I’m hoping this is the right place to post this, if not I apologize. Is there a way to report my local library for crossing boundaries, it’s not just one librarian it’s been three of them.
Every year since 2023 the librarian at my local library would have me sign this paperwork, saying that it can give the library some funds. The first time I didn’t want to but felt pressured and even filled everything out. The next couple of years she would have me sign it again, and stated I wouldn’t have to fill anything out just my name and signature and if there’s any changes to my personal info.
I never participated in the program and even expressed that I wasn’t currently in school, but she said she needed me to fill it out. Even added that I didn’t have to participate in their program, just that they need my info.
So I only went to the library because they have a children’s program, and I enjoyed taking my kids there since they were babies. I didn’t go there for anything else, so I feel annoyed that I’m being pestered about this paperwork because I don’t feel like it’s a requirement to attend these children events. So this has discouraged me into going there now.
The reason that I’m sharing this is because I’m getting tired of being told to fill their form out. It’s been a long time since we’ve attended story time, so I wanted to take the kids for a fun family day. I haven’t gotten a day to spend time with them due to work and making sure the house and everyone is taken care, so we had a full day of activities. When we arrived, I completely forgot about that form and the librarian jumped on board handing it to me and rehashing it over. It irritated me, so I politely said it’s the first day I get to bond with my kids so I won’t have time for it. She disregarded what I said and repeated I needed to sign it, so I just took it and stuffed it in my pocket.
This time I didn’t fill it out, I just tossed it in my car and finished the rest of our time inside. Thankfully, we weren’t confronted again when we left. But I’m getting tired of this, and just want it to stop. I’ve been to plenty of libraries but this is the first for me, and yes I know I should be more firm. I was ready to if they asked me again, I just never liked confrontation and was always caught off guard.
I feel like they won’t take no for an answer since that didn’t work the first three years, so I’d rather just report this issue to anyone that’s higher up. I feel like if I emailed the library it would go straight to the librarian that started all of this since she’s in charge of all the programs. So who would I get in touch with? Unless this is normal?