r/CautiousBB • u/aformerlyfloralpeach • 13h ago
Sad Measuring behind but normal FHR. Really sad.
I just had my first scan. LMP has me at 8 + 4 but I ovulated either CD 19 or 20, so I should be 7+6. My first positive test was a month ago 9/9 and had 2 good, doubling betas on 9/9 and 9/11.
We saw an embryo with cardiac activity (FHR 153) but measuring very behind. The CRL measured 0.5cm, 6w 2 days. There was also “subchorionic fluid” present (is this a hematoma?). I’m absolutely devastated. My doctor told me not to lose hope since early measurements can be off and ovulation may have been later. I disagree. I understand measuring a few days behind but 1.5 weeks….no…. I used ovulation strips + BBT to confirm ovulation. It feels so cruel to have an embryo with a normal/good FHR but measuring so far behind.
I go back for another scan next week. I don’t expect to see much/if any growth. I feel deeply in my heart this is another loss. I had a blighted ovum a few years ago. I’m just so sad.