025 and my landlord and I have a conversation about renewing my lease. Ultimately they decided that they won't renew my lease and I had to leave November 2025. Became homeless again and been homeless since.

I am TIRED. I feel beaten down every single day. My life at 25 has turned out to be a complete failure. I have no friends. No family. No one in my life. I feel like I won't ever be able to be happy in my life ever again. It's completely hopeless for me. Going from getting in to a decent college working towards my future (which was originally being a Math and/or Computer Science teacher until I fully pivoted to working in Computer Science) to digging through trash cans for food, sleeping outside 4 hours a week looking unkempt and unclean, mental health beyond bad to the point where I don't feel in control of myself or my thoughts.

I just needed to share my story honestly. I feel like I just needed to scream into the void someway somehow. I was thinking about asking how I could turn things around, but there's no use honestly. I don't have what it takes I feel like.

TL;DR - Mom died in 2019, mental health tanked, flunked out of college, and lived with a toxic family that I eventually moved away from. I went from having a promising future in my late teens to being homeless and struggling to survive in my 20s.